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So are we supposed to start the podcast? Ready? One, two, three. Patriots, gay-triots, and they-triots. So what are we? We're the blue-winged hawk. Blue-winged hawk. Here's the deal. Here's the deal, listener.

You still get to be a patriot. You still get to get it, be a gay triad. You still get to be a patriot. You still get to be a decent person. You still get to experience joy. Nobody can take that from us. But right now we're all sharing a lot of despair and,

And what we do is we build communities. And we have been building a community for the last two years of this podcast. And the community remains. The camaraderie remains. The cynicism remains. The grievances remain. The laughter remain. And we still get to share that with one another. But Pumps and I would like to really reach out to the marginalized members of this community and say, we know.

that this is especially painful for you and that it especially feels personal. And we are here. We are still your podcasting mothers. And we will always fight the good fight for you because we value you more

over the cost of eggs. We value your right to exist over all of these other crazy things. And so just know that you matter and that we love you. And moving forward in our podcast so that we can all stay sane, we'll address...

the pain that we're all going through. We'll address the need for all of us to mobilize, form a community and launch the resistance. But we also still get to laugh. We also need to remember that we still get to experience joy. So in that regard...

Meemaw has been having a hard time, you guys. She's over here, boodle baby, crying like she keeps calling me a titty baby and she's not wrong. I mean, it's titty baby city over here for me. It's actually very sweet. But Meemaw, what have you had it with? OK, what I've had it with is people that do not behave appropriately in drop off and pickup lines. Now, I had forgotten because it's been so long that my kids were in a drop off and pickup line.

how fucking mad it makes me when people like stop the car, they get out and talk to other people, blocking everybody else's thoroughfare, or whatever you call it, way through. Like they block traffic because they're so unable to be self-aware that they are blocking everybody else's time. It makes me fucking crazy. It just happened to me at drop-off at the doggy daycare.

I go to pull in and it's like a two person deal. This motherfucker, he parked his car right in the middle. So nobody in front of him could park. Nobody could get to the side. Nobody could get in behind because he was like dead smack in the middle of the drop off area. He had the back of his car open, which I assume his dog jumped out, which is fine. But he left it there.

So I had to park kind of down the street and take my little dog in. And I just thought, you're a fucking dick. You're just a dick. Like the lack of self-awareness in the drop off and pickup line is unbelievable. People just do not have any concept that there is anybody else on the planet but them.

I think that parking lot awareness is something that needs to be highlighted. I do not trust the incoming administration to tackle this. So we here at I've Had It podcast are going to try to tackle these things that –

I'm sure the new fascist authoritarian government will ignore and parking lot awareness is something that we can do together. That's right. Listener, we can make change. We can implement change in parking lots. It's something tangible that we can do. Thank you for bringing that to the listener's attention. Let me tell you what I've had it with. You and I recently returned on a flight to Oklahoma City and we landed and we were on the tarmac and

And the pilot comes on and he says, oh, listen up, folks. Looks like there's another plane at our gate. We'll push off in about five to ten minutes. So we're just going to sit here and hang tight. We'll let you know when we're able to push forward. I look out the window. Much to my surprise, there are about six gates with no airplane attached to them. No airplane parked there. And I'm thinking to myself, what?

Why can't you improvise? Why can't this airport say there's somebody at gate seven, but gate eight, nine, 10, 11, and 12 are available. So why don't y'all just push to one of those so we can get these people off of that bird? It makes me insane. You have to improvise. Improvise for God's sakes. Nobody likes flying, but the people that run all the flying are

could take measures and do things to make it a tinge less painful. A solution that I could see from my little window, my little oval shaped window, I could see I have a solution to this problem. Right. And I know that I wasn't the only person thinking that.

You know how I know you weren't? Because you and I were just like, what the fuck? There are 27 million gates. Why are we not moving? I don't know if in the moment you saw this, but the guy in front of us that was sitting in front of you, he turned around to me. He goes, I don't think it's going to be much longer. Because he heard us bitching about it? So I think he thought we were about to fucking storm the front of the plane. Yeah.

