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Madeline: 在播客中，Madeline 分享了她 19 岁时与朋友分手的经历，以及这段经历带给她的巨大痛苦。她详细描述了当时的心情和感受，以及多年后回顾这段经历的反思。她认为，友情破裂比爱情分手更令人痛苦，因为她一直认为友情是永久的，而爱情关系则相对短暂。她将友情比作是长期陪伴、共同成长，朋友如同参与塑造自我的重要组成部分，失去朋友如同失去灵魂的一部分。她反思了自己在处理友情破裂时的过度反应，以及多年后对这段经历的理解和释怀。她强调了友情的重要性，以及在友情破裂后，人们应该给予更多关注和理解。Madeline 还分享了她处理人际关系中的一些经验教训，例如设定边界的重要性，以及如何避免因为害怕被伤害而过度设防。

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Madeline shares a deeply personal anecdote about discovering an old friendship breakup text from her notes app. This discovery prompts a reflection on the intensity of friendship breakups, particularly in comparison to romantic relationships.
  • Madeline's discovered text reveals the raw pain and confusion of a past friendship breakup.
  • The text highlights the desire for understanding and closure in the aftermath of such a loss.

Shownotes Transcript

This week on Pretty Lonesome, Madeline dives into her notes app archives and stumbles upon an unexpected find—a friendship breakup text. But why do friendship breakups often hit harder than romantic ones? Madeline unpacks her belief that friendships should last a lifetime, while romantic relationships? We aren’t there just yet.

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