The swinger and sex club lifestyle is fun, accepting, non-judgmental and ethnical. It’s important that anyone making a transition to this lifestyle from mainstream society (also known as vanilla world) understand some basic etiquette, rules/boundaries, and best practices so that you have a smooth and thriving onboarding experience.

I have seen people fuck up… I have seen people get kicked out of sex clubs and banned. Consent is not a joke and understanding how to navigate sex with negotiated consent is essential to being successful in this lifestyle, and life.

In this episode I list various things NOT to do so that you can assimilate well into the swinger lifestyle and sex club / sex positive culture.

Each topic is time stamped below:

2:00 Watch where you step

3:58 Don’t be predatory

6:00 Don’t say rude/insulting comments

8:27 Don’t use small talk

9:50 Don’t look around for something better while with someone

11:09 Don’t touch without consent

13:08 Condoms already on your dick without a sex partner?!

13:48 Don’t try having sex without a condom unless it is explicitly negotiated

15:19 Condom train your dick

16:22 Don’t gossip and be aware of the small community

19:20 Don’t stare too much/long

19:30 Don’t stand too close/slither up to people

21:29 Respect boundaries

22:33 Don’t pull out your cell phone

23:19 Clean up after your play scene

23:29 Be careful of other peoples feelings & be sensitive to jealousy

24:50 Don’t hit on women while we are changing in the locker room

25:35 Don’t expect sex just because you are at a sex club

26:23 Don’t drink too much

27:14 Don’t get “feelings” in inappropriate dynamics

31:19 Don’t isolate/chat with just one half of a couple (as a single unicorn)

32:54 Don’t lie

34:15 Don’t be a dick

35:57 Be careful what you ask people to reveal about themselves

36:57 Don’t ask boring questions

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#14-How to NOT fuck up in the swinger and sex club lifestyle