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Build Amazing Habits: Simple Steps to Break Bad Habits & Make Good Ones Stick

2024/10/12
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Mel Robbins
一位专注于领导力和个人成长的著名_motivational speaker_和播客主持人。
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Mel Robbins在播客中分享了关于习惯养成的科学知识,以及如何打破坏习惯并养成好习惯的策略。她指出,改变习惯的关键不在于意志力,而在于掌握正确的策略和方法,建立简单的系统来帮助人们用新的习惯取代旧的习惯。她强调,大多数人对习惯的理解存在误区,他们往往高估了自身意志力,低估了系统和策略的重要性。她还指出,养成新习惯所需时间并非固定21天,而是因人而异,平均约为66天,偶尔中断不会影响整体进程。她认为,改变习惯需要关注习惯的三个组成部分:触发因素、行为模式和奖励。奖励机制对于巩固习惯至关重要,合适的奖励能够触发大脑释放多巴胺,从而形成习惯回路,减少行为的阻力。她建议人们分析自身习惯的触发因素、行为模式和奖励机制,并找到合适的替代行为和奖励,以有效改变习惯。她还强调,设定目标时,需要设定每日奖励,而非最终目标的奖励,并建议人们与他人一起设定目标,互相鼓励,以增强动力。最后,她鼓励人们像他们想要成为的那个人一样行动,并利用科学的方法来改变自己的行为,建立支持性系统来帮助自己养成良好的习惯。

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Mel Robbins explains why struggling to change habits is normal and not a personal failure. She introduces the concept of missing systems and strategies to make habits stick.
  • You are not the problem; missing systems and strategies are.
  • Habits are patterns of behavior that repeat unless replaced.
  • The science of habits can simplify behavior change.

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If you struggle to make new habits stick, you are not the problem.

You've just been missing the right tools and strategies to make real change happen. 

In this episode, you’re going to learn the simple ways to break bad habits and form new ones.

Mel is revealing the 3 biggest mistakes you are likely making when trying to change your behavior and why it’s not about willpower.

She is breaking down the science of habit formation so you can finally understand why your bad habits keep holding you back—and how to flip the script.

This is a comprehensive toolkit that will help you apply the research to your life and take the exact steps you need to make lasting change.

This episode will help you beat your next urge to doom scroll, snack, smoke, or self-sabotage. 

This is the breakthrough you've been waiting for!

If you want more science-backed hacks for more confidence and productivity, listen to this episode next: 4 Habits for Energy, Productivity, & Happiness That Changed My Life (Science-Backed))

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