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See You Never

2024/12/10
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Angie
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Jennifer
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Pumps
Topics
Pumps: 对圣诞节期间无处不在的圣诞音乐感到厌烦,认为商家应该适度播放。 Jennifer: 对人们使用笼统的"some weather"来描述天气感到不满,认为应该使用更具体的形容词。Jennifer还提到,在尴尬的社交场合,谈论天气是一种应急手段,但她更倾向于沉默。 Angie: 同意Jennifer的观点,并分享了自己在美甲沙龙和飞机上遇到的不愉快经历,以及自己减少与人交谈的愿望。Angie还指出,戴着耳机时,别人和她说话很烦人。 Jennifer: 在社交场合使用封闭式结尾语句,避免谈话持续过久。Jennifer渴望真诚的交流,而不是虚假的寒暄。 Angie: 建议直接问“你为什么关心?”来回应“你好吗?”。

Deep Dive

Key Insights

Why are the hosts fed up with Christmas music playing everywhere?

They find it relentless and repetitive, with only a few songs they enjoy, like Mariah Carey's 'All I Want for Christmas is You' and Wham's 'Last Christmas'. They feel it's overplayed in every store and even at the dentist, making it unbearable.

What do the hosts suggest as an alternative to small talk about the weather?

They advocate for embracing silence instead of engaging in uncreative conversations. They believe descriptive adjectives should be used when discussing weather, such as 'good weather' or 'bad weather', rather than just 'some weather'.

Why do the hosts think older people talk more about the weather?

They believe it becomes an all-consuming topic for older people, possibly because they feel there's nothing they can do about it. It also serves as a universal topic for awkward conversations.

What is the hosts' opinion on AI-powered Jesus in a Swiss church?

They think it's a brilliant idea, especially for Catholics who have to go to confession. They prefer talking to AI Jesus over potentially creepy priests, as it avoids issues of abuse and privacy.

What are the hosts' thoughts on the metric system versus the imperial system?

They agree that the metric system makes more sense but acknowledge that the U.S. is too ethnocentric and unlikely to switch. They also find it challenging to adapt to metric measurements due to their familiarity with the imperial system.

What is the hosts' stance on people trying to sell homemade goods on Facebook Marketplace?

They find it gross and unprofessional, especially when the seller's dirty kitchen is visible in the background. They believe there should be more oversight and standards for such sales.

What does the host suggest as a way to end awkward conversations?

They recommend using closing statements and excuses, such as saying they have a phone call coming up or need to leave soon. They prefer being direct and avoiding open-ended conversations.

Why do the hosts think people talk about the weather so much?

They believe it's a low-effort topic for small talk, especially in awkward situations. However, they find it overused and prefer silence or more engaging conversations.

What is the hosts' opinion on people trying to talk to them when they have earbuds in?

They find it rude and believe people should respect the fact that they are listening to something. They think it's obvious they don't want to engage in conversation if they have earbuds in.

What does the host suggest as a way to handle people who won't stop talking at the nail salon?

They suggest wrapping oneself in a prickly costume like a cactus or porcupine to deter unwanted conversations. They also advocate for being direct and ending conversations politely but firmly.

Chapters
This chapter discusses pet peeves, focusing on excessive Christmas music, the overuse of the word "weather" in conversations, and the preference for silence over small talk. The hosts share their personal experiences and frustrations with these issues.
  • Excessive Christmas music is a common complaint.
  • People overuse the word "weather" without descriptive adjectives.
  • Silence is preferred over forced small talk.

Shownotes Transcript

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