Because I looked at him and I thought maybe we're being loud. But my whole thing with that is, and for people that live in large metropolitan areas, you have to understand the Oklahoma City airport has maybe 20 gates, 25 at the most. So it's not like there were 27 different planes sitting on the tarmac trying to get in. We were it. That was it. We were the list.

And we sat there for about 20 minutes. That's the thing. When you go to other airports, how many times are we on our way to a large city airport and it says gate change? And then you get through security and then there's another gate change. And then you get to the gate that you thought was changed and they've changed it again. They're improvising. Right. These little stories.

smaller airports of second tier cities. They are not improvising. But listener, I'm going to tell you what, we are going to have the mayor of Oklahoma City on this show soon.

And Kylie, write down this. I want a list. There's a list of things I'd like to talk to him about to impact change on a local level. Right. And number one is Will Rogers International Airport's ability to improvise to make flying less painful. And I'm just going to tell you, listener, where we can impact change. We're going to try to do it. Micro level. Micro level parking lot. This lesson today, parking lot awareness. Yes.

And then step two is we're going to have the mayor of Oklahoma City on the podcast to address this issue. I want to confront him about it. I need to talk to him about this. I also there's some other things. I'll save it for the episode. But I actually have a list of things regarding the airport. And listen, anybody that works at Will Rogers World Airport, my grievances are not with you. I know that all of you all are doing your job well.

My grievances are with the boss, whom I believe might be the mayor. I'm unsure. Maybe not. But we're going to get to the bottom of it. Okay. I'm just going to say I do have one tiny grievance with Oklahoma City Airport with a direct person. And it's that old man that sits at baggage claim. And he talks your ear off. And he's a volunteer. And he's like, any questions for me about where I'm going to Oklahoma City? I mean, he's no less than 90. Yeah.

And he talks like he just talks and talks and talks and talks. And he doesn't breathe because he's talking so much. And so that I have a grievance with, which I know part of me is like, he's a little old man. He doesn't have anything to do. He goes to the airport and he's a volunteer. Good for him. That's what a good, nice person would say. But in my mind, I'm thinking, shut the fuck up. Listener, this is what you call elder on elder abuse.

This is elder cannibalism is what this is. I should have more empathy. It's going to be me. Like 10, 20 years from now, you're going to come down the escalator and buy the baggage claim. I'm going to be in my volunteer jacket and I'm just going to be talking people's ears off. It should be yak mouthing. But you know what I'm going to do when you do that? Right. I'm going to have a referee jacket on and a whistle.

And I'm just going to start regulating people. I'm going to be like, you know what? I want to be unhinged in my final days. I want to blow the whistle. I want to scream at people. I want to revert back to what it's like being a toddler, just completely unhinged, completely unhinged. I like the sound of that. All right. Welcome to I've Had It. I'm Jennifer. I'm Angie. She is still America's greatest legal mind. And we're going to need you now more than ever. Kylie, what's going on with our reviews?

We're at like 11,600 something. Wow. That's exciting. So we're moving on. Well, well, well. Okay. I like it. I'm going to read you a few of them. This one is five stars titled Thanks Babes from William. And he writes, I recently went no contact with my Trump loving mother. Thank you for making me feel like the sane one. Wow. It's hard.

It's hard. It's really, really hard. You know, I really empathize with a lot of members of the LGBTQ plus community who have parents that didn't vote for their rights. And we recently were copied on a text from a friend of ours and his dad won't support him and his marriage and their child. And it's just it's so hard.

It haunts me. For this crazy man. It's just, it's just awful. But I want to say this, like, this is different. This election is different. If this were John McCain, Nikki Haley, Mitt Romney, I can disagree with them policy-wise. I have a really hard time with people that triple down on this guy and where they fall morally. I do. And I...

