Parents should introduce new foods alongside foods the child already enjoys to reduce stress and resistance. A helpful mantra is 'parent provides, child decides,' meaning parents offer a variety of foods but let the child choose what to eat. Serving small portions of new foods with familiar favorites, like boiled eggs or grated cheese, can make the transition easier. Managing expectations and avoiding pressure are key, as it can take time for children to accept new foods.
Parents should listen to their teenager's perspective and understand their desire for self-expression and peer conformity. Instead of outright refusal, they can discuss the request openly and consider setting a review period, such as revisiting the decision in six months or a year. This approach fosters trust and reduces the likelihood of the teenager getting the piercing secretly. It's also important to balance parental values with the teenager's growing independence.
Establishing clear expectations and involving children in setting rules about screen time can help. Devices should be kept out of bedrooms to avoid interference with sleep due to blue light exposure. Parents should agree on specific times for device use, such as no screens during meals or conversations. Consistency and follow-through are crucial, and children are more likely to cooperate if they feel included in the decision-making process.
Children thrive on routine and predictability, so gradually reintroducing a consistent bedtime schedule is essential. Parents should identify what works well at bedtime and address specific issues causing arguments. Overtiredness often leads to resistance, so bringing bedtime earlier can help. Establishing consistent habits, such as reading a book or having a hot water bottle, can create a calming routine and reduce bedtime struggles.
Pressuring children to eat new foods can create stress and resistance, making them less likely to try new things. Children are sensitive to parental stress and may associate mealtime with negative emotions. Allowing them to decide what to eat from the options provided fosters a positive relationship with food and encourages gradual acceptance of new flavors and textures over time.
For this week’s Kids Health Check, Aoife Lee, Parenting Coach at ParentSupport.ie), joins Kieran to answer your parenting questions!