The Divorce Expert: Slippage Is Tearing Marriages Apart! If Kids Are Your Top Priority & You Spot This You’ll Divorce In 1-3 Years!
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Deep Dive
Why do most marriages end in divorce?
Most marriages end in divorce due to 'slippage,' where small, unaddressed issues accumulate over time, leading to significant relationship deterioration.
What is the core message James Sexton would give to everyone about relationships?
The core message is that the hard thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same. People should focus on acknowledging and addressing issues promptly rather than avoiding them.
Why did James Sexton choose to write his thesis on the subject of death?
Sexton chose to write his thesis on death because he grew up in an environment where death was a constant presence due to his mother's rare cancer. This experience made him familiar with the concept of mortality and its inevitability.
How does James Sexton view life and its purpose?
Sexton views life as a game that can't be won, where the only certainties are birth and death. He believes that while love and relationships are risky, they are also necessary and beautiful parts of life.
What role does acceptance play in dealing with relationship endings?
Acceptance involves acknowledging the reality of the situation and softening one's resistance to it. It's about understanding that every ending is a beginning of something new and embracing the transition.
Why do people struggle with uncertainty in life?
People struggle with uncertainty because it is mentally taxing and uncomfortable. They prefer knowing outcomes, even if the certainty is negative, as it provides a sense of control and predictability.
What is James Sexton's most controversial opinion?
Sexton's most controversial opinion is that having children should not be the greatest accomplishment or the most important thing in a person's life. He believes there should be a higher purpose beyond mere reproduction.
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