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Bonus Episode 7 | Bella Gandhi - Mastering the Art of Modern Love - Mick Unplugged

2024/5/7
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Bella Gandhi: 我拥有非常规的背景，这与我的约会专家身份形成对比。我从19岁开始就帮助他人建立关系，这促使我成为约会专家。在2009年，我克服恐惧，创立了Smart Dating Academy，帮助人们找到真爱。找到爱情对每个人来说都是脆弱而敏感的，成为爱情生活的私人教练是一种荣幸。成功的约会需要专注于成为最好的自己，进行自我反省，并制定约会计划，包括线上和线下方式。帮助客户重新想象健康关系的样子，并理解为什么他们会停滞不前，关系需要努力，但并非痛苦的努力。关系不是50/50，而是双方各100%，需要不断付出和调整。在关系中，付出和获得会不平衡，但保持积极的付出心态很重要。现代人对关系的期望更高，寿命更长，因此需要在一段关系中发展出多种关系模式。随着时间推移，人们和伴侣都会改变，关系也会随之演变，需要不断适应和调整。在关系中，要思考自身需求和伴侣的需求，避免草率结束关系。在关系中，品格至关重要，它无法改变，应该作为首要考虑因素。拒绝是不可避免的，但它并不代表终结，应该从中学习并继续前进。在约会中，并非所有吸引力都代表着长久的关系，品格和价值观更重要。在Smart Dating Academy，建议至少进行15次约会，持续三个月以上，才能进入独家关系，以避免草率的决定。15次约会并非指15天内完成，而是为了充分了解对方，避免草率决定。虽然一见钟情和快速结婚可能发生，但如果过去的关系不顺利，尝试不同的方法是值得的。Smart Dating Academy的流程包括深入了解客户的背景、进行照片拍摄、提供在线资料建议、以及持续的指导和支持。Smart Dating Academy很少撮合两个都是其客户的人。应对AI带来的约会挑战，建议使用Google语音号码保护个人信息，并注意识别网络骗子的迹象。人们可以通过smartdatingacademy.com、Instagram和播客找到更多信息。即使对爱情感到绝望的人，也有找到真爱的机会。 Mick Hunt: 对Bella Gandhi的专访，探讨了现代约会的复杂性以及如何找到真爱。强调了在快节奏的现代生活中保持真实性和建立持久关系的重要性，以及性格和双方共同努力在伴侣关系中的重要性。

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In this episode, Mick Hunt and Bella Gandhi explore the complexities of modern dating. Bella discusses her unique approach to helping clients find love through self-improvement and strategic dating plans. They also explore maintaining authenticity and building lasting relationships in today's fast-paced world, emphasizing the importance of character and mutual effort in partnerships.

Bella Gandhi's Background: Transition from a career in finance and mergers to becoming a leading dating expert.

Defining Moments: Bella shares her journey to finding love and how it inspired her to help others find the same.

Discussion Topics:

  • The evolution of dating and relationships in the digital age.
  • Strategies for developing a successful dating mindset and avoiding common pitfalls.
  • Insights on creating meaningful connections and character's importance in relationships.

Key Quotes:

  • "Focus on being the best version of yourself."
  • "It's not about 50/50 in a relationship; it's 100/100 from both sides."

Next Steps:

  • Learn More: Visit the Smart Dating Academy website for resources and tips.
  • Reflect: Consider how you can apply Bella’s dating strategies to enhance your own love life.
  • Engage: Share your dating stories and how Bella’s insights might help using #MickUnplugged.