Josh Potter [PATREON PREVIEW]
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Hey, what's going on, stuff? Huge fan. So I'm running into a bit of an issue here, a bit of an identity crisis. I'm 21, about to turn 22, and, you know, done some soul searching, and I've realized I'm bisexual. Nice. I've kind of come out to myself, but nobody else yet. And I'm trying to navigate a way I can pull that up to my girlfriend without it kind of blowing up my life.

some context uh my girlfriend and i have been dating for almost five years this year you know we're in a really good relationship we both really enjoy each other and we plan on staying in a relationship we're obviously pretty serious but it's kind of hard to bring that up um you know can you just pause there's no easy way to say this but it's

I get five years, but I also think that there's a way to do this. Of course there is, but let me, I'll, here's my gut reaction to the first part of this question and maybe it gets addressed later. He says he's 22. He's been somebody for five years. He just found out he's bisexual and he wants to stay in a relationship with this woman. Um,

You started dating when you were fucking 16? That part of your life is... You are a... I mean, the fact that they've stayed together that long and hopefully they both still feel the same way about each other. Like, obviously, he loves this woman. Yeah, of course. So, like...

To grow through that whole metamorphosis from 16 to 22, I mean, that is like literally you are a different person. Yeah, no, it's insane. So my gut feeling is you're a gay man and you have a really good friend that let you fuck her for five years. But I don't want to be biphobic and let's finish the question. And you also could just be a bi man who has a cool friend that was, you know,

But he seems like he wants to get a little cock. If you're bi, like, why do you need to bring it up? That's what I... You know what I'm saying? Like, here's the thing. I'm a hetero man. I'm sorry. But I... Give us a sec. Give us some time. But if you're... Podcast isn't over. It's a spectrum. But if you're bi and you're in a happy relationship with one of the two sides, like, what does it matter then is my point, I guess? I think because they're so different that it's like, you know...

It's like, you know, if you fucking... Because that means you're just going to say, I want to fuck someone else, though. Because it's like, yeah, exactly. It's like, I definitely want to, especially if this guy hasn't fucked a guy, you know, it's like, come on, he's got to suck a little cock. Sure. But let's, why don't we, let's hear him out, let's hear the whole thing, even though it's a little long. Like, if I sit her down and be like, hey, I know that we've been in love and having amazing sex for five years, and if that's taught me anything, it's that I think I want to also suck cock.

I'm having a bit of an identity crisis. I'm like, well, I'm already in kind of a heteronormative relationship. You know, my grandpa was a Vietnam vet. My dad was an Air Force vet. And just kind of the environment that I'm in isn't necessarily one that's super accepting of that anyway. But kind of living with this

kind of secret that I've known about myself for a pretty long time anyways is starting to weigh on me. And I, you know, I feel like I owe it to my girlfriend to at least tell her. And I feel like she'd be very supportive. Like, it's not like I want to even have sex with somebody else besides her, be in a relationship with somebody else besides her. I'm just kind of struggling on how to bring up this piece of my identity that is, you know, so important to me, even though it's, I've kind of convinced myself it's contextually, you

unnecessary given the way my life is set up right now being and you know I'm a pretty straight passing dude anyway but I won't lie kind of definitely starting to gnaw away at me especially now I'm becoming a little bit of a young adult yeah so just want to get your advice on that I figured it'd be kind of an interesting interesting kind of question to bring up thank you love

Love the show. Keep it up. So this is, I think this is kind of simple actually. Okay. Like he's like, if this was a less intense, like you said, the timeframe in which they've been together, that's an intense timeframe. He's scared of like losing this person in any capacity. And so he thinks if he were to bring this up to her, she'll get freaked out and he won't have her anymore. And he doesn't want that, but he just wants, it's like a kink thing for him. So yeah,

I think you could ease into this because you are so comfortable with this person in the dirty talk department, blah, blah, blah. Like, make it seem like you're, you'd bring in a cock for her. No, this is horrible. This is horrible advice. You both suck a cock together. You're like, whoa. Can't you share the experience? Hey.

This is pretty good. You're like, well, I thought I was fully straight. But this is pretty awesome. You suck. I feel like you turned me gay. I wasn't bi before this bitch. It's the cock I brought in for you that turned me gay. I'm just saying. Can you leave?

I'm just saying, what better way to do that than to share it with her? That is true. And look. Want to suck a cock together? I don't know. Is that crazy? And maybe that is, you know, and this is big. This is actually big because, you know, I definitely, in my dream scenario, I have a wife that fucks girls. Yes. And every once in a while to treat ourselves, we get a little pussy as a unit, right? But I like the idea that this would go the other way. Sure.

That's not celebrated enough. The bi man with a straight woman who gets a little extra cock herself. Baby, I love you. You're my everything. The sex is great. But like, what if we just both suck the dick? Yeah, that sounds kind of romantic. Yeah. Lady and the tramp started his balls. You start his ball. She starts at the head. You guys meet in the middle and kiss. You have a great jizz filled kiss at the end.

sharing a deep... Yeah, no, they do. Instead of spaghetti, it's cum. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.