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What this of energizes first wedding together? Yes, this was the first time I was meeting all his friends from michigan.

Was he like, really excited for you to meet them?

No, I don't think so. This was something he did all the time, but I was like, I picked up my outfit. I grab B A little ballack dress and he said, you're wearing black to a wedding.

I said, it's a little black dress. That's what everybody does. You can't wear that to this wedding.

You're gona embarrassed me. Okay, what do you want me to wear? You have to wear derby attire. I said I don't have derby attire 哦。

because I was like a themed wedding.

IT wasn't. No, that's just what he said. He just wanted to make me feel self conscious and bad about myself in these little ways.

In hindi, what do you think he was trying to achieve through that?

I think a lot of IT had to do with his own insecurities. And big part of that too, is that he did not want me feeling comfortable around his friends in michigan, and he didn't want me talking to them. That was something I definitely noticed his friends were coming up to of the wedding.

He was introducing me. And they all seemed surprised that he brought a date that he had somebody. He was referring, his, his girlfriend. They asked how long we had been together when, think at the time I was two and a half years.

And they looked at me kind of strange when they asked him where he was living, which I thought was odd, because these were his best friends. Why wouldn't they know where you're living? He said, well, I have a place in chicago.

I'm keeping my bacher pad, but we're in the suburbs. He had to tell everybody that i've got frustrated with him during the wedding. Ask, why do you have to mention to everyone that you have a bachelor pad? That's really embarrassing to me because we have been together two and a half years and you won't give up this apartment.

That was something we are always arguing about. So for him to bring that up over and over and over again at the wedding was very frustrating to me. You want to the cool, which is a big thing for josh.

He was very worried about how he appeared. Other people, they probably all assumed that he was also helping me. And he wasn't got very drunk at the wedding.

They were playing flip cup. They were like, o, come play. And the first I was like, no, no, you guys go ahead. No, no, no, we made a spot for you can play so I go over and i'm playing with them.

We played the first round and it's a huge table like there had to be thirty people or more on one side playing flip cup. So was a long game, a long round. And after the first round, I had to go to the bathroom and josh was across the table and a few people down, so I couldn't talk to him very easily.

I had IT towards the bathroom and you had to go down the hill because this wedding was outside. I got to the bathroom and I picked up my phone and I had a miscall from josh. So I come back.

And so what's up? I'm just in the bathroom is like, I was screaming your name it's very loud here that music playing there was a tone of people there was outside and said, I didn't hear you. He's a girl are lying I said, no, i'm not lying.

I'm in the bathroom. I'll be right back so I come back and theyve already started the second round of flip cup. So I grab a drink and i'm standing IT like a cocktail table in the other people doing the same thing and watching them play.

And he sees me. And after that round, he like motions to me that he wants to have a cigarette. I need to walk with him.

I walk up to him. We walk over and he goes, what are you doing? I said, nothing watching you play.

So you're being so weird. So how my being weird is like you're not talking to anybody, which wasn't true. I have been talking to people on night.

I had multiple conversations with people, talked about kids and were all kinds of stuff. I sugi I am. He's like, no, you're being weird. It's weird that you wouldn't come over and cheer me on while i'm playing flip cup. And I said, josh, i'm not doing anything wrong and he's like, you know what, i'm putting you in uber and you're going home and at this point I like dumped my foot.

I said, no, i'm not going home and home would be his parents house by myself so I leave for a wedding with him and then I come back home without him to his parents house like, no, i'm not doing that, josh. After I stopped my foot, he said, you're getting violent and he grab me by the ARM and he dragged me down the hill. I'm josh.

Stop, stop and he's very drunk. We get to the bomb, the hill. We're like people are getting picked up by uber and he's on his phone.

I said, josh, let's just go back. Let's cool off. Go back.

Nobody know. It's all fine. No, i'm done with you here. You're not staying here I said i'm not going back to your parents house that's not happening and I started walking to get distance from him and he's chasing after me like you're walking in the street, which wasn't true.

I keep going and a car poles up and they're jw a and I said, no, he doesn't need a uber and the guy drove away. He got so many at me, started screaming that I was ruining the wedding. I was ruining his time.

