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How Animals Really Communicate & Proven Ways to Make Meaningful Connections

2024/8/5
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Mike Carruthers: 本节目讨论了寻求医学第二诊疗意见的价值,以及动物交流和建立良好社会联系的科学原理。寻求第二诊疗意见可以带来新的诊断或改进现有的诊断,医生通常鼓励病人这样做。 动物交流的方式多种多样,从简单的宣示领地或求偶到复杂的社会信息传递。狼的嚎叫是远距离交流的方式,而海豚的交流则反映了其复杂的社会结构。一些鹦鹉能够理解语言的语法和含义,但它们在野外并不使用这种能力。 建立良好社会联系对身心健康至关重要,其重要性与饮食、运动等生活方式因素相当。人们常常因为各种心理障碍而难以建立联系,例如“好感差距”、害怕被拒绝以及不敢深入交流等。克服这些障碍的关键在于提高自我认知,并积极主动地与他人建立联系。 Arik Kirschenbaum: 动物交流并非人类语言的简单复制,而是为了解决动物面临的问题和支持它们的社会互动而进化出来的。动物交流的方式从简单到复杂不等,简单的交流方式例如宣示领地或求偶,而生活在复杂社会中的动物,例如狼、海豚和黑猩猩,需要更复杂的交流方式来传递社会信息。狼的嚎叫是远距离交流的方式,用于保持联系、宣示领地以及表达社会情感。海豚的交流方式反映了其复杂的社会结构。一些鹦鹉能够理解语言的语法和含义,但它们在野外并不使用这种能力。 David Robson: 建立良好社会联系对身心健康至关重要,但人们常常因为各种心理障碍而难以建立联系,例如“好感差距”、害怕被拒绝以及不敢深入交流等。克服这些障碍的关键在于提高自我认知,并积极主动地与他人建立联系。人们往往低估了别人对自己的好感程度,不敢赞美别人,不敢在谈话中深入探讨私密的想法和感受。克服这些障碍需要练习,例如与陌生人交谈,并积极主动地与他人建立联系。此外,自我同情也是克服这些障碍的重要方法。

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Should you get a second opinion? A lot of people faced with a medical diagnosis often wonder about that. Will they offend the original doctor if they ask for a second opinion? Is it really necessary? Is it worth the trouble? Listen as I explain the value of a second opinion. https://www.yalemedicine.org/news/second-opinions)

We know animals communicate – but what are they communicating? When a wolf howls or a dolphin clicks, or a cricket chirps – what is it saying? Is it a language that can be translated or is it just noise to say, “Here I am!” Or is it something else entirely? And here is something interesting – we can teach our language to chimps and parrots – and they are able to use it. But they don’t use it when they are with another chimp or parrot who can also speak our language. Why not? Here to explain the science of animal communication is Arik Kirschebaum. He is a zoologist, college lecturer and fellow at Girton College, University of Cambridge and he has done extensive fieldwork on animal communication. He is author of the book Why Animals Talk: The New Science of Animal Communication (https://amzn.to/3LN4fwe))

It's easy to think that loneliness and lack of social connections is a 21st century thing – but it’s not. Research going back decades shows that people have long felt they didn’t have enough friends and connections. Given that we are social creatures who crave connection, why is it so hard to make real friends? Maybe it isn’t. Maybe we just think it is. That’s what David Robson is here to discuss. He says that once we understand the barriers to connecting to other people, they are easy to overcome. David is an award-winning science writer and the author of the book The Laws of Connection: The Scientific Secrets of Building a Strong Social Network (https://amzn.to/3ynUTDZ).)

Have you ever struggled with how to end an email? “Sincerely” sounds a bit formal. “Cheers” may be a little too informal. So, what’s best – and worst? Listen as I explain some popular email sign offs that you might want to avoid. https://www.grammarly.com/blog/how-to-end-an-email/)

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