Psychic readings ft. Alix Earle
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Hi guys, welcome to this week's episode of Pretty Lonesome. This week we have a guest, we have Jennifer, who is a psychic or an intuitive, you said you preferred? Intuitive, an intuitive medium. And she is going to be enlightening myself and Alex L. We both have a few questions that we want to ask, but I think we'll start off.

I kind of just want to know what you have already picked up on because you walked in and you said that there are a couple of things and I'm very intrigued. Okay, so there are a couple of things that dealt with relationships. That's what kind of came in. Okay. And I felt like there was a relationship that either, and I don't know who it belongs to and I'll look at that.

But it felt like something was strained a little bit. Okay. And so it could be either me or Alex? Right. So I need to just kind of work that out. Okay. I also feel like, has your back hurt at all? Yes. Because your back feels like it hurts. And there also feels like there's something with your knee.

My knees are always bad. My back is always bad, but it's worse right now. It's worse right now. My knees aren't bad, though. Are your knees bad? I feel like your knees will be fine, but I feel like you need more fluids. Like, you need more fluids. But I also feel like your neck, the way that you sleep is wonky, or the travel, the way that you travel is wonky. And is there anything with your toe? Going to your toes? Or is that her? Her.

My toes are fine. Okay. So let's put that aside because if it's not you, it's somebody in your energy field. Okay. Has to do with like a toe. That's interesting. Like a pinky toe. But so I was getting that and I was also getting like, I feel like you are very loved at home. So when I got here, they told me that you, I got your name as soon as I came in and I was given that you were from the UK. So that's conscious information. Okay.

And I feel like you're very loved at home. Like people miss you and they don't like, I feel like your family doesn't really like you traveling all the time, but they're super excited for you. They wouldn't like let you not do that. There's also somebody at home. It feels like that really misses you. Oh,

Oh, really? Mm-hmm. Okay. And it feels like just a friend, but not a friend. Does that make sense to you? It could be. Okay. And do you have, like, a little sister? I have an older sister. Okay, so you're the little sister. Yeah. Because I'm getting, like, a little bratty sister. Oh, no. It's me. You have a little sister. You have a little sister. All right, we'll figure that out. And there's something surrounding, like, a big...

I don't know, a birth date, like a family where you might have to go back for a birth date or some type of event with a family or somebody that you know. What is it that you would like to know? I have about 50 questions for you. Let's go. Okay. Where should we start? Like very specific questions or like open? So the way my clients work with me, I have to, I use names. And so if you want to talk to somebody from the other side, give me their name and the association to you just for the sake of time.

Or if you just want to see what I get, we can do that. But I think it's more poignant if you really just start asking, like, hey, I just want to know about this. Or what do you think about this? Or you can give me a name about someone that you're interested in or someone that you have been thinking about if you want to do that on your website.

Well, I'm intrigued. I don't really have anyone super close to me that's passed away. I know. The only person that I would...

think to be intrigued about is somebody you were named after a middle name oh that's weird because that's what came in before okay that's freaky yeah so i was gonna say my grandfather his name was moses but he came to the uk and renamed himself michael i believe i never met him but his middle name was felix and my middle name is felicity after him that's weird he's always i feel like he's one of your protectors really

Yeah. And he also just, he doesn't understand everything that you're doing, but he also is very like, you've always had this thing since you were little that you knew you were going to be out there in the world. You just didn't know how you were going to get there. And so I feel you, um, you've gone through a bunch of stages and it almost feels like, I almost feel like your mom pushed you to do things like to get you out of your comfort zone.

Right? A lot of moms don't do that. But your mom was just like, you can do this. You can get out there. And she just helped you along doing that. Yeah.

And are you missing a dog? Yes. Okay. Cause your dog has like anxiety about missing you. And I think that's one of the only things that you like really feel right now. Oh no. Yeah. I have a little baby dog. She's a little dog. And she's like, she just misses you so much, but they're taking really good care of her. Need to like go back home for more so than any boy, girl, anything is your dog. Yes. Um, and that dog's like a little princess diva. Um,

and sleeping on your pillow, and you have to talk to her. Do they put the phone to her by chance? They do, but she doesn't seem to recognize my voice. She's a little bit away with the fans. She's just mad. Yes, she is. She's just mad. And she actually goes through not eating at times. Yes, she does. Right?

Because she's mad that you're gone. And she just... So you have to hide when you're leaving. You have to move your suitcase. There's a lot of things you have to do. Yeah, she gets very upset when the suitcases come up because she's lumped. Oh, my babe. She loves you very much. I'm booking the next flight out. I don't want to make it sad. She loves you, but you're doing what you're supposed to be doing. You have the support.

And she loves you. She loves you too much because she's like this little, like this dog is going to grow. It's interesting because you're in a place now that you're flourishing and you're like out there and you're going and your dog is mimicking you when you were insecure. Yeah.

And so it's starting to grow. Like the more confidence you have, the more confidence the dog will have. It will mimic your behavior. So if you feel bad, I don't want you to feel bad for not being with it. Your dog is being overloved by everybody. Everybody loves that dog and they're fighting over it. So you're fine. So don't feel bad about that. Okay. Okay. All right.

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Somebody's coming through. It feels like, so it would be like the eighth grade here, but I don't know what it would be over there in Europe. Yeah, nine. Okay. It feels like somebody that you grew up with and it feels like a parent and it feels like somebody that's around the area. So it might not have been a mentor, but somebody that was in your, I don't know, around that time.