He was everything done with me. He said, now we're onna walk home. We're walking home.

I'm done with you. You've ruined the wedding. You've ruined IT for everybody.

I don't get to see his friends son at this wedding now because of you. I thinking to nobody hear this, but there was nobody. Everybody was back at the wedding and I was very loud.

And IT was the middle the night that was like in a michigan suburb, there was nobody out. He screamed at me the whole way back to his parents house. He was, i'm done with you.

I'm going to leave you here in michigan. You're gonna have to find your own way home. I cried the whole walk home.

I was like over a mile. I'm crying because i've also been drinking. I'm exhausted. I now think i'm being left in michigan. Don't know how i'm gonna get home.

We have to go back to his parents house, so I have to look them in the eye. And when we walked in the door, his mom was up and always on his face changes and he starts having a Normal conversation with his mom. He's like, we just decided to walk home.

IT was nice outside, so we just want to get some air you you like, okay, well, that sounds nice. I want to go to bed now that I know your homework. Fe, so SHE goes up to bed and then his face changes again and he's back to being mad at me.

We go up stairs. I'm crying again because I wasn't trying to cry from his mom. And like, josh, please don't do this, please.

Like, no, i've had enough of you. I don't want to see you ever going. I'm going back to my apartment.

You're never gna seen me again. And then he falls asleep up all night texting my mom. Like mom, he got really drunk.

He says, he's gona leave me here. I don't know what to do. She's like, does he Normally get this angry when he's drunk?

I said, he's never really the drunk. This is the first time i've seen him this drunk. She's like, maybe in the morning he will snap out of IT.

Some people don't handle their alcohol really well in the morning. He was so mad, I just kept apologizing. I am sorry, I didn't mean to be weird.

I didn't mean to do this to you. He said, it's fine, will go to brunch. They were all texting me asking why you were causing a scene, which I don't think we did cause of.

See, nobody seem to notice. And if they did hear, why wasn't anybody intervening at that time? Because I was just him screaming at me. I don't think he ever acted this way in front of other people.

I think he felt comfortable doing IT at the wedding because a, he was drunk and IT was so loud that I don't think anybody notice that I don't think his friends did text him, but he made me apologized to everybody at the brunch for leaving so early because I drank too much and I like odds fine. I don't think anybody noticed we were gone, probably a couple people that was almost midnight. IT wasn't weird to go home.

I think he wanted to make me feel like they noticed and that they thought I was weird and IT was weird that we left early. He wanted to point that out. We came home the next day.

We never took long trips. He wouldn't take off work. We would go for a weekend thing, and that was at the right home.

I remember crying and he, we don't have to talk about IT. It's fine. I forgive you.

It's fine. I said, I forgive you. And I remember thinking like, I don't know if I forgive you. I felt horrible. And even if I had done something wrong, the things he said in the way he screamed at me was not justified. And I knew that that point in our relationship is when I saw this anger in him that was different, and I started walking on eg. Shelves even more than .

I already had been. Here's Rachel.

My cousin l went to a wedding, and a lot of these guys, I have been friends for a very long time. I was there with her husband, and SHE texted me and said, you'll never believe that, but justice here and he brought the which josh had told us that he was a little, which we talked about IT the next time I saw her, and he told me he was so much fun to hang out with. I talk to her for by a while.

And josh had been very mean her a few times during the wedding. Eleven said at a certain point that he felt really bad for any, because any seemed really nervous and overwhelmed with everything that was going on, which I totally get IT. If you show up to a friends wedding, it's like your boyfriend of two years, his high school friends wedding, and no one even knows who you are, that's going to feel extremely awkward and confusing.

I completely trusted as perspective on IT and was kind like, i'll see what he is actually like if I am a meeting her again. At some point, judge was still completely gone, not talking to me. I was somewhat angry too, because you goes me.

You never respond to my offer to hang out with me and my mom when i'm trying to be a good friend and be there for you when you're saying you've been extremely depressed. And then he just fell off of the face of the earth for another six months. And then this girlfriend, who he told me was a like one month flying, is back in the picture.

