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Ep 523 - Shirtless Workers (feat. Ralph Barbosa)

2024/10/23
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Matt McCusker 和 Ralph Barbosa 讨论了经营脱衣舞俱乐部的挑战,特别是如何管理一群难以驾驭的女性员工。他们认为,这需要极大的耐心和技巧,甚至可能需要借助药物来应对压力。他们还谈到了许多影视作品将皮条客描绘得过于光鲜,而忽略了其对女性的残酷剥削。他们认为,好的领导力与皮条客的管理技巧有相似之处,但人们对男性妓女的皮条客关注较少。他们还讨论了Iceberg Slim的自传,认为其揭露了皮条客行业的黑暗面,对读者心理冲击很大。 Ralph Barbosa 分享了他大学时期在 Craigslist 上发布卖淫广告的经历,以及他恶作剧将室友的号码发布在 Craigslist 个人广告上导致室友电话被打爆的经历。他认为,大多数男性妓女服务的客户是男性,并且根据他的经验,男性和女性妓女都主要服务于男性客户。他还谈到了他对脱衣舞俱乐部创立者的商业头脑的钦佩,以及他对脱衣舞俱乐部起源和发展过程的好奇。

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Why did Ralph Barbosa decide to stop pursuing a career in construction?

He felt out of place in office settings and missed the camaraderie and characters of construction sites.

Why did Ralph Barbosa feel conflicted about continuing stand-up comedy?

He felt essential for his well-being but struggled with balancing it with family time.

Why did Ralph Barbosa find office jobs unbearable?

He felt stifled by the hierarchy, lack of genuine work, and the pretense of productivity.

Why did Ralph Barbosa appreciate working with Mexican laborers?

He enjoyed the camaraderie, humor, and the relaxed atmosphere despite the machismo.

Why did Ralph Barbosa feel a sense of camaraderie with Mexican workers?

They shared a similar background and upbringing, making the work environment more enjoyable.

Why did Ralph Barbosa enjoy working in construction despite the racism?

He appreciated the characters and the relaxed, humorous atmosphere on the job sites.

Why did Ralph Barbosa feel a disconnect with British people as an American?

He perceived a cultural difference and a sense of rivalry, similar to how American black people view Africans.

Why did Ralph Barbosa find the machismo culture among Mexican workers both appealing and oppressive?

He appreciated the humor and camaraderie but found it oppressive when he was the target of machismo.

Why did Ralph Barbosa feel a sense of pride in his construction job despite the hardships?

He enjoyed the characters, the humor, and the sense of community among the workers.

Why did Ralph Barbosa feel a sense of identity crisis when trying to balance stand-up comedy and fatherhood?

He felt pulled between his passion for comedy and his responsibilities as a father, leading to internal conflict.

Chapters
The conversation explores the fantasy of owning a strip club and the realities of managing such a business, including the challenges of dealing with strippers and potential drug use.
  • Owning a strip club involves managing a workforce of unpredictable and often wild women.
  • The idea of pimping is discussed in the context of managing strippers and the potential for drug use.
  • The conversation touches on the historical context of strip clubs and how they evolved from brothels.

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