I can't quite make it out. And it feels like there was something wrong with the brain. You were really good to their son. You were, this person is just coming through. Cause I always ask them, why are you coming through? They're coming through to say that they're, that you were super sweet to their son, that, that you were, um, you always helped him for some reason. I don't, there's something about 14. There's something. So it comes in bits and pieces, but

But the mom is just saying thank you. And I don't know where she is, like who that is to you. I had like one friend when I was 14. Okay. I was homeschooled and he was, went to the same homeschool, but it was like online. It feels like that. I wonder if his mom passed away and she could have, I've not spoke to him in years. Okay. Okay.

And there's a birthday surrounding one of your best friends too. Like over summer in August. Is there anything about... That's my mom's birthday. That's your... I'm not going to make that fit. There's something that I feel like your best friend... Like it's a monumental birthday. So... Oh, it's Millie's birthday in August. That's my best friend. Right. My other best friend. Are you guys going somewhere? We don't have any plans to, but we often do. Okay. Go somewhere. Has there been any interest in the Greek islands by chance? No.

I mean, I think she goes to Greece a fair amount. It feels like you might go meet her there. There might be some opening there that you might go meet her there. I know that sounds whatever, but that's what it feels like. That would be fun, really. You have a lot of different things going on. Is there anything going on with sports with you? Sport? I recently took up Pilates. That counts. That's a great sport. It's a great individual sport. There's just something about someone being around you that loves sports. I feel like this could be you.

Okay. All right. I'm going to push that aside. You guys are definitely enmeshed in your energy field. So let's just keep just paying attention to that because that could be it. But it feels really good. It feels like there's so many. Anyway, what other question would you have? Let's start off with that.

Okay, I don't know if this is way too like out of field. I talk to dead people. But this isn't dead people. Okay, so one of my big life decisions right now is if I want to move to from London, if I want to move from London to LA. Do you get any like feeling about it? Right away? Oh, no. Okay, gone. Yes.

Yes, do it. Or yes, you get a feeling. Just give me a second without, because I have a feeling that there's going to be a lot of people that will not like the answer from me. I think you're meant to move. Really? But it doesn't have to be, like, you can't look at it as like the end point. But I feel like this is definitely part of what you're supposed to do. For like a period of time? Correct. It'd be like having a two-year contract or something. Right. That's crazy because that's exactly what I need for my visa.

That's what it feels like. And it'd be a great experience for you. Okay. Let me look at something else. This is the thing. If you stayed in London or if you stayed in the UK, you would want to be here. That's just where you want to be. That's what it feels like to me. It doesn't mean it's just guidance, but I think you would gain so much knowledge here and experience here.

that you could take back to the UK. Okay, interesting. And change things there if you'd like. I also feel like someone, there's a few people that really want you here and they think that would be great for you. Okay. Your parents are going to be so mad. My mom will be sad, but... You'll be able to bring your dog? Yeah. Yeah.

Right. And your mom will stay too. She'll love being here. She's going to come? I would like to. She'll love it. Yeah. She might get mad at first, but you just have to tell her. It's just everything's temporary. It's nothing that's like, I'm saying this just to save myself, but you might end up staying here forever. But I think this would be good for you and your evolution of your career. I'm glad that you said that. Okay. Okay. Okay.

My next question is, this is a risky question, but when it comes to relationships, like romantic, what do you do? You sabotage everything. Okay, thanks. So hold on. I feel like there's a couple choices, but you don't ever take people seriously, like when they like you. You kind of just kind of push them off a little bit. There is someone that's very serious in your life, it feels like, and that you're just still, you don't like, you're like,

You're so cute. Hold on. I have to be careful with my words. I see you being in love, but I also see you fighting it. And so it could have to do with someone back there and here and wherever. And that's going to be the struggle of your life. Oh, no. If that's the worst struggle, you're fine. True. They can figure it out. Okay. Right? Yeah, that's pretty good going.

I don't know. This is just what I'm getting. You are going to be able to have your life the way you want it. They're going to have to figure out how they're going to fit in, not the other way around. You're like a rescuer. You rescue people. You rescue. You got to stop doing that. Yeah, I know. It's bad. Okay. Does that make any sense at all to you? Yes. Okay. All right. What's your next question before I get beheaded? Okay.

My next question is, and this one's very rogue as well. I want to see if you can get it. So I have like a lifelong fear of something and it impacts a lot of what I do. Do you have challenges of sleeping? Not really. Okay, that's good. Give me a second. Because I saw fear, but it felt fear of dying. But I don't feel like it's dying. So I'm not sure exactly what your fear is. I think it's...

It's being without something. And so I'm trying to figure out what it is that you're fearful of being without. I don't know. There's a part of you being fearful of getting lost. I'm not sure what it is. I don't know exactly what it is. I can't quite figure it out. Okay. So you tell me. So I'm terrified of puke. I would have never gotten that. It's a weird one. I'm so sorry. Okay.

It was not happening. It was not going to be shown to me. Okay, so when I got the fear of dying, how to deal with you being so sick at one... This is something I could never prove. Past lives are something I could never prove. So it doesn't... I don't even know why I'm saying it, but I'm going to say it. There was some... You had something in your system before. Let's just say, hypothetically, if you died from puking,

Because I kept getting the fear of death. And you look at puke, is it like you're going to die? Or there's something that you're going to die? It's like something that shows you of a sickness that you're terrified of. It's not just that. It's being terrified of being deathly ill. It goes so much further than what you're actually just getting. It's fine if you're just afraid of puking. But if that happens, you go into like, I'm going to die.

right there's something about that that's just gonna you'll get over that that's just gonna come to a different like how old if you don't mind me asking 23 okay you look like you're 16 thank you you'll get over that soon that's gonna be a something that you'll get over thank god it's just everybody comes in here with different things that they are subjected to i was terrified of flying but i was obsessed with pilots like there was there people get upset like

doesn't make sense, that doesn't really make sense. You don't do things that make you feel... You don't do things that... You're not around people that do that. That has to do with something where you thought you were going to die because of what it represented. Right. So that's not going to happen in this lifetime. Okay. So it's something that you just need to understand that it's not going to happen so you don't have to worry about dying. Because the ultimate thing is about dying because of it. Like you were sick. It felt like you were a child. You were sick and you died from...