Then I started to wonder, did SHE ever leave, or did he reconnect with her? I wasn't sure I didn't reach out to him. I figured that I will see him eventually, and I will come front him about IT.

But I don't have the time and energy to pour more into this. I just thought he ended up being one of those people who gets into a serious relationship and goes into a black hole. And you never really see here here from the, I think IT has to do with like self worth, self team. They feel like they really need that person in their life to feel worthy and and I often time to think there's attachment issues that developed and are a play there.

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that one thing started escalating in how he would argue with me in the way he would talk to me. He was pushing the boundaries to see what I would accept. The michigan wedding really showed him what I would tolerate, and he knew he could push me more and more.

So he would start arguments and rip his shirt off, like the incredible hall he would pull, hit at the color and rip the whole thing down the middle. And IT would be like, this is what you made me do. I can control myself and i'm around you because you are so frustrating to me.

Before, when we were in locked down, I wasn't telling anybody the way he was behaving. I also felt like I wasn't real. In a way, I wasn't seeing other people, and I was just seeing him and that he would change the narrative like that's not what happened.

You are crazy. I'm going to record you because you know you're talking about that's not how I said that you're too sensitive and I had nobody around so I was like, maybe that didn't happen. Maybe I am remembering IT wrong.

When I started seeing other people again, I think they noticed that he was add and I would get brought up to me and I had more people's event to. At this point, I don't think I told anybody other than my mom about what happened at the wedding, though, because I was so embarrassed, I was embarrassed. I was still with him.

If my friend had come to me and said my boyfriend did this to me, I would say, okay, well, when are you dumping him? He used to take my phone, jokingly open Snapchat and Snapchat my friends, and he would say things like, we just had sex and like, show his face and send that to my friends. I got mad at him like, don't do that, don't touch my phone, don't send that to people because it's just a joke.

Why are you so sensitive? And my friends actually ended up texting me like, are you okay? Who is this guy and why is he doing this? I felt like I had to defend him at that point because I was embarrassed, but I was also like he's just joking.

We added another wedding in texas. We got all the way to arkansas, and he said to me, of my cards are not working. What we're gna do, you're going have to put on my credit card.

You say all will pay you back as soon as that money comes through. So now i'm paying for all the gas for this trip. He says to me, my mom got us the hotel.

I said, you didn't even book the room where we're heading. He said, no, I suggest what would you have done if we we've gotten there because it's come for texes. There's nothing else around outside of this little getaway where they are having the wedding.

What would you have done? Oh, I don't know. I was. Od.

do you feel like there were some enabling going on there?

A hundred percent. That was her baby. That was her first born. One time when I was visiting his mom, SHE asked me something about his apartment. SHE said, all we got him that rock for the apartment, you know, the rogan, his apartment. I said, I haven't been there in a long time.

He hasn't been there in a long time either but I won't t get rid of IT now is kind of making light of IT and he goes, well, it's a good idea that he keeps the apartment and because he doesn't know what's gonna en between you two and we had already been together for two years so I was like, okay, so you are encouraging him to keep the apartment one Christmas when we were out there, he was like, do you think you just gonna get married and I said, well, that's the goal, right? SHE said, well, I just want you to know in this family, we don't believe in divorce. I told him. He said that too.

Afterall, those like, you know, your mom's said to me, he's like, what do you mean we don't believe in divorce? And I was like, I don't know. That's what he told me.

He's like. She's crazy. In october of twenty twenty two, I was financially struggling on one person.

I work one chap. I had senior dogs, which are expensive. I had a rabbit, I had a bird dragon, and things were adding up. And now i'm taking care of a man child in my house.

I said to him, you need to get rid of the apartment and start helping me here, or you need to go live there because I can't afford to keep paying for you. And he said to me, call the land lord tomorrow and tell him that I am not going to be renewing my lease the next day. I said, did you talk to your landlord? He said, yeah, I told them that I would pay until he found a new china.

I said, why would you tell him that? He said, well, because he's a good guy, more bodies, so I want to do that favor for him. But if like, you are the perfect tenant, right, like if you're not there, you're not taking up a parking spot, you're not making noise, your paying your rent on time, why would you bother looking for a new he's going to take his time.

