cover of episode Ep 26: BDSM Basics – Breakups (the bad kind of pain)

Ep 26: BDSM Basics – Breakups (the bad kind of pain)

2023/6/22
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Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast

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Been ghosted by your Dom? Did a kinky relationship end abruptly and you're left pining? Breakups are always tough – in BDSM, they're tougher. Trust and consent are such fundamental components of any dynamic that a rupturing of these things can feel devastating. It's abandonment, but without the play. Don't fret, though, co-hosts Anna and Gregor are here to walk you through the healing process, so you can get back to indulging the kinks you love. Timestamps:

  • Intro [00:00:00] 
  • When your kinky partner breaks it off [00:05:07] 
  • Ghosting – forget the idea of closure [00:07:09] 
  • When a breach of trust ruins a dynamic [00:10:26]
  • Do the impossible: forgive [00:13:17]

 

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