The speaker's life is filled with regular work and they are suffering from various pressures, leaving no free time to maintain relationships or meet new people.
The speaker desires a slow pace of life, a decent job, and enough freedom or leisure time to make their day perfect.
The speaker is no longer naive or young and has become independent both psychologically and physically, focusing on simplicity and self-sufficiency.
In the past, the speaker might have met new friends when taking part in some parties or social gatherings.
Maintaining the relationship refers to keeping up with interpersonal connections, which the speaker finds challenging due to a lack of free time.
*参加聚会的时候 when taking part in some parties生活不易 my life is filled with regular work and I am suffering too*维持关系 maintain the relationship **这就是我的一天 all of these would make my day