Then josh h, why would you do that? He said that his body and he's doing him a favor. The automated about the apartment happened in october of twenty twenty two, and he said he was on the least told january, so january is up.

He's not renewing the lease by mid march. I said to him, you have not heard from the landlord and where in march now it's not that hard to find a tenant in chicago. People are always looking for apartments.

My friend message me and he said, what's going on with his apartment? I said, I need to ask him about that. He said, before you ask him, have you seen the listing? And I said, no.

SHE said, do you remember his address? And I said, I have not been there since march twenty, twenty. No, I don't remember the address. We pay for White pages.

We looked up his name because I didn't want to ask josh about this because I knew how he reacted to things, found the address, looked IT up, found the landlord's name or what we thought was the landlord. I was at work in a message, josh and I said, have you heard anything about the apartment? So what do you mean?

I said, did you ever see if your lander d actually posted a listing? It's weird that were halfway through march and you haven't heard anything. An hour goes by.

He doesn't respond and I said, are you alive? It's another five minutes and he doesn't respond. I said, question mark and he said, but who text like that? He said, huh?

He said, are you a crazy person? Are you insane? Is there something I should know?

I said, no. I asked you a question, and then you ignored me. He said, yes, i've seen the listing.

I can call him tomorrow. Yes, i'm alive. I said I couldn't find the listings online.

He said you sent the first message while I was driving. I wasn't trying to ignore you. Are you looking to rent? I said, maybe L O L.

I didn't think he actually listed IT because I couldn't find IT anywhere. He said, why were you looking for IT? I said, because you haven't heard from him.

It's weird that IT hasn't been rented by now. He said, you know that I haven't heard from him. I said, well, why wouldn't you have said something if you did?

I'm confused. He said, i'm confused by this entire conversation. I said, why? He said, and honestly, i'm a little annoyed.

I said, annoyed question mark. He said, yes, annoyed. I said, okay, then i'm annoyed too.

He said, what are you annoyed ed about? I said, because you're using darva on me and he said, what? Never mind. I just google. Did I think i'll go stay at my apartment tonight if that's okay?

I said, no, I would like to have a conversation, he said, about what I said, why you're acting like this because I ask you a question. He said, I answered your question and you came back telling me I was lying for some reason. I said no, I said the landlord might be not that you are.

I never said you were. I'm so confused. He said, I told you that I saw the ad and that I would call him tomorrow.

And your response was what he said me a string shot of what I had said. He said, maybe i'm the one that's crazy. I said, sorry, i'm working right now.

I'm not trying to start anything. I was just concerned. But I never said you were lying.

He said, you don't think this whole conversation is weird. I said, no, I think it's weird that you're getting mad. He said, not mad.

annoyed. I said, well, annoyed enough to say you're leaving. And he said, i'm very tired. I'm sorry for saying that. I said, okay, i'm leaving work.

When I got home, I walked in the door and he walked up to me and he hugged me and he kissed me. He said, i'm sorry for getting mad. I just thought you were choosing me of lying.

I'll talk to the landlord tomorrow and i'll get IT figured out the next day. I walk in the door, he was laying on the couch, playing on his phone, didn't even look at me. So did you talk to your landlord? And without even looking up from his phone, he goes, oh, yeah.

He said he found a tenant, so I won't have to pay next month. I said, okay, well, we got to get your things out then and again, he's not looking at me still answering, yeah, we'll do IT. And I started talking about his furniture.

Do you think we will keep this? I ve hadn't remember what your couch look like due of a picture of your couch. He says, I do, but i'm gonna pull that up right now.

I'm playing a game in any change of subject. And that was the end of their conversation. What eats a way at me is the minute I dog just a little bit, I found everything.

And had i'd done that even a year earlier, I would have saved myself so much time and pain. IT didn't take long to find out everything he lied about. I thought josh had his issues, but I trusted him.

So he tells me that he has a picture of a couch, but he'll show IT to me later. My brain won't stop worrying now at this point, because we gotta get his stuff out in less than a month, because the landlord wants him out by April, and we're already into march. I have my birthday coming up.

I have my friend's birthday party coming up. There's things that are happening. We need to get that apartment cleared out.