I know that our listener does, too. And it's just a it's a it's a walking red flag. It is a walking red flag into somebody's true character, in my opinion. It's on fire. I mean, it surpasses red flag because we've had I mean, look at all the I'm not going to go into it, but it's very concerning.

Okay, this one is five stars from Ryan, and he titles it, It's Kathy's Show. Ooh. Truly so fun listening to young millennial Kathy help Jessica and her great-great-grandmother Angina navigate the digital sphere as they discuss the issues that matter, like large fallacies in politics. Ten out of ten, pure menopausal chaos. I live for it. I love that. Yeah.

I have to tell you guys, on election night, we stopped by one of the candidates here's party. And someone, I was up at the bar ordering, and someone said, hey, Kathy. We started talking. And then at the end, she goes, what is your real name? Kathy.

And she didn't know my real name was Kylie. I love that. Yeah. Because I am the great, great, great, great, great grandmother. Angina. Angina, which I kind of like. I like it. We'll just add that to the list. Yesterday I had my meet curtain me mom t-shirt that are, uh,

One of our Patreon members made for me and gave it to me at the Seattle show. So I know how Gen Z is taking this because my kids are Gen Z. But Kylie, why don't you give us a report from millennials? How are the millennials? Y'all came up in the Obama era. Yeah. And how are y'all taking this? Not good. It was rough. I think Anna, my girlfriend, cried all day yesterday.

I do want to thank our listeners and some of our Patreon members. I've just been poured with nice messages, and so have you two that I've had at Instagram. People are worried about you guys. It's been tough, and you reach out to your other friends that you know feel the same way as you do, and you kind of just all have to stick together, I feel like. Yeah. But yesterday I went a little unhinged. I was DMing people posting racist shit, and it felt really good because I don't do that. Right. Yeah. Yeah.

You know, it's going to be starting January 20th and then moving forward. It's going to be just a daily, sustained, horrific fuckery day after day after day after day. And we have to

band together. We can talk about a lot of things in a 40-minute episode, you guys. We can talk about how terrified we are. We can talk about how disappointed we are. And then we can shift gears. And this is what friendships do. That's right. And then we can laugh together and still try to experience some joy. So every Tuesday and Thursday, we will still continue. I've had it.

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That's B-O-M-B-A-S dot com slash had it or use code had it at checkout. OK, so now I would like to segue over to some news articles that Kathy has pulled for me to share. The first one is a new research survey of 1000 people suggests that Gen Z trust influencers more than their friends.

I kind of can see that. I can too. I mean, I kind of can see that. I mean, I, you know why? Because for Gen Z, their best friend has been their cell phone their whole life. Yeah. And there's such a curated nature on the social media. And it's like, your life's better than mine. So I want to emulate you kind of thing. And that they just have never not had it.

Yeah, I think that this is the shortcoming for Gen Z, and it's not Gen Z's fault that cell phones came out at the time that they were growing up. But that's their first stop, where when we were growing up, our first stop was to pick up the phone and call a friend and have a voice-to-voice conversation. Right.

God, and I believe it because I think influencing in the right wing manosphere had a huge impact on the results of the election. All right. Next up in the news. I don't know how I feel about this. Well, I know exactly how I feel about this. It's not good. Let me read this to you. Nude pickleball is taking off.

What? Nudist resorts across the U.S. are experiencing a huge surge in popularity for nude pickleball. These clothing optional destinations are expanding their pickleball facilities and hosting tournaments to meet the demand, with enthusiasts finding it a comfortable and freeing way to enjoy the sport. Okay, so the minute you said nude pickleball, I was thinking of the Dragons. Yes.

flopping around in the wind trying to catch the ball. And I just don't even know how that would work. You probably wouldn't even need a paddle. Listener, listen. I bet you're right. Listener, listen to the growth here. She heard nude pickleball and she didn't think of penises. Well, I thought about that next. Right. I know, but that wasn't your first. That wasn't your default setting. Did you get laid? No. No.

