Key Insights
Why did Brandon and Zane hesitate to create a GoFundMe after their mother's death?
They felt uncomfortable asking for money and saw it as a pride issue.
How did Zane cope with the loss of his mother?
He focused on school, marching band, and joined clubs to make friends.
What was the turning point for Brandon to agree to create a GoFundMe?
His friend Timmy convinced him to see it as a blessing from his mother.
How did Zane feel about Wade Wilson's arrest?
He felt indifferent, focusing more on his own life and future.
What was the most impactful part of Zane's testimony during the trial?
He made eye contact with Wade Wilson, feeling both scared and determined.
How did Brandon handle the aftermath of his mother's death?
He threw himself into cooking and working, focusing on his career goals.
What did Diane Ruiz teach her sons about life?
To be strong, independent, and self-reliant.
Why did Zane feel guilty about accepting donations?
He saw it as guilt money and felt uncomfortable with the idea.
Chapters
Brandon and Zane recount the moment they first learned about their mom's disappearance and the initial confusion and denial they experienced.
- Zane was in class when he first found out about his mom's disappearance.
- Brandon tried to keep Zane from worrying by not sharing details immediately.
- The family's initial hope was that Diane had just taken a mental health day.
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