I'm stressing about IT also worried, like what furniture does he want to bring into my house? What can we use? I want to.

Know what his couch look like. We had been together for three years. I had never picked up his phone before that night.

He was sleeping and I picked up his phone. I just went to pictures because i'm fn a picture. This couch, I open photos and IT was hundreds of pictures of the same naked girl.

There were multiple naked girls, but there was one girl specifically that there were a lot of, and I could tell they were from Snapchat. So I open up snap chat, and there's a message that he hasn't even open up from someone name to Chloe, and he did not know anyone named Chloe that I knew of. I opened IT and she's calling him her a more, and they are talking about touching themselves together.

He says that she's his girl's friend. My heart starts racing. I'm like, who the hacks is this person? He doesn't leave the house.

How does he have another girlfriend? He's sleeping. It's maybe two. A M. He's gonna waking up for work. Soon I elbow him and I said, who the f is, Chloe? And he was well.

And I said, who is Chloe and he screams into my face, just a, i'm like, taking a back. He was very loud and like, write my face and an odd reaction. I like, look back.

I shake my head and like, who is Chloe? He's like, how do you know that name that I looked at your phone, josh, she's calling you her boyfriend who is SHE because i'm getting mad. She's a girl from an APP.

What do you mean he is a girl from an APP he's like, eyes downloaded an APP. And I met this girl. I've never met her in person.

SHE lives in a different country. SHE doesn't speak good english, and i've just been chatting with her because i've been very lonely. Anne, you've been neglecting me and I felt alone, which is the first time i've heard this most of the time.

He tells me i'm annoying and that i'm around to much so i'm getting upset and crying. I'm yelling, you need to go to your apartment til I can work through these feelings and he goes, oh my god, I don't have the apartment. Ani, and what you mean? You don't have the apartment.

It's not gonna be empty till April. He was, no, I was rented a month ago, and I was going to surprise you for your birthday. I said, what surprised me with the thing we've been fighting about for years now.

What about your furniture? I sold IT all so that we could buy new furniture together. I ve just learned that he's got another girlfriend in another country that he's chatting with phone.

Now i'm finding out he doesn't have this apartment that he that day told me was just rented. My head is spinning. He's like, I gotto go to work. I was devastated.

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ZOL a dot com. I remember saying to him, I don't trust you anymore, and trust was all I had with you. You're not supportive, you're not kind.

You're not fun the beer around anymore. But I could trust you, and I can't trust you anymore. I had recorded the conversation with Chloe a little bit of IT on my phone.

I sent him to my front. SHE said, you need to get him out of fair. I said he doesn't have the apartment anymore.

And this was the same friend who impressed me to look into the apartment. And SHE said, I know we all know he doesn't have that apartment. SHE didn't know.

They just had a gut feeling that he was lying about IT IT has mom. I saw something I had posted on snape chat. I meant to send IT to a friend, I think, but i've added to my story, and IT was just something about josh cheating at me.

And I saw IT right away because he was always viewing my stories right away. And he said, what I said, I don't know what to do. I kind of explained to her and he was like, let me look up this trap and he was calling her names and he said, here's what you need to do.

You need to tell him he can't do this to you. And then you need to take those string shots, everything you have from the conversations, and put them in a folder on your computer, and never look at them again. I was a mess.

I was crying and texting him. I asked him, are you paying her? He said, no, no. I met her on an APP where men chat with women. I said, what APP and he said to me, it's called the woo hoo o APP.

I said, where did you even find this? He's like, oh, I came up for an ad when I was playing a golf game and I downloaded IT because IT looked like fun and I just started talking to these girls. And you know, you go into these chat rooms and these guys are asking them to show their bubs and they're being very sexual with these girls.

And I just went in and I was very polite and that's how they were. And they wanted to continue talking to me. I went to close his room and I talked to her, and I was just really nice.

And he said, I want to add you on snapp chat so we can keep talking. I knew he was paying her, but he would not tell me. I started texting the girl.

I had her snapped chat name. I was messaging her, and SHE said to me, oh my gosh, Joshua is married. And I said, no, we're not married.

And I could tell he just wasn't understanding. I said, he lives here with me. We've been together for years.