What happened? No, I just thought, I cannot imagine my boobs in that situation. Here's the thing about nude pickleball. I'm going to put this, and y'all know I love racket sports, but I'm putting this right there in the Stanley Cup category. I think this is a slippery slope. I think nudist, here's the thing. If you want to be naked and you want to go to naked resorts and you want to swing, swing for the fences. I don't really give a shit. But playing sports naked is,

I don't understand the psychology behind that. Maybe I shouldn't be judgmental about it. Maybe I shouldn't be a lot of things. I just don't understand the psychology behind naked sports playing. I would think you would want everything kind of secured. Well, for the example of the Dragons, and I'm not a modest person and I don't care. Like people want to go to nude resorts and all that. That's fine. Where I would be distracted, not that I'm a great pickleball player because we know I'm terrible.

But if I if it's like a court of, let's say, the three of us and Seth went to play pickleball and right next to us were a court of naked pickleballers, I'm just going to say that would distract me. Well, I would imagine if it was four well-hung men. I don't know what if it was four well-hung men. Distraction over. It's a tap, tap, tap, circle the jets, head to the car.

We know I wouldn't do that. Meemaw! I'm a big talker. Meemaw! But I would be distracted. I'm just saying. Okay. Wait, let's just, okay. You're at the pickleball courts and there are four well-hung men playing pickleball. You think you might just go over and tap, tap and just take him out to the car and just do the dirty?

I'm proud of you. In my mind, I would. But I know that I probably wouldn't in real life. You know what? In the upcoming Trump's America, I say we say, fuck it. Just do it. Go grab the naked pickleballer and just make out in the back of the car. Ride that pony. I do like a little car sex. I mean, I did back in the day. It's been a hundred years. Me, ma. But, you know, back in the day, day. Naked pickleball car sex. Yeah. I mean, I'm here for it. You'd have to push me, though.

I wouldn't on my own. That's just big talk in my mind. Yeah. Did I ever tell you about the time in college that I was having sex in the car and tap, tap, tap on the window? It was the campus police. Let me ask you this. What positions were you in?

God, it's been so long. I can't remember. I know we were in the passenger seat. So I'm straddling on top. I think you were straddled on top. It was exactly what I thought. It was the flyest over. I mean, it was so fast, pull up all that. And I will say to his credit, he was just like, you guys need to move along.

Nobody got arrested for public indecency or anything, but yeah. Do you remember the man's name that you were? Yes, I do, but I'm not going to say it on the podcast. Well, that's no fun. All right. What we have prepared today as a means of

some joy and laughing is we have gone to our Patreon members and asked them to share. Is it Kathy, their first date experiences? Dating, online dating horror stories. Online dating horror stories. Okay. So the first Patreon member we're going to hear from is Rome. And Rome says, I was supposed to get drinks with an older white gentleman. I came to the bar and he was already drunk, having drank three sangrias before meeting me.

He then started fetishizing my ethnicity, could not carry a coherent sentence, had the audacity to have the bartender remake his espresso martini because it had no kick. And before the bartender could finish remaking it, he walked out the bar leaving me alone. That is awful.

I'm so sorry. I am so sorry. So sorry. And I think the words here that identify the red flag are older white gentlemen. There's your clue. But I have to say, on our YouTube, we have a lot of men in the comment section that are like, hey, I'm a boomer white male and I love you. So I always want to make a carve out for them because boomers are the ones that fought these fights originally, all these human rights.

History's repeating itself for the boomers. Okay. Brooke says, my one and only online dating experience happened freshman year of college. My date was supposed to meet me at a sushi restaurant because fuck, letting a stranger pick you up. He was 30 plus minutes late. When I called to see where the fuck his string bean ass was, he said that his truck ran out of gas and asked if I could spot him the money to fill up his tank.

