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The red flags you see now are the reasons you'll leave later

2023/7/3
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主持人：恋爱初期出现的红旗往往预示着这段关系未来的走向，忽视这些信号可能会导致日后的后悔。文中列举了多个案例，说明即使是细微的红旗也可能预示着关系中的问题，甚至最终导致分手。这些红旗包括：过度的关注和赞美（爱炸弹），与母亲关系过于亲密，对关系界限模糊不清，只在深夜约会，以及以各种借口推迟或拒绝恋爱关系。此外，如果一段关系让你不得不改变自己，或者伴侣试图改变你的性格和行为，也是危险信号。主持人强调要相信自己的直觉，不要一味地为对方找借口，要勇敢地设定边界，并对关系有清晰的认知。文中还分享了个人经历，说明即使有强烈的感情，如果存在无法调和的矛盾（如宗教信仰差异），也可能导致关系破裂。最后，主持人总结道，要优先考虑自身需求，不要为了不确定的关系而牺牲自己的时间和精力。

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The speaker discusses how ignoring early red flags in relationships often leads to regret later on, emphasizing the importance of trusting one's intuition.

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Self explanatory. If you see some major issues early on, my best advice is to get out while you still can. The red flags you see in the beginning are the reasons you'll most likely leave the relationship later - or they'll be the reason you're unhappy in a relationship. Yes, people can grow and change, however, I've noticed that my gut was always telling me to run prior to diving deeper into a situation with someone...yet I just ignored it. Let's talk about it.