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Kids Health Check: Answering your parenting questions

2025/1/13
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Aoife Lee: 在帮助孩子尝试新食物方面,我的建议是家长提供食物,孩子决定是否食用。不要强迫孩子吃他们不喜欢的食物。可以尝试将新食物与孩子喜欢的食物一起上桌,营造轻松愉快的用餐氛围。这需要耐心,因为孩子接受新食物需要时间。重要的是管理好家长的期望,并鼓励孩子尝试他们喜欢的食物。 此外,要理解孩子挑食是正常的,他们可能有自己不喜欢吃的食物。家长应该尝试理解孩子的感受,并尊重孩子的喜好。 关于青少年想要穿耳洞的问题,家长应该倾听孩子的想法,理解他们的需求,而不是直接拒绝。可以考虑和孩子协商,例如设定一个时间期限再做决定。 在控制孩子屏幕时间方面,建议家长和孩子一起制定使用电子设备的规则和时间表,并坚持执行。鼓励孩子在非卧室区域使用电子设备,避免蓝光影响睡眠。 最后,关于调整孩子睡前习惯,建议建立规律的睡前习惯,并根据孩子的实际情况进行调整。如果孩子睡前过于兴奋,可以尝试提前睡,避免过度疲劳导致兴奋。 Kieran: (在节目中与Aoife Lee讨论了听众提出的问题,并引导讨论方向,但没有提出自己的核心观点。)

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What strategies can parents use to help a child with a limited diet try new foods?

Parents should introduce new foods alongside foods the child already enjoys to reduce stress and resistance. A helpful mantra is 'parent provides, child decides,' meaning parents offer a variety of foods but let the child choose what to eat. Serving small portions of new foods with familiar favorites, like boiled eggs or grated cheese, can make the transition easier. Managing expectations and avoiding pressure are key, as it can take time for children to accept new foods.

How should parents handle a teenager's request for a nose piercing?

Parents should listen to their teenager's perspective and understand their desire for self-expression and peer conformity. Instead of outright refusal, they can discuss the request openly and consider setting a review period, such as revisiting the decision in six months or a year. This approach fosters trust and reduces the likelihood of the teenager getting the piercing secretly. It's also important to balance parental values with the teenager's growing independence.

What are effective ways to limit children's screen time without causing tantrums?

Establishing clear expectations and involving children in setting rules about screen time can help. Devices should be kept out of bedrooms to avoid interference with sleep due to blue light exposure. Parents should agree on specific times for device use, such as no screens during meals or conversations. Consistency and follow-through are crucial, and children are more likely to cooperate if they feel included in the decision-making process.

How can parents reintroduce a bedtime routine after the holidays?

Children thrive on routine and predictability, so gradually reintroducing a consistent bedtime schedule is essential. Parents should identify what works well at bedtime and address specific issues causing arguments. Overtiredness often leads to resistance, so bringing bedtime earlier can help. Establishing consistent habits, such as reading a book or having a hot water bottle, can create a calming routine and reduce bedtime struggles.

Why is it important to avoid pressuring children to eat new foods?

Pressuring children to eat new foods can create stress and resistance, making them less likely to try new things. Children are sensitive to parental stress and may associate mealtime with negative emotions. Allowing them to decide what to eat from the options provided fosters a positive relationship with food and encourages gradual acceptance of new flavors and textures over time.

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For this week’s Kids Health Check, Aoife Lee, Parenting Coach at ParentSupport.ie), joins Kieran to answer your parenting questions!