Like being so sick that you were throwing up. So that's what you remember. That's what you brought into this life. Right. I had another psychic once tell me that I died in a past life from a sickness as a baby. So maybe that's what it feels like. It's crazy. You might look like a baby, but you're not. You were past that. Yeah. Okay. My next question is I'm so confused right now about like my career and what

what I'm doing or what I should be doing or what I'm going to specifically do in the future. Okay. So it's interesting because I don't, again, I didn't know what this was about. And the first thing that comes to me is you behind the camera, like directing, producing, but it feels like it has to do with other things. Okay. So let me look at that. It feels like you're, you're getting content, like you're getting content out. Like that's what you want to do. You want to get things you want to,

You want to make things like even this, like less like woo-woo, like I do, right? Yeah.

This is the thing. You feel like you should be focused on one thing, but what if you can do everything? So for instance, I call myself an intuitive, but people come from all over the world for medical reasons, for investigations, for personal life, for like everything. And if I just said, oh, I'm a medium or I'm just this or an intuitive, I'm a medical intuitive, I'm just an intuitive. Just think of yourself as just a producer.

Right. Like you could do all the different things that involve producing, being in it, acting in it, like everything. And just allow the universe to show up for you. Okay. Because it already has if you're here. And I feel like you're going to be kind of landlocked here. That's just my personal opinion. Unless somebody wants you back that you're going to, I already feel somebody not wanting you to be here.

There is someone not wanting to meet you. I know. But I also think that you're going to be able to create your life to where that person will want to be here. He? He or she. No. I didn't even look. Do you have anything, like, coming to you? I do. There's something about butterflies are flying with you, which is interesting. I'm looking to see what would be the best way for you to feel free.

like the most at peace with yourself and not like fight whatever is going on over in the UK, whatever's here. And it's just, you have to create. That's what you're meant to do. If you don't follow that, you're going to get, you're going to feel cut off. It feels like to me, and it feels like you just, you need to figure out a company or like, I'm sure you have a company. I'm sure you have like whatever it is.

But you don't trust people. So there's an issue with you needing to, like, you're surrounding yourself here. It feels good, right? You have people that you trust here. I don't know if you've had that before or if you've had that the whole time. I know your family's solid.

I feel them. I love them already. They love you. They think you're crazy. They love that you are like the way that you are. But I really feel like now you need to add more people into your work or into your business or into whatever it is that you're doing. That's why I want to come to LA. Yeah. I feel like that's going to be your expansion. And then you could take it back to the UK and mimic it and model it and have it for other people. Interesting.

And you need to celebrate more. You are so like, you feel almost paralyzed. Yeah, my friend was saying this to me like last week. You need to like, so this is another great thing that I've learned after the thousands of readings I've given. And the only reason I'm saying this is because in the context of

I ask, like, what is it that people miss out on? And it's like, you guys have your bodies and you guys are so lame. You're in your heads the whole time. Like, go have fun. Nobody on the other side has ever said they wish they would have held back. No one. And you're holding back. Okay. I will. Have fun. I will. Thank you so much. I'm going to let Alex come take a pew. All righty.

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I'm excited for this. That was crazy to watch. Hi, Jennifer. Hi, Alex. First of all, I love the way you spell your name. Thank you. I love that more than anything. Thank you. By the way. And I feel like you just have, you have a lot going on too. Yeah.

And there's something like, okay, so the whole mom thing, you guys have to call your moms. I know. My mom always tells me she's like, Alex, if you don't call me. People that are alive pop into whenever I read people. So it's almost like they're gone, but they're not. But your moms love you so much that they just want to make sure you're okay. So just throw them a bow and say, hi. You know, like I told you about my own daughter, Blake. I'm like, I make her.

When she gets home at night from college, she texts me saying I'm home or I'm safe, which means she hooked up with a guy, which I have to deal with, but whatever. Okay, we'll FaceTime our moms after this. Yes, please do that. And then there's also stuff. Oh, and is it your dad's birthday or is there a birthday coming up? I don't even know what day it is right now. March? I love that about you. Same with me. Okay. It feels like there might be something big and there might be something with Italy. Are you going to Italy in a...

Feels like June or there might be something. I think I'm going to the south of France in June. Okay. Maybe I stop in Italy first. Okay. And are you going with someone? Because it feels like you're going with someone. Is there somebody in the industry that has a premiere or anything like that? No, at least not yet. Okay. Okay.

All right. We'll push that aside. I felt you going. It could be just you going. I'm like, that's actually very interesting. You're going to have so much fun this summer. It feels like you're like, I know you've had a lot of fun, but it feels like you're free. There's something about you feeling free. Okay. This summer.

About making things the way you want to make them. Not with people telling you what to do or how to be. And not saying that you ever took that anyway. But I feel like people are always offering their information or always offering you to say things. It'd be great if you did this. Have you been seeing someone for like a year and a half? Yes. Okay, hold on.