How long has he been talking to you? And he said to me all a long time, we talk everyday. He said to me, anne, I am going to be very honest with you.

Me, like all the girls, are working like anyone who does live, and we don't know anyone's personal life. He and I got closer, and I never imagine that he would have a girlfriend. Because regardless of anything, I am human.

I don't do to anyone what I didn't want them to do to me. I didn't want to be ending your relationship as I don't want to create this whole situation. I am woman too.

I also have a family. I work, I study. I know how difficult to is to go through the situation, but I cannot assume things in mistakes that are not mine.

I hope you are well in that everything is resolved. You have my snap. You can talk to me whatever you want. Sorry about my english, he is hard to express.

And I said to her, how much was he paying you? SHE said, I have no way of knowing that I cannot calculate IT and my whole world is upside that like I don't know what's I can't make sense of any of IT emotionally. I'm iraq.

All i'm doing is crime. He tells me he's got where to go. Who is still at the house? I'm beyond mad at him.

I want to break up, but he's crying or I love you, please don't do. This was just one girl. I never even matter.

I was just chatting with her. I didn't mean anything. When I told him I talk to her, he said, why wasn't paying her that much?

I just gave a couple box like five dollars, I said, and he gave you her private Snapchat for five dollars, he said, yes, I said, that doesn't make sense, josh. Even I know that's a bad deal. He just continued to lie about IT.

First he wasn't, he wasn't paying at all. Then he was only paying her a little bit. I was still in this emotional roller coaster where he's begging me to forgive him and I love him.

I just can't believe that this is happening, and I wanted to not be real. I want to believe everything he's saying because it's so much easier. That was the third teeth that I found Chloe out.

My birthday was the twenty third, and I was having a bunch of people over during my birthday party. He was taking pictures of me and my friends, and he handed me his phone to go through the pictures, and then he wandered off. I was going through the pictures, and I wanted to make sure that he had deleted the pictures of Chloe.

I found his google photos, and I started to grow through IT. And I found several different girls, naked pictures. One girl specifically, you could tell he talk to for well over year.

There were lots and lots of naked pictures of her, and she's what stuck out to me. I found him outside, and no one was out there with him. He was just smoking by himself.

And I said, when everybody leaves, I want you out of here. He said, why? why? I said, who's an attack? huh? This was the other girl.

I don't know. What do you mean? And I threw w his phone at him. And I said, who is nash? And he said, H, I had the APP on my phone one other time.

I said, okay, how long did you talk to her? I don't know, which I knew was a lie, because I could see he had saved most of their conversations, tons of pictures. And I had gone back for months.

I didn't see exactly what I ended because I was just fuming. The party kind of ended and everybody left when they could tell. I was accept, but nobody knew why we continued to argue on night because he just won't give me australia answer. He was lying to me, told me I just needed to trust him. He's like, I want to work on this.

We're going to go to couple's therapy and I said, I can't trust you because you keep trying to me and you've been talking to other women and you told me during cold he was just this one time, and you lonely and IT was my fault. And then I find out you've been doing this for well over year. I mean, I find out ultimately that IT was the entire time we were together, and we were together for three years.

I knew that he wasn't telling me everything, but I wanted an answer I felt like I was owed that we both fell asleep arguing, and in the morning we started arguing or ended up falling asleep during the day while we are arguing. And he left his phone out. He actually put his phone in the bedside drawer, and I called the squeaky draw.

I quietly and carefully open the drawer. I was like sweating, trying to get the draw open without making noise. I got this phone out and I started throwing, and i'm recording IT on my phone.

I find thousands of dollars and transactions that he sent to weird names like booby games. I know this isn't a game. He is sending money to random women's names.

He's got all kinds of naked pictures, screen shots of conversations, pictures where he's got filtered on space, videos where he's singing and dancing for these girls. He told these girls that he was a real estate agent, which was the job of one of his other friends. So I think he just stole bits and pieces of his guy friends.

That's when I saw that he had been talking to this snatch ha girl for well over a year. There were several other girls in between. They all looked very Young.

He had screen shots from the APP where hit showed, like, how many gifts he had sent these girls and how many minutes they had talked like he was saving IT like he was proud of IT. There were screen shots of different bank c. He had like accounts I didn't know about.

