Woman Evolve Replay: Surrender Your Expectations in Relationships w Kobe Campbell
Woman Evolve with Sarah Jakes Roberts
Deep Dive
Why did Kobe Campbell start a podcast with her husband about healing?
She realized the transformative impact therapy had on her husband and wanted to share that journey publicly, which led to unexpected personal growth and the need for her own healing.
How does Kobe Campbell describe the impact of her husband's therapy on their relationship?
His therapy illuminated her own patterns of emotional entitlement and misogyny, challenging her to share emotional space equally and confront her own healing needs.
What are the five categories of imposter syndrome according to Dr. Valerie Young?
The five categories are the perfectionist, the superwoman, the natural genius, the soloist, and the expert. Each category manifests differently in terms of self-perception and behavior.
Why does Kobe Campbell feel uncomfortable when people compliment her?
She feels vulnerable because compliments highlight her intimate, authentic self being seen by others, which can be unsettling due to past experiences of not being trusted or believed.
What does Kobe Campbell believe we need to surrender to live a life of freedom and wholeness?
She believes we need to surrender certainty about life, relationships, identity, and God, embracing curiosity and openness to learn and be proven wrong.
How does Kobe Campbell view the role of trauma in relationships?
She sees trauma as a filter through which we interpret our partner's actions and emotional states, often leading to misinterpretations and heightened sensitivity.
What advice does Kobe Campbell give for identifying when trauma is influencing our perceptions?
She suggests examining automatic expectations and when they started, as well as recognizing patterns in statements like 'this always happens' or 'I can never.'
How does Kobe Campbell define humility?
She defines humility as staying in the assigned position God has placed you, not downplaying your greatness, and being grateful for the blessings and compliments you receive.