And wow, I almost feel like this person is perfect for you. Really? Yeah. But give me a second. Can you, are you allowed to give a first name? Braxton. Braxton. I wouldn't have forgot that. Hold on. Yeah. It's a funky one. He'll just follow you around. He's like a little puppy dog. Yeah. Braxton just wants to go wherever you are. Yeah. And not saying he doesn't, but he feels like he has to, like, it's just the way he was raised. And is there, is he turning 30 this year?

He's turning 29. Okay. So he's getting there. All right, he's getting there because I felt 30 was a big deal. Okay, so past, present, and future shows up in the same place for me. I have to figure out where it is, but I felt that being a big deal. I felt a boat, I felt a yacht, Caribbean. Wait, a boat, a yacht in the Caribbean? Yeah. I'm going on a family boat trip in the Caribbean with my family in Braxton next week.

Okay, so that's happening soon. I didn't know if it was for a birthday. So is it for somebody else's? Is it someone's birthday? If it's one of my family members' birthdays and I'm forgetting, this will be really bad. It's okay. My sister's birthday is coming up soon, actually. You guys are just going because it's the perfect time to go. That's great. He loves the way you smile.

Mm-hmm. He, like, loves your scent, Braxton. Oh, okay. He also loves the fact that, like, there's something about what you do in the morning or, like, you, like, make sure you have a contact with him, like, whether it's at night or in the morning, no matter where you are. Mm-hmm. And he gets mad at you. There's something about food. Is he a picky eater or are you a picky eater? I hate when people eat food near me and I hear them chewing. Mm-hmm.

So that's when I usually turn into a bitch. That's very interesting. Okay, your grandmother's here. Hold on. On your dad's side, your mom's side. One of them's gone, correct? One of your grandmothers passed away. My grandfather's. Okay, so does one of your grandmothers have Alzheimer's or dementia? Do you know? My one grandma's sick right now. I'm not going to make that fit.

So a lot of times when someone has Alzheimer's or dementia, it feels like they're on the other side. I never feel sorry for them. I feel sorry for their caregivers. But I'm not going to make that fit. That's somebody else that's coming in. It could be a great, I don't know if it was a great grandmother or not. There's something, is there anything in Wisconsin for you? Yeah, that's where my grandma lives. And which grandmother is that? My mom's mom. Your mom's mom. Sure. Okay. And what's her name? Kathleen. Kathleen. Kathleen.

She loves you. You guys, she's... You should spend time with her when you're really little. Like, really little. If there's a way you can talk to her or send her, like, just see her maybe over the next six months, I just feel like that would be probably better. Okay. Okay. Do you win card games? Is there anything with cards that you play or anything that you, like...

There's something that you feel very, just with the family, like competitive with. We do often play this one card game.

I forget. It's like Kings in the Corner or something. Okay. You feel like you win almost every time and I feel your brother getting upset. That's what it feels like. Okay, okay. I know that doesn't mean anything. That's not why you're talking to me. Oh, my Braxton. My brother is a really bad sore loser. He's little. He's like this little kid. He's so funny though. He hates losing when we play games. And he doesn't like it that you're not around. Or we play like Candyland. Okay. Yeah.

Okay. That's really crazy because he is like such a sore loser. It's actually really funny because I'm like, he's such a brat. You showed me him losing at the games. He plays you. Yeah. So that was all of it. That's so funny. Your family's great. Are they redoing their backyard? Yes. Being remodeled. Yes. Okay. They have to do something with the pool or are they doing something that's, there has to be like a, okay, give me a second. They haven't leveled it right. I don't know what it is.

We'll push that aside. It's not anything that you have to worry about. But there's some really lovely in a summer household. Did you go to Croatia? Or is there anything with Croatia? Are you planning on going there? I've never been to Croatia. Okay, that's gonna work for a couple years. Why is that coming in? Did you have an ex that was Croatian? Or did you have an ex that was Yugoslavian, maybe? Or somebody that you... Oh my god.

I've had a few exes, so this might be a little tricky. Okay, push that aside. Okay. So if I'm getting that, it's just somebody's thinking about you still. Oh, okay. Why wouldn't they? Okay. But for me to get that, it just shows that there's still... We need to write them down and look at all their nationalities immediately. Yes, definitely. Benelton, okay.

That's actually pretty funny. Wow. Okay, with work. Okay. I'm going to go with work real fast. Where would you like to go? Work would be great. I'm like super, I feel lost sometimes. What if the way that you feel lost is what you're bringing to the public? What if like the part of you feeling like it's not concrete or it's not set a certain way is actually what everybody else is feeling? And so you're able to bring them information that

Like, hey, this is what I'm feeling. This is what's happening. Maybe that's what is supposed to happen. That's going to turn into something else. I know, I can feel how fierce you are. You are driven. You have motive, like, and you are so kind. And so, but you're also, you also are being told a bunch of things all at once. Like, you're being told what to do or how to do it or whatever. There's a few people you can trust. Your mom, this group that's here. Yeah.

and your own intuition. And you're going to get people that are going to want to do their own things with you. And people want to see you having fun. So don't feel bad about that anymore. Okay. Because I feel you feeling bad about that. And don't, because that's, you still, you were so kind. You donate, you do a lot of things that people do not see. And just, they don't have to know, but don't feel bad about that.

Like having fun. Okay. That's good to know. Don't because I'm good. I'm good at having fun, but some people say like I go out too much or whatever. So it gets in my head a little bit, but I'm just having fun. I am so grateful. I did not have this when I was your age. No people need, cause you don't do it in a snobby way. You do it because you can.