I blocked his number, bought myself sushi, and met my now husband the very next week in algebra class. I love that. It's a feel-good, happy ending. You know what? That is a really good... I mean, it's not even that long of a post. Brooke, A+. A+. Presentation. Can you show us the fuckery? Yeah. She landed the plane. She launched a solution. I feel uplifted. She met her husband. I love that she just immediately blocked him. Just like...

He's 30 minutes late, which the minute he ran out of gas, he should have texted it. The second is he wanted you to spot him. How was he going to pay for dinner? I mean, not saying he had to buy hers, but how was he going to buy his? Agreed. Okay. Next up is Becca Louise. And she always has the gay pride emoji flag next to her. And you know, Becca, that we love you. Okay. So it says, oh, okay.

I'm so glad you asked. In 2014-ish, I got catfished by a girl in a cult. Her name was Christina. She claimed to be 26 and we met on Tumblr. We video chatted for like over a year. So I thought she was legit until one day while chatting about a TV show, I asked if she was an 80s or 90s baby. She full ass hung up on me and I was like, okay, sus.

Since I moonlight as an FBI agent, I asked for her ID. She sent me one with a fake birthday, handwritten, and taped over her real date. Her excuse was that all Tennessee IDs are handwritten. Luckily, I have an IQ above 70, so I knew that wasn't ever even possibly a little bit true.

Yeah.

If you're curious, the cult she's in is called the Irish Travelers in Memphis, Tennessee. They are grifters. Apparently, they dine and dash a lot. They dress their kids like they're in beauty pageants 100% of the time. And the women are arranged in marriages starting at about 13 to 14. So, yes. Yes.

Very sad that she is a lesbian stuck in a Catholic cult, but also manipulating a 20-year-old girl for over a year a little on the fucked up side as well. That's as concise as I could get. Top of the morning to ye and yours. Love, Becca Louise XO. Top of the morning. That is wild. I'm sitting here thinking...

So she's married with twins, pretending she's a hotel manager, but the coup de grace is the handwritten license. That is a nightmare. I mean, Becca Louise, I'm glad you solved that mystery. I'm glad you moonlight as an FBI agent because I too have moonlighted as an FBI agent, as I know Jen has. Yes. Not sure about Kyle's. Of course, you have to. Yes. Okay, next up is Jaylison Leap.

Great, right? Wrong. What?

Oh, my gosh. Yeah.

Did I say Chinese at the top of this? So it was a cheese, like a fondue restaurant. Yes. So listener, I'm sorry. I screwed that up. It's a cheese restaurant. Oh my God. That's trauma right there. Yes. That's like a serial killer type behavior. And Jaylison just wanted that fondue and now I can't even go back. What if you could door dash it or if the trauma is too great? What about, what kind of sociopathic, did you like that little act I pulled? No, that's sociopath behavior. Yeah. Yeah.

I hope that got a real sick puppy, real sick puppy. I'm sure I'll be dating him soon. Pumps our ability to suck and then wake up the next day and suck more than the previous day is undefeated. It's unparalleled. We are the champions. If you would like to see how bad we suck, please join us in New York city in November for, you know, just some world-class shit talking. That's right. Live live and in person. That's right.

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Okay, next up we have Georgia and she says, I have such a good one. Met this guy on Bumble. He seemed relatively straight-laced by his profile, met for drinks, and I could tell there wasn't a spark, but he was nice enough, so stayed on and had a lovely chat and two wines. At the end, he asked if I wanted to go to his place on Thursday, two days later, for dinner. I said, I don't know.

I said I'd have to check my schedule and get back to him. I knew it was a no from me, lol. Anyhow, I got home and he texted saying how much he enjoyed meeting, etc. And I gave him the sorry news that I didn't feel a spark, but good luck with his search. A few texts transpired with me trying to shut it down kindly.

