Loving BDSM

The word “advocacy” in terms of power exchange and BDSM has been on our minds a lot lately, so it’s

Boring implies “bad” but we don’t think that’s always the case. The reality, though, is that long-te

We’ve talked about love languages before, and we’ve talked about making mistakes and needing to apol

We’ve said it many times but never really focused on it — the fantasy of D/s, kink, and BDSM can’t m

Most of us have heard the cliched advice, “Never go to bed angry!” Everyone has their own opinion an

You’ve heard us call BDSM, power exchange, and the kink life a “journey.” And yes, it’s become clich

A conversation with a kinky friend of ours prompted this week’s topic. That person stayed in a crumb

It started as an offhand idea John Brownstone threw out right before Christmas, and then we ran with

Okay, so Q&A episodes might be our way of getting out of thinking about a topic, but it’s the last e

It’s no secret around here that we work from home and we work together. We talk about it a LOT and u

Have you ever looked back on a break-up or a big argument with your partner, and thought, “I knew so

We do this every year, and every year it’s a whirlwind. This week, we’re sharing our favorites from

Back in episode 13, we shared how we handle money within our power exchange relationship. Over the y

We received a fascinating email about a promise made in a D/s relationship, and it got us thinking a

In this week’s episode, we take a listener question about BDSM collars and turn it into a larger dis

This week’s episode was inspired by a recent public display of kink that went viral on Twitter and c

Is there a difference between a kink and a fetish? What is that difference? Does that difference eve

It’s here! It’s here! Not just a special Thursday podcast but John Brownstone’s new shop: The Kinker

We’ve talked about this in different episodes in the past, but it’s time to give it a standalone epi

It’s the start of October — aka Kinktober. We thought it would be fun and appropriate to talk kink.