Deep Dive
Why did the guest '爆爆' feel embarrassed about her past crush?
爆爆 felt embarrassed because she was very proactive in pursuing her crush during high school, such as arranging her bike next to his and joining the same basketball club, but it didn't lead to any results. She later felt that her actions were too forward and made her feel ashamed.
What impact did '爆爆's past crush have on her current relationships?
爆爆 mentioned that her past crush made her hesitant in current relationships. Even if she is in an ambiguous relationship, she can't be sure if the other person likes her, and she won't take the initiative to confirm it. This uncertainty stems from her past experiences.
What is '小帕's biggest achievement in recent years?
小帕's biggest achievement in recent years is completing what she calls '精神弑父' (spiritual patricide), which means she has mentally freed herself from her father's influence and expectations, particularly his disappointment that she wasn't born a boy.
How did '小帕's father's attitude affect her self-perception?
小帕's father often expressed his disappointment that she wasn't a boy, which led her to develop a deep self-hatred and rejection of her female identity. She struggled with accepting herself as a woman for a long time.
What challenges do female esports players face according to 'Shiyu'?
Shiyu highlighted that female esports players face significant challenges, including being overlooked by clubs, assumptions that their achievements are due to male players, and lack of support and training opportunities. These factors contribute to the underrepresentation of women in professional esports.
Why did '耶耶's mother decide to quit drinking?
耶耶's mother decided to quit drinking because she realized that she wanted to focus on herself and her own happiness. She mentioned that she could use the money saved from drinking to buy clothes and cosmetics, and she felt that the most important person in her life was herself.
What challenges does '韩夏' face as a female director?
韩夏 faces challenges as a female director because her personality is naturally more timid and less assertive, which contrasts with the stereotypical image of a decisive and commanding director. She has had to work on being less smiley and more authoritative on set.
Why did '孙书悦' choose to focus on theater acting?
孙书悦 chose theater acting because she felt insecure about her appearance in the highly appearance-focused world of television and film. She believed that the distance of the stage would make her less self-conscious about her looks compared to the close-up scrutiny of the camera.
- 主动追求男生，结果不尽如人意
- 暗恋经历影响了亲密关系的相处模式
- 只有主动争取的感情才是好的
- 学会承担后果，直接表达爱意
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