There was a lot going on that I didn't know about. He was also getting weird amounts of money sent to him, which was because he didn't going, where do anything? Who sending you this money? And then I get further down, and I find deep fakes of almost every single one of his female friends that I had met or knew of.

And you can see the porn clip. You can see how he cropped his friends faces from pictures from instagram. It's all safe to his phone. He had deep fakes of Rachel. He had deep fakes of Rachel cousin, several friends of his.

Like, if you were at the beach and you took a picture with your boyfriend at the beach, he scream, shouted that and he would crap out the guy and just have his friend in a bikini saved in the same sport with the deep fakes on his phone. There were deep fakes of his sister. There were pictures cropped the same way of his niece, whose twelve years old at the time.

There was pictures of me he took when I didn't know where i'm bending over or he's behind me and he's taking a picture down my shirt. Then I opened up his safety and frequently visited. It's like incest sites and rape sites and dating sites.

And he had google like how to convince somebody love them. I was recording video of his phone. You can hear me like hyper venting because I like, I don't know this person at all and he's sleeping in my bed.

I don't know what he's gone to do, and I need him out of here. Now, at that point, I got up and I put his phone back in the door. I was taking my dogs and my cat, and I was going to put them in my car.

And then I was going to tell him to get out. I was gonna make sure they were safe. And while i'm grabbing the animals, he wakes up.

He is, what are you doing? And I just panic. Get out. Get out.

Now, why? I said, I saw w everything on your phone. I know about the money. I know about the women.

I know about the deep fakes, and he says to me, oh, I didn't make those as a josh. You literally saved your work. I can see how you created them.

Rachael's cousin was one of the girls that was deep fake, and he said, IT was her husband that did IT. okay. So he's deep, faking his own wife. And every single friend you have, Andrew sister and your news, that doesn't make sense.

He gets up and he started screaming at me that I went through his phone again, and how dare I? Then he screams at me, don't you think if we would went to therapy? This all have came out.

I don't know when IT doesn't really matter. I don't think you would have been honest and therapy, you couldn't be honest right here right now when I was begging you to i'm just telling him, get out, get out. I don't want to to hear anything you're saying.

The dogs are still on the bed and i'm kind of like walking towards him to make him walk out the bedroom door. So he starts walking down the stairs screaming at me the entire time that he is a problem. And i'm not being understanding there's balloons all over the floor because he was my birthday party the day before he started stopping his feet.

He tries to stamp on the balloons and he streaming. I just like when people watch me calm, he can see that it's not working on me this time, all the excuse is everything is not working. His face changes so quickly.

He goes from screaming and crying and being worked up to just completely calm. He walks past me into my kitchen, and he grabs one of my knives out of the knife black. I was calling my friend.

He was in my pocket. I'm screaming. Put the knife down, josh. So he knows that something is happening. He says to me, you'll get your knife back eventually and he points IT at me and i'm screaming in IT.

I blocked towards them so he backs up out the back door and i'm right across the street from the fire department. I'm screaming, put the knife down so they hear me and he realizes that and he goes, any stop he puts the nie in his packet. He goes, give me a hug I said, no, i'm not gonna give you a hug and he says, i'm not gonna stab you.

I just want you to know that I really did love you. It's thank you for telling me you can leave now. He gotten his car and he's zoom away.

And I texted mother and I told her. I told josh to leave. He ran off with a knife.

I think you should call him and she's, can't you guys work IT out and I said, no, he had pictures of all his friends on his phone. There was pictures of his sister. He had cropped out her face like he had done for all the other women.

But the deep fakes of her warned there, but you could see the process of him trying to and SHE said, well, I wish you would have given him some time to find some place to go. He was asking me, where could he be? I know that he was in denial about her son.

I didn't have l will towards her, so I was like, I have no where he could be. I was trying to help her eventually. So I posted everything I knew on instagram because I was furious. I was also for me, a way to hold me accountable, because if I knew, everyone else knew there was no taking him back, he wasn't going to be able to manipulate me and to change the narrative because everybody has seen this and knows what he's capable of.

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