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#299 Why We Always Want More (Hedonic Adaptation)

2024/11/20
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Michael Lavers: 在这次播客中,我主要探讨了享乐适应(hedonic adaptation)的概念,以及它如何影响我们对快乐和满足感的追求。我以自己骑车环岛台湾的经历为例,说明了即使在经历了极度挑战和痛苦后,人们也会很快适应新的常态,并开始寻找新的目标。 我分享了几个例子来说明享乐适应的普遍性,例如购买新手机、搬到新地方、获得加薪或晋升、学习新技能等。这些例子都说明,最初的兴奋感会随着时间的推移而逐渐消退,新的状态会变成日常,人们会开始追求新的目标和满足感。 在语言学习方面,享乐适应也同样存在。学习者在达到一个新的水平后,会很快将目标转向更高的水平,而不会满足于现状。这是一种持续的追求,但如果不注意,可能会导致挫败感和缺乏动力。 为了应对享乐适应,我提出了一些建议,包括: 练习感恩:定期反思自己取得的成就和进步,并对所拥有的一切心存感激。 庆祝小的胜利:关注学习过程中的小进步和成就,而不是只关注最终目标。 改变日常习惯:定期调整学习方法和习惯,以保持学习的乐趣和动力。 练习正念:专注于当下,欣赏自己所拥有的一切。 定期休息和反思:定期休息,以新的视角看待自己的生活和工作。 总而言之,享乐适应是人类本性的一部分,无法完全避免。但通过练习感恩、庆祝小的胜利、改变日常习惯、练习正念和定期休息和反思,我们可以更好地应对享乐适应,保持快乐和满足感,并持续追求进步。

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What is hedonic adaptation and how does it affect happiness?

Hedonic adaptation, also known as the hedonic treadmill, is the tendency for humans to return to a stable level of happiness after experiencing positive or negative life changes. For example, winning the lottery might bring temporary joy, but people quickly adapt to their new wealth and return to their baseline happiness, often finding new things to desire or be unhappy about.

Why does the excitement of new experiences fade over time?

The excitement of new experiences fades due to hedonic adaptation. Whether it's buying a new phone, moving to a new country, or starting a new hobby, the initial novelty wears off as the experience becomes part of daily life. This is why people often seek new challenges or goals to regain that sense of excitement.

How does hedonic adaptation impact language learning?

In language learning, hedonic adaptation occurs when learners achieve a new level of proficiency, such as reaching B1, but quickly shift their focus to the next goal, like B2, without fully appreciating their progress. This creates a cycle where learners are never fully satisfied with their achievements, always striving for the next milestone.

What strategies can help overcome hedonic adaptation?

Strategies to overcome hedonic adaptation include practicing gratitude, celebrating small wins, changing routines to avoid monotony, practicing mindfulness, and taking breaks to reflect. These approaches help individuals appreciate what they have and stay motivated by focusing on the present rather than constantly seeking more.

How does hedonic adaptation relate to financial habits?

Hedonic adaptation affects financial habits by causing people to increase their spending to match their income. For example, after a promotion, individuals might start buying more expensive items or dining out more frequently, which prevents them from accumulating wealth. This phenomenon highlights the importance of mindful spending and financial awareness.

What is the significance of mindfulness in combating hedonic adaptation?

Mindfulness helps combat hedonic adaptation by encouraging individuals to focus on the present moment and appreciate what they have. By paying closer attention to their surroundings and experiences, people can find more joy in their current circumstances rather than constantly seeking new sources of happiness.

How does taking breaks help in overcoming hedonic adaptation?

Taking breaks allows individuals to step back from their routines and view their lives with fresh eyes. This reflection helps them appreciate their achievements and experiences, reducing the urge to constantly seek more. For example, returning from a vacation can provide a new perspective on work and daily habits.

Shownotes Transcript

In my last episode, I spoke about my cycling trip to Taiwan. While there, I had a lot of time alone to think to myself with no distractions. In this episode today, I'm going to share some of the things I was thinking about.One of these was the idea of Hedonic Adaptation (also known as the Hedonic Treadmill). This is something that we all face as humans and might just be the key to understanding how to be happy and content.It's a really useful topic when it comes to being happy with what you have and not always feeling bad about what you don't - such as feeling bad for not being good enough at English. Let's find out more.Show notes page - https://levelupenglish.school/podcast299)

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