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There's Hope (S1E8 - Season 1 Finale)

2022/11/23
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Andrea Dunlop
一名专注于真实犯罪和社会问题的媒体人物和作者。
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Hope Ybarra
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Andrea Dunlop:Andrea 渴望与姐姐Hope对话,希望能够帮助姐姐,并从中获得对姐姐行为的理解。她希望通过与Hope的对话,帮助Hope及其家人走出困境,并最终实现某种程度的治愈,即使无法完全修复家庭关系,但如果能够帮助Hope及其家人获得一些治愈和答案,也是有意义的。Andrea 仍然爱着她的姐姐,并试图理解姐姐的行为动机,即使这些行为是不可原谅的。她认为,如果能够在行为变得具有破坏性之前解决病人的痛苦,将是理想的。Andrea 意识到自己需要放下对姐姐的执念,并正式告别过去,不再把Hope视为自己的姐姐。 Hope Ybarra:Hope 表达了她对家人的爱,并为自己的行为道歉,对自己的行为表示后悔,并强调自己并非出于恶意。她认为自己做出那些行为是因为她感到缺乏爱,强调自己做出那些行为是为了获得爱。Hope 承认自己对外部现实的感知与内心感受不符,建议年轻的自己要放眼全局,不要只关注自身感受。Hope 现在专注于避免再次破坏人际关系,建议其他处于类似境地的人要寻求外部帮助,不要等到事情变得不可挽回。Hope 认为承认错误和接受失败是最困难的部分,希望能够修复与家人的关系,并表示愿意为修复家庭关系付出努力。Hope 对家人表达了爱意,并为破坏家庭关系感到后悔。

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Andrea Dunlop reflects on her motivations and hopes for meeting Hope Ybarra, aiming to gain insights into her actions and possibly help her reconcile with her family.

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Andrea has made an intense connection with Hope Ybarra's family, and asked experts, doctors, and the detective so many of her burning questions about Munchausen by Proxy. But she's become increasingly fixated on talking to Hope herself as she comes to realize that it may be her only chance to get the insights she needs. In this stunning season one finale, Andrea travels to Mountain Home, Idaho, to meet with Hope Ybarra.

In this intense, emotional back-and-forth, we hear straight from Hope what life is like for her after being released from prison. We find out what she's up to and what she hopes for from the future. Hope listens to her own family—all of whom she's estranged from with the exception of Robin—talk about what she was like before everything fell apart. She insists that she still loves her children, despite what she did. We see the human being behind the monstrous acts that splashed Hope's story across headlines and landed her in prison for a decade. 

Andrea asks Hope what might have been done to help her and what she might say to her younger self if she could go back. Finally, she tells Hope that if she really wants her family back, she should get treatment and offers to help her if she wants that. 

Hope is friendly and warm in person, but Andrea is left with the unsettling truth that she hasn't changed. 


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