That's not a bad thing. People can go out and have fun. People choose not to. So a third of the people are going to love you. A third of the people are going to hate you. And a third of the people are not even going to know who you are. You can't do that for anybody else. And if you go out, you're actually promoting other people's businesses with what you wear, with what you do, with who you are. They're lucky to have you. So don't feel bad if somebody's a hater that says, you know, whatever. And, um,

You'll get to a point, like I feel both of you will get to a point where you're going to be behind the scenes and you are just going to own it. And you are going to have so much else happening, like with different, like, what is it that you can't do? There's nothing you can't do. You have the platform.

Because I was told. But I feel it. And you also have a very loyal group, too, around you. So what is it that you'd want to create to get out there? It'd be those crazy stories that you've dealt with with yourself, right? So start maybe writing scripts or writing. You guys are really good at writing. Figure out what it is that you're passionate about.

Okay. What makes you tick? Braxton's really smart too. And it feels like, did you guys know each other as like little kids? I know you didn't, but that's what it feels like with both of you. With Braxton? Yeah. No, I didn't. Yeah. And do you guys celebrate your birthdays at the same time? It's kind of like his birthday is October 11th.

Our anniversary is November. My birthday is December. Okay. I'm not going to make that fit. Okay. You've either known about him or he's known about you. I feel like, well, he went to my college. He's older than me, obviously, though, and he played football there. So I, like, knew about him or my friends knew about him. I had, like, seen pictures of him before because he was, like, very successful at my school. Okay. Okay.

He's going to be successful wherever he goes. You have to have somebody confident enough to be with you. My FBI agents, the women that are like I have an FBI agent looks like Laura, Angelina Jolie as an FBI agent. And relationships were just awful because they weren't confident enough. He's confident. Okay. He's great. But have you ever had anything with your foot at all?

By chance. Like an injury to my foot? I don't know. Something with either your feet or your toes. I have bunions. Okay. I hate my feet because I think they're ugly. They're not. Just get them. Go to a doctor. Oh, okay. They're fixed.

Sorry. They're not, though, Alex. I just felt your feet hurting. Like, go get them fixed. Okay, okay. You can do that. I'm looking if there's any health scares. You, like, you eat right. You need, we all need more water. Like, you're doing everything right, Alex. And did you just put, implement something, your work to, like, a whole new team? Like, super recently? Last October? Yeah.

Last October? Like this past October? I feel like whatever you did feels strong. Like it has to build on itself. And so maybe that's why you're frustrated. Like so... I feel like you're being called to the East Coast and West Coast. So are you figuring it out? Oh, yeah, yeah. So I live in Miami right now. Okay, I didn't know that. And I don't know. I'm kind of enjoying LA, but I don't... I feel like I have a feeling...

to come out here, but I also don't want to leave my friends and home. Where do your friends come here? Some of them might, but I don't think all of them will. So again, think of it as temporary. Don't think of it as like if it's here...

That it's not going to be full time. But just think of it as this is going to be a part of your life that you can just see where it goes. I think L.A. is going to be great for both of you in some capacity about something in the, like, obviously in the future. I feel like we're, and I don't think that, I feel like Florida too, like Miami. Yeah.

I feel like you can do anything there too. It's not that, but I feel like you'll have maybe more opportunities here. Yeah. I think the both of you will. And I think people will just fall into place. Maybe say, hey, you have to be confident about it. Like, hey, let me just check this out. What is it going to hurt? We're in LA. There's so many great things that happen here just by living here. What question would you have? So could I ask you a name of someone? Yeah.

Do they pass away or are they here? Yes. Passed away. Okay. And who is it to you? My grandpa. Okay. What's the name? Tom or Thomas. And was he in the military at all?

Yes. Okay. Cause he shows up like in the military, but I know that's not what he passed away from. He was just showing me that. And he was always like, there's something with his hearing, like on his right side. Yes. Right. And I felt like that had to do with maybe something in the military or something with his, the noises. But he's like, it's selective. He says it's selective hearing. He's making fun of it. He also says he had something with his leg or something going on with his leg. Um,

But his lungs hurt me. His lungs were the reason why he passed. Right? And he says that he's so funny, though. He loves you guys so much. And you were really, like...

He said that you made every effort to be with him before he passed and that you were there for him. And that even though he wasn't there mentally because he was... He's so funny. He was being drugged because he had cancer. And so he's just like, but he would never say that. But he's just so funny about it. And I felt like he was almost like with what he did in...

The military, he was a hero. Like he, I know he felt like your hero. He's also saying, is there a belt buckle that someone has of his? I'm not sure. Okay. And there's also a watch that he's showing me. He says that you have talked to him. So you've talked to him, like he's come to you in your dreams twice. And he says your dreams are crazy because you're all over the place. But, um, and so you might not remember them.

But there's music that you guys both, like he's showing music. I don't know if it's like the Brat Pack kind of music, like Frank Sinatra. There's some music. It's not that. That's somebody else. Hold on. There's somebody else that's coming in as well. Okay. I felt like you were always his favorite because that's the way he's showing me.

And he needs people to know that he didn't die alone. Like, he was very well left. And did you find, like, journals or something of his? Or books of his? That's okay if you didn't. I don't think so. He says that there's, I don't know, there's something with maps. Something with maps or something with...

coin collection as well. And if it's not him, then it's also somebody else that's coming through. Nobody on the other side talks like this. They just project their feelings and thoughts. And so there's someone that also passed away from a heart attack that's over there. And hold on. Did you have someone that might have been named Thomas or someone that was around that that might have died from suicide? There's somebody that's over there. It feels like it was a friend of a friend. Maybe not somebody that you knew really well.

And I see boating, so I don't know if there was something with the boating accident. But I'm feeling like this person is just coming through. Like, you were nice to them. It wasn't anything that was, like, they were just saying thank you for being nice to them. I'm trying to think. I also have, like, a really bad memory sometimes. No, it's okay. It feels like it would be, like, a friend's brother or a brother's friend or something like that. But it has to do with... It was boating? Before, yeah. It was something with boating.

