Ira Glass considers the memory significant because it was one of the rare moments his father took the time to teach him something directly. His father was usually preoccupied with work and not very involved in imparting life lessons, making this moment stand out as a rare instance of focused attention and guidance.
Ira's father had to stand behind him and reach around to demonstrate the shaving technique, which was unusual because they rarely had physical contact. This intimate moment was out of character for their typically distant relationship.
Ira learned that his father, who grew up without a father himself, struggled to understand what a son might need from a father. Despite his efforts, he was often emotionally distant and preoccupied with work, which shaped Ira's own tendencies to pull away from others.
Jackie was surprised because the obituary credited E. Bryant Crutchfield as the inventor of the Trapper Keeper, while she believed her father, John Wyant, was the true inventor. This discrepancy led her to investigate and challenge the narrative.
John Wyant designed the Trapper Keeper, including its shape, folders, flap closure, logo, and even the plastic clipboard with a pencil holder. He also came up with the name 'Trapper Keeper' during a martini-fueled lunch with Crutchfield.
Crutchfield's children acknowledged that their father was a talker who often played up his role in things. They admitted it was plausible he took more credit than he deserved but emphasized he wasn't malicious, just self-promotional.
Wolf 8, a yearling, adopted and cared for pups from another pack after their father was killed. He hunted for them, brought them food, and became an alpha male in their pack, a behavior rarely documented in wolves.
During a confrontation between their packs, Wolf 21 intentionally ran past Wolf 8 without attacking, turning the battle into a chase. This clever move prevented a deadly fight and saved his father's life.
Simon's great-grandfather described a time before online dating, where couples met in person without exchanging nudes or knowing much about each other. Their first date involved awkward conversations, shared memes performed in person, and a spontaneous high-five after finding a restaurant.
Simon's great-grandfather admitted that he and his wife had affairs with advanced sex robots in the 2050s. These robots were so persuasive that the UN had to regulate the industry to ensure people left their homes and maintained societal functions.
Things our dads taught us, whether they intended to or not.
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