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Bonus Episode - The Science of Attraction: Why You’ve Not Met Someone - Matthew Hussey

2023/6/8
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The episode discusses the complexities of modern dating compared to past generations, highlighting the decline of organic meetings and the rise of dating apps and social media, which introduce new challenges and comparisons.

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Navigating the world of modern dating and romance is hard. Back in our parents’ and grandparents’ days, it was common for people to meet through family or mutual friends. Nowadays, things are a little more complicated. We’re much less likely to meet our potential partners organically. It’s pretty rare for people to meet through sports clubs, events, or just by hanging out with people who live in your local area. The rise of dating apps and websites means that our first encounter with our potential partners is likely to be through a screen - which comes with a lot of complexities. On top of that, the rise of social media encourages us compare our relationship with the seemingly perfect couples on Instagram - which often creates unrealistic expectations. So, how do we navigate this new landscape and find those meaningful connections that we crave and that add value to our lives? In this episode of deep dive, I spoke to renowned dating coach Matthew Hussey. Matthew Hussey has helped millions of people find love and build strong relationships for over a decade. His YouTube channel has nearly 3 million subscribers and his book, ‘Get the Guy’, is a New York Times bestseller. In the episode you'll learn about:

00:00 Navigating the world of dating03:19 The 4 stages of attraction17:53 Mistakes we make when dating28:23 Practical dating advice 44:26 The secret to long-lasting desire

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  • Amber Baxter-Clarke - Producer

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