Nina felt the need to prove herself due to the pervasive sense of being a 'fraud' that many women experience in professional settings. This feeling persisted until her fifties, driven by the constant pressure to demonstrate her competence and worth in a male-dominated field.
Nina learned to manage her temper by recognizing the physical and emotional toll of losing it. She adopted the strategy of walking away when feeling the urge to explode, which helped her avoid saying things she would later regret.
Nina's approach involved maintaining a professional distance and not engaging in personal relationships that could compromise her objectivity. She also cultivated relationships with retired justices to gain historical insights without influencing current court dynamics.
Nina handled the backlash by staying true to her journalistic integrity, refusing to reveal her sources, and relying on her experience and support from colleagues and family to navigate the intense public and political scrutiny.
Nina would advise her younger self to calm down and not be so pushy, trusting that she would succeed. She would also encourage herself to embrace a more confident self-image, acknowledging her own attractiveness and accomplishments.
Nina views the current judicial system with concern, particularly the lack of a centrist balance on the Supreme Court. She believes the court's shift towards extreme conservatism is dangerous and reflects her own political views that a balanced center is essential for a healthy democracy.
Nina considers the wisdom and experience gained over decades as the best part of being her age. However, she also acknowledges the realization that life is finite and the challenges that come with aging, such as health scares and the need for physical therapy.
Nina's friendship with Ruth Bader Ginsburg evolved over decades, rooted in their shared experiences as accomplished women striving for recognition in male-dominated fields. They bonded over their mutual struggle to break through professional barriers and their shared ambition.
Today on Wiser Than Me, Julia sits down with legendary legal affairs correspondent Nina Totenberg. Nina is one of the founding mothers of NPR and has been covering the Supreme Court for over 50 years, longer than any justice has sat on the bench. Julia asks Nina about her friendship with the late Ruth Bader Ginsburg, balancing relationships across political lines, and the emotional toll of long-term caretaking. Plus, Judith, Julia's 90-year-old mother, tells a story about how attitudes towards women’s ambition have changed in her lifetime. Follow Wiser Than Me on Instagram) and TikTok) @wiserthanme and on Facebook at facebook.com/wiserthanmepodcast). Keep up with Nina Totenberg @NinaTotenberg) on X. Find out more about other shows on our network at @lemonadamedia on all social platforms. Joining Lemonada Premium is a great way to support our show and get bonus content. Subscribe today at bit.ly/lemonadapremium). For exclusive discount codes and more information about our sponsors, visit https://lemonadamedia.com/sponsors/).
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