He then confessed he was a dominant looking for a sub and proceeded to send me a photo of his whips and chains, plus a rogue kitchen utensil wooden spoon. I don't want to yuck someone's yum, but this is totally out of line and not something I had showed any interest in, nor was it clear on his profile in any way. Thankfully, I found it fucking hilarious and told all my friends this story and we laughed and oh, we laughed.

It was just so rogue. I said to my gay bestie, what the fuck would have happened if I had gone to the dinner on Thursday? And he said, dolls, you'd be tied up in the basement being spanked. It was so wild, but so wrong in so many ways. LOL. Not saying I wouldn't be open to trying some funky things, but consent always applies. Please. And thanks, Georgia. I mean, here's the thing. Like,

The online dating world, you have people that are genuinely looking for a date. Right. A traditional style of a date where you take some time and see if there's a spark. And then you have people that are looking for a hookup. Right. And then you have like fetish people that are looking to play out their fetishes. And here's what I think that we can make. We can impact change listener. If you're on Bumble, which I assume is just that's just straight up dating. Right. Mm hmm.

They need to have the like fetish websites. That's what I was going to say. I think they have like fetish websites that you can go on and he could find his sub. Yeah. So I don't know why. Maybe like. I don't think you should cross contaminate. Right. The people that are looking for a traditional date. If you want to, you know, put a ball gag in your mouth. Go for it. You know, peg you.

swing for the fences. That's fantastic. But don't contaminate it with Georgia, who was just looking to meet a normal person. Okay, here's my question. After she said, I just want to be friends. I liked you, blah, blah, blah. Why did we have to go in to all of his fetishes? Like, that seems just highly unnecessary to me. Let me ask you this. Let me ask you this.

If you were dating a guy and you liked him and he said – and you always say you want to date somebody that lives out of town. And you liked him. I mean, everything is 10 out of 10. And he said, hey, will you send me a picture of the dragons? Would you send tit pics? No. And that is only because –

Because of the age of my kids, I have just beat the drum like do not take those pics. You don't know where they're going to end up, blah, blah, blah. And so first of all, the dragons aren't that pretty. That'd be number one. But number two, you just don't know what's going to happen with that picture.

And you're so famous. Very famous. No, but I just, even if I was, I just think it's, I just think it really can create problems. So no, I would not send any pics. Would you send me a picture of the dragons? Yeah. Well, I trust you. I mean, I don't know why you'd ask, but. Have you ever sent a nude? Never. Jen? Probably to Josh. Right. Yeah. I think I probably sent a nude. Well, I mean, you're married. Yeah. I mean, this is not just some guy I started

You know what I mean? I think when iPhones and stuff came out, I think I'd send a little. Of course. Yeah. Yeah. I'll tell you what. It did happen one time. That reminds me of a story. All right. Let's hear it. Okay. So on the Dragons, I have like a pointy nipple, like a big cheap eraser. Nobody knows what that is. That's not our age, but just a bigger, thicker nipple. I've seen it. Okay. So one day...

This girlfriend of mine said, you've got, I have the best band-aids for that. And I was like, great. So she gave me some band-aids. I went and bought the band-aids. They were fantastic. They were exactly perfect. So I take that back on the nudie. So I put them on the nipples. I was so pleased.

And I took a picture in the mirror of me standing there with the band-aids on the nipples. And I sent it to her. And I was like, oh, my gosh, this is the best thing that happened to me. Thank you so much for the recommendation. This is a friend for 30 years. So about two days later, you know, for whatever reason, all my iCloud stuff. And this was when Sam was probably 9 or 10.

So he's going through this and I'm sitting next to him and I look and he looks, that picture comes up. Yeah. Then he looks at me and I was like, oh my God, I'm so sorry. And I explained the whole thing. But yeah, so I lied. I have sent a nudie pic and my son saw it at nine years old.

Just to remind the listener, isn't this the same son that you had to take the shit in the cup on the side of the highway? You just couldn't go past that, could you? I just, I just. So when we're unpacking his childhood trauma later, you'll be able to. Just know that I'll have the to-do list.