He was showing me boating and being a little bit reckless and a cat. I always ask, like, why are you coming through? But they really want you to know that they're grateful that you were very kind when other people weren't.

A cat? You were kind when other people weren't. Oh. But there is a cat, though, too. Oh, there's a cat, too. Okay. There's something about 88. I don't even know if you were born yet. Are you getting anything else about the cat? A couple years ago, like, I felt like it wandered off a little bit. My cats do. That's not... That's normal. I'm not trying to generalize it. A cat just showed up when I was talking to all of us.

Yeah, there was a cat at my dad's house, but it kind of like lives outside. Right, it wanders off. Yeah, yeah. Most cats do, so I don't want to make that general. But you didn't see it again though, right? No. It just wandered off. It just, it felt like it just went next door kind of thing. Yeah. But yeah.

I felt like I had a great life though. Yeah. Just hanging out outside. All right, what other questions would you have? Sorry, hopefully you will figure this out later. I'm going to talk with... Okay, specific questions. Unless it pertains to you, if someone passed away that had like an overdose that... I knew of one who died at sea.

Okay, with the ocean. Okay, we'll talk about that later. Because he's showing me sea, he's showing me the ocean, he's showing me something that dealt with his passing. I'm not quite sure, but he's definitely coming by to say hi. Okay. Okay, I feel like we kind of brushed on the general topics of questions I had. Like I was going to ask about my relationship. He's solid. He's just funny. He needs a lot of attention.

Is this like my relationship or can we say that or what? I think you guys can definitely make it. I think that you just have to communicate more. And he needs to be more confident in it. There's nothing more you can do to make him feel more confident. Okay. He just needs to be confident. Okay. He just doesn't know. Like some guys just don't know if they're just confident. It's fine. It's like everything's going to work out.

But he gets... And he'll never show it. Yeah, I was going to say. He doesn't really say anything. But, you know, guys are just... That's just guys in general. They're going to be curious if you're out in L.A. It's like a guy's worst nightmare. Yeah. That's elsewhere. It just is. And so... But he's strong enough. He comes from a great family. I love his family. He...

You know, he has a very strong mom. I always look at that. But you guys are so young. You guys should... The best way to help a relationship is focusing on yourself. And then, because if you're confident, then your relationship's confident. If you just focus on the relationship, then you're going to miss out on everything. Yeah. And you guys, right now, keep doing what you're doing and do it your way. Okay. Okay. My way? Your way. I don't know what that means exactly. Okay.

It's by allowing yourself to be vulnerable enough to talk about topics that people don't talk about or do things that people don't do. Okay. And do you see anything with... Wait, I forgot. In the beginning, you said something with my grandma. Is she going to be okay? I think she's getting tired. She's just tired. You are so empathic. I think if you just pay more attention to her, then you won't feel bad when she is gone. Okay.

I don't know how much longer she has. Okay. She's a strong person. So I don't see her necessarily like kicking the bucket, but I see her missing you. I see her loving you. I see her just, and it's just these little things like just calling her. I call it like alleviating the volcano, the pressure. Okay.

Like the more earthquakes we have here, the better because that's the big one. People don't understand that. So it's, yay, there's another earthquake. I know that sounds a little nutty, but it's like that with your parents. It's like that with your moms. It's like that with your grandparents. Even if you have five minutes, just talk to her. Yeah. Okay. And that goes so far. I just feel her missing you. Okay. Yeah. Good to know. Yeah. Yeah.

And then the other thing, there's something about a necklace. Did you lose a necklace, like, over the last three years? Something that dealt with one of your grandparents, maybe one of your grandmothers, like a little pendant of some sort?

Honestly, I think my dad's grandma gave me a necklace that I lost. Okay. Or, yeah, something with like an engravement on it. Yeah, something that... I feel like it's actually like... Do you still have your childhood home? Mm-hmm. Because it feels like it's still there. It feels like it's in a box. Okay. But it's just something that... I don't know why I'm being shown that. Okay. It's not lost yet. Okay. Do you see anything with my family? No.

Did your dad do something with his knee or did he get a... Is he getting something with his knee? My grandma had something with her knee. Okay. I don't know. All grandmas usually do. I'm not going to make that fit. Okay. I feel like your dad, his knee's hurting for some reason. I'll ask him. What's his first name? TJ. TJ. Okay. Oh, he's fine. He's very strong. And your mom's first name? Alyssa. She was like... Did she pick up tennis or did she play tennis? Or is she...

I don't know, honestly. I'm going to ask her on my FaceTime call to her. It feels like she's doing really well. She has this new outlook on life. It feels like she feels better. And then it feels like your dad, did you switch doing something? Not necessarily with work, but just he's refocused something. It feels like. And did you do something with a car? Or did you get a new car? He may have. Okay. Okay.

Oh, gosh, I have to talk to my family more, apparently. They feel good. I feel like your dad might have had a health scare or a heart scare that he, like, had to go in for. I know there was something they went, but, like, everything was okay. Everything's okay. I think he just had a panic attack or something. Like, I don't know. It just felt like something. But he feels strong. And your mom feels like she's kicking ass, actually. Yeah.

And then there's some... Somebody's over there talking about, like, a leak in the roof. Like, they're just going over things that need to be done that are fine, that are whatever. Sorry. It's like a grandparent that's like, well, there's a leak over the garage that needs to be fixed, and there's a tire that needs to be fixed on a car, and there's a...

