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The Playdate Playbook: Navigating Kid Drama and Parent Feels

2024/9/17
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Dr. Becky: 探讨了父母是否应该与孩子朋友的父母成为朋友，以及如何处理孩子友谊变化带来的挑战。她认为，与孩子朋友的父母建立联系有助于解决孩子间的冲突，协调育儿方式，并获得情感支持。当孩子长大后，友谊会发生变化，父母间的友谊也可能随之改变，但这并不意味着需要终止所有联系。重要的是保持开放沟通，并理解孩子和父母各自的感受。当孩子过分依赖单一友谊时，父母不应直接劝说，而应理解孩子内心的需求，引导孩子思考友谊的本质，并帮助孩子建立独立的自信。当孩子第一次去朋友家玩时，父母有权询问一些安全相关的问题，但沟通方式很重要，要避免让对方感到被指责。孩子进入青春期后，父母自身的情绪和过往经历可能会被重新激发，这需要父母进行自我反思和处理，并以同理心对待孩子。 Jesse: 作为节目的制作人，Jesse 向 Dr. Becky 提出了关于父母友谊和孩子友谊的多个问题，引发了 Dr. Becky 的深入探讨。

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This chapter discusses the nuances of parent friendships, especially when children's friendships evolve. It explores the benefits of parental connections for communication and collective action on issues like screen time, while also acknowledging the challenges that arise when children's friendships end. The chapter emphasizes the importance of open communication and navigating potential awkwardness with grace and understanding.
  • Open communication with other parents is crucial, especially when kids are young.
  • Collective action among parents can be helpful for setting boundaries, such as screen time rules.
  • As kids grow, their changing friendships can impact parent relationships, requiring open and honest conversations.
  • It's important for kids to learn that their preferences don't dictate family activities.

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Do I need to be best friends with my kids' friends parents? What happens when the kids outgrow their friendships, and where does that leave the parents? And how much do we need to know about the other households our kids are playing in? This week, Dr. Becky takes your questions and a few from her producer Jesse on the topic of friendships. Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/4doK9nFJoin Good Inside Membership: https://bit.ly/3W5iCRhGood Inside's Back to School Toolkit: https://bit.ly/46yGEswFollow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinsideSign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletterOrder Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books.For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcastTo listen to Dr. Becky's TED Talk on repair visit https://www.ted.com/talks/becky_kennedy_the_single_most_important_parenting_strategyToday’s episode is brought to you by Airbnb: Before Dr. Becky was a parent, she thought planning a family vacation would be a breeze… until she realized how much has to come together for a trip with two adults and three kids. Then she discovered Airbnb Guest Favorites. No more combing through options, reviews, and features. Guest Favorites are the most loved homes on Airbnb according to other guests. And that peace of mind when preparing for a trip is huge. Using Guest Favorites couldn’t be easier: Just go to Airbnb, add your destination, tap the filters and hit the toggle for Guest Favorites. It’s that simple.