No, we love you, Sam. He's the best kid on the planet. He really is. And he loves his mama. He does. Okay. Last one, listener. Hudson. Hudson says, when I was 19, I talked to a guy via text for about a month.

He definitely love bombed me and made me feel desired, which caused me to overlook a lot of red flags. He would make questionable comments about my Cuban heritage. I blocked him after he told me that he has a kink for taking people's virginity and that he was into me because I look like his brother. Wow.

What? I later found out he was a total catfish and none of his pictures were him and that he was actually a 50-year-old man. I learned a lot from that experience. I have to say, you guys, that kind of shit like for Gen Z millennials or even people our age because, I mean, people of all ages do, yeah, date the catfishing component is

is wild. And I think it's so sad because I think some people are so lonely and we so want human connection. And then we're making them via text or via instant messaging on a computer. And a little bit of flattery and love bombing, it feels so good. You can get intoxicated by it, especially at a young age. You can fall prey to superficial flattery. You're more susceptible to it.

And they just get sucked in. And then the heartache. And then if you realized it wasn't the real person, then you would be mad at yourself. And I just, Hudson, I'm so sorry. Yeah, I think catfishing is so mean. It is. And people, you know, everybody gets to be perfect in their online persona, you know. And so it's like, I kind of feel like it.

would make you have higher expectations than what humans are really capable of a little bit. But yeah, that's terrible. And you know, the thing is, you hear about it all the time. There's even a TV show about it.

Listener, they even made a TV show about it. Yeah, I've watched it. You did? During the pandemic, my kids and I would watch it. I mean, honestly, you kind of got catfished. Right, but that was just complete not even online. Listener, I'm referring to the time that Pumps had the unwilling affair with a married man. The only time I've known for her to date since she got divorced. Yeah. Yeah. Does he text you? Oh, that's good. Yeah.

Well, all right. Listen up, listener. This is kind of how it's going to go moving forward. We have to come together. We have to laugh together, cry together, you know, share stories together. And we all still get to live our lives and still get to form a community. And just because we're laughing at something doesn't mean we're neglecting something else. So don't fall into this trap that I can't laugh right now. I, you know, blah, blah, blah.

We are human beings and we get to have compound feelings and compound emotions. We can be devastated about the election results, worry for our well-being, worried for our friends' well-being.

and then also make space to come together and remember certain things about the human experience, which are camaraderie, laughter, and togetherness. And that's what we want to offer you all moving forward. Again, if you just need to dive into the politics portions of this, you can listen to our daily podcast, IHIP News. It's all on the same YouTube channel, but if you are a listener and not a video watcher,

It's I-H-I-P news. And that's usually every day. If we feel ambitious, we do it on the weekends. And then we have a show coming up in New York City. New York.

Yes. So please get your tickets for that. It's called the People Suck Tour. And I just can't think of a better title for anything right now after these election results than highlighting how badly people suck. Yeah, I think that that is like spot on. We have a cult. Yep. Patreon. And I think that's all we have. We also have the blue winged bird. Hawk. Blue winged.

The blue wing talk. And I'm glad you brought that up, Pumps. Because listen up. We are re-birding. We're re-birding. We got to re-bird. We're re-birding. Okay. I still like eagles. I do too. I do. But I feel like we need our own bird. Yeah. I feel like we, and it's the blue wing talk. It's kind of a mascot. It is our mascot. I want to get one.

Yeah. You have a lot of experience with birds, so we could probably find one. Yeah. If there is one. Anyway. All right. Listen, tell them what the blue wing talk says. Right now it says. But at some point we're going to we're going to find our caca back. We're going to get it back. Episode after episode. We're going to get it to where it is robust. A little bit every day. A little bit better every day. Yeah. All right. Listener pumps. Tell them we will see you next Tuesday and Thursday. I'll tell you what I've had it with. Let's hear it.

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