Like, I don't know. There's just a lot going on. You have a lot going on with your family, but they feel fine. Okay. Okay. Yeah. And in July, I feel like you have something big that's going on in July. I'm going to be going to the Hamptons for July. I love the Hamptons. What part? Montauk. Montauk's the best surfing spot. I tried surfing there the first time last summer. I loved it. It's fun. It's a lot of fun. Yeah. Yeah.

I take my kids to the Hamptons every summer. Yeah, it's beautiful there. Yeah, it is.

It's just a different breed. Like the way you dress is more Hamptons. Like I noticed that before, more Hamptons. Like my daughter, the way she dresses. You think I dress Hamptons? Yeah. Then maybe it's just because I have a sweater on right now. I'm usually like, I feel like it's the Hamptons people's worst nightmare. No, no, no, don't say it. Like I'm so grateful that I took my daughter there because my girlfriends live there.

And we go to Southampton. Because of that, she actually dresses appropriately. She doesn't wear the string bikinis or whatever. Yeah, I'm a string bikini type of girl. Well, they're lucky.

That was insane. It was insane. That was crazy. I feel like yours was more spot on than mine. I thought yours was more spot on than mine. There were some that was crazy. There were a few hard hitters for both of us, I think. Yeah. I thought the name thing for me was insane. That was crazy. Yeah. When that was happening with... That's your grandpa, right? Yeah. I got the chills. I was sitting over there and I kept having to go like this because... I know, I looked over your whole face. I was like, oh my god, I can't hide these reactions right now and I have to be quiet. But that was insane. And then...

I don't know, like niche, but when she was like, your brother's a brat. And I was kind of like, like, what are you talking about? Like teeny tiny brother. He's literally like six years old. And I was like, wait, what do you mean? And then she was like, is it something with card games? And I always go home and play games with him. But that's like Monopoly or like whatever. And he is the sorest loser and like cries every single time. So I was like, that's crazy. That is crazy. And she knew my grandma's in Wisconsin. That was that was crazy. And then what was it about your grandfather? Yeah.

Like was it him and she was like she knew that he died that I started tearing up I don't know if like anyone saw it but I like tried to like take a few deep breaths because I was like I don't want to cry right now but she was like yeah he got sick and she was like his lungs and she was like he died from cancer and he died from lung cancer and like I literally almost lost my shit I was like I can't and she was like he's visiting you in your dreams or whatever and then she said something with music but then she like didn't follow the thought but I

His song that was like all of our songs was like, what a wonderful world because he was just like the nicest guy ever. And like that was the song we would always play with him. So I thought she was going to say that, but she didn't. That would be crazy. Yeah. Imagine if she knew the exact song. Yeah. I want to know how much she really knows because she said at the end that she was kind of holding back.

Yeah. I'm, like, intrigued. When we turned the cameras off, she was like, there's stuff I can't say. And she said she knows how people are going to die, but, like, there's stuff she won't say. She wouldn't tell me. I asked her. I said, how am I going to die? That's, like, a pretty dangerous, like...

I guess you can't really tell someone because then they're not going to ever like do that thing. I just want to know if someone's going to like brutally kill me because like that scares me. But anything else is fine. Like natural death is fine. I feel like I would want more someone to know like what age I'm dying. Oh no, I think that's bad. Because think about if you know how, like you would be so scared to live your life. Yeah, but if you knew what age, I feel like that could become like a self-fulfilling prophecy almost. If you thought you're going to die at 45. Yeah.

Yeah. I know you'd live a pretty good life though. At least she didn't tell us so. Yeah and the first thing she said when she came in she looked at both of me and Alex before we even like had introduced ourselves she's like you both need to call your moms. I thought that was so sad. That is really sad of us. Yeah. My mom texts me all the time and I don't know if you're like this but I'm really bad with my phone and then I feel like just being busy on top of it I'm really bad. Yeah. Calling my mom.

I don't text anybody back. Not even my mom. It's terrible. I went to text her whilst you guys were doing the thing, but she's asleep because she's in London. And it was like five unread texts from me or from during the day. And I was like, I suck. Yeah. That's so mean of me. I'm really bad. I will read texts, but like subconsciously. And I don't even know that I read them. And then I just don't answer anyone. And then they just go down on the thing. And I'm like, no.

But then it gives me anxiety. Yeah. I feel so bad. I'm going to call her the second she wakes up. No, we have to call her. I know. And we turn this off. And I can't believe that my dog misses me. That made me feel so bad. That was crazy. That was crazy. That made me feel horrible. Like, that was, you need to, you need to go home and get your dog. I know. Immediately. But then I'm going to ask her when I have my dog in LA, and she's going to be like, that dog misses her grandma. I'm going to be like, fuck. Who's the grandma? My mom. Oh. Yeah. Is she close with your mom? Well, she basically is her...

oh no because I've ditched them because that is watching it yeah I want a dog don't get one I can't get a dog no because I will never be able to I don't like know where my home is neither do I and I feel horrible about it it's like abandon her I bought her and then immediately just like handed her off to my mom which was the one thing my mom said could never happen and that was the reason I was never allowed a dog yeah and then I was like no it's fine my life is like so stable and I can afford a dog and then

all of this happened and I was like, oh, sorry, mom. I guess you've got a dog now. What were the other crazy things that they said? They were picking up on, she was picking up on everybody else that's in the room. Yeah, she was saying like initials, birthdays. I'm trying to think of, what was she saying about an ex that's, I have an ex. What was she saying, like Croatia or something? But aren't you going to Croatia? Italy. Does anyone in the room have an ex from Croatia? My one ex is something.

But I always forget what it is. I know it's like something that feels like similar to that. Something. He misses me. He's thinking of me is what she said. I think I blacked out the entire time. I was just about to say, I think I blacked out. Yeah. Because you're so like zoned in and then...

I was trying to see what she was scribbling on there. She kept drawing like hearts and like whatever. She's just doodling. She's bored. But that was really cool. And I believe in psychics. Like, do you now? Yeah, 100%. Have you been to a psychic before? No, but my mom went to one when I was little and she asked the psychic about me and the psychic like,

What's the word? Like, corroborate? Like, agreed with her story that I died in some, like, really traumatic way. That was crazy, too, that she said that about you dying. Everyone... Like, I think I've had, like, one past life because everyone says the same thing. Like, I died as a baby. Yeah. So this must be my second round. I used to go to this one therapist. I mean...

I used to go to this one psychic as a therapist. Like I would actually, anytime I like fought with my boyfriend, I would just go to this psychic and I was like, tell me what to do or whatever. And some of the stuff that she said has actually come true, which is so crazy. And even when I was little, I like didn't really think anything of it, but she would give me like the initials of like the boyfriend that I had next and like what he looked like and like his eye color. It was actually insane. Did she premeditate Brexit?

No, because this is when I was like 15. You were going to be thinking of 15. And then my one told me basically predicted COVID. Well, not actually COVID, but my freshman year of college is when COVID happened. So we had to like leave the dorms and leave. And she was like, your freshman year of college, she was like, you're going to have two living situations for school. Like,

For some reason, the first one's not going to work out. And I was always convinced the whole first year that something was going to happen with my roommate. Like we weren't going to like each other and move out. And then I ended up taking like the other half of the year from home in New Jersey because COVID. That's crazy. Yeah. I wonder if right before COVID, psychics were getting a bunch of weird shit that they didn't understand. Like everyone's lives were about to just like go up in flames and they couldn't figure out why. Yeah. Yeah.

That would have actually been, I think I want to hire that woman to see me like on a weekly basis. I think that's way more of a life hack than a therapist. Yeah. I think you were on the right track at 15. Unless they're like lying. Do you think she was lying? No. I think there were some things that were way too crazy, like Wisconsin and my middle name.

That was crazy too. Have you ever said that online? No. Because I always think somehow I'm like, is this just stuff that's on the internet that people can find? I know. Because I've definitely posted about my grandparents being in Wisconsin. Yeah, right? But I know that she didn't know who we were before coming. Yeah. At least no one on my team told her. Unless she has another source. I didn't know that. Yeah, she didn't know. Okay. She was only told what we do for work when she got to the house today. Oh.

Oh. So to like make this all make sense. Okay. But yeah, she didn't. Supposedly. Supposedly. She didn't know. Okay. Well, that's cool. And moral of the story is I guess we both have to move to L.A.,

Yeah. She was really passionate about you moving. Yeah, she got like excited. I asked her if I wanted her to be as passionate and she kind of was like... Yeah. She was really excited about your career though. Mm-hmm. And having fun. That's cool. She told me to keep having fun. Yeah. I didn't want to tell her that people would like say that I'm like an alcoholic or something. Do people say that? Yes. That's so stupid. I know. But she told me to keep having fun and not be afraid of it. So...

yeah obviously you have to keep having fun yeah don't even question it that's so funny yeah you have to keep having fun we both have to move to LA uh-huh our lives have changed like we know we know how to handle life now I really I want to get her back and ask her like short term like I wonder if she can tell like if you pick an apartment in this area versus this area who are you going to meet that you wouldn't well she was telling us she had a daughter that's young and I was like what

Does your daughter not bombard you every second? Like, if my mom was a psychic, I would call her every two seconds. Then she would get FaceTime calls from me. I would need to know. I know. Well, she said her daughter does bombard her with calls. Yeah, about this boyfriend. That's so cool. She might be the coolest mom that you could possibly have. She also said that she was telling us she finds a lot of dead bodies. She's, like, in the FBI or something. She said she found one yesterday. Yeah, that's nuts. Anywho.

Is that like tangible evidence in court though? I don't know. Well, I mean, if she finds the body. I mean, true. I really wanted to ask her about Madeleine McCann and I fucking forgot. Who? She's like the most famous missing person in the UK. She's been missing since like 2004. Oh, okay. Should we wrap up? Probably. I feel like I'm gonna get hate for my shoes on the couch.

I already see that coming. I've been stomping my feet all over the sofa all week. I like that you're like messy too. Yeah. I was like, I see it's clean in here, but it's not like that clean, but it's like, it's, it's clean. Thank you. I know. Yeah. They don't need to see all that, but I did think about it. I was like, it's only Alex. Like I'm sure she won't judge me too hard.

wait did my puke dress like scare the shit out of you no i thought you had a puke i do but like other people's puke is fine i just don't want to puke oh yeah okay

I love your dress over there and I was like no it's fine I love your cute dress thank you I was thinking you said something to me whenever it was that I last saw you and you were like I'm not dirty I'm just messy and I was like oh yeah same same same and then I was cleaning up my flat for you to come and I was like no I'm fucking dirty this is disgusting I was like she's gonna walk in here thinking we're the same and she's gonna be disgusted no I took out like three bags of trash okay cool

Well, thanks for having me today. Thanks for coming. This was a lot of fun. It was. I feel enlightened. We'll have to do it again. Part two. Thanks for coming, Alex L. Thanks, Madeline RG. That was really good. That was good. I've been working on it. Have you really? Hello. Yeah. It was better, right? Yeah. Way better. Okay. I'm proud of you. Thank you. Thank you. Okay, bye. Bye.