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When Kids Want To Do Things Their Own Way!

2024/2/25
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Kirk Martin 认为，面对强意志的孩子，父母应该给予孩子在界限内的自主权，而不是试图控制他们的一切。父母的控制欲和对孩子未来发展的焦虑是导致亲子冲突的主要原因。父母应该学会控制自己的情绪，并相信孩子有能力处理自己的问题。给予孩子选择权，让他们在父母设定的界限内自己做出选择，这能培养孩子的责任感和独立性。父母应该关注结果，而不是过程，只要孩子能够完成任务，过程如何并不重要。父母的过度干预只会加剧孩子的负面情绪反应，剥夺他们学习和成长的机会。父母应该接受孩子的情绪爆发，并给予他们空间和时间去解决问题。当孩子需要帮助时，父母应该安静地提供帮助，避免说教和指责。父母应该处理好自己的控制欲，并给予孩子时间和空间去探索和成长。 Kirk Martin 通过分享自身经验和案例，阐述了如何通过给予孩子自主权和空间来改善亲子关系，减少权力斗争。他强调，父母应该接纳孩子不按父母意愿做事的事实，并相信这对于孩子的成长是积极的。他建议父母使用一些具体的语言和技巧，例如“我相信你能够处理好这件事”，来引导孩子，并避免过度干预。他认为，父母应该学会控制自己的情绪，并避免被外界的评判所影响。只有父母先处理好自己的问题，才能更好地应对强意志的孩子。

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When Kids Want To Do Things Their Own Way!

Chloe wants to tie her own karate belt in the morning before practice. But she doesn’t really know how to do it. And if you try to help her, you will feel the venom. But if you don’t help her, you’ll be late or she’ll get even more frustrated. So what do you do when you have a strong-willed child who wants to do things their own way? Kirk gives you a specific script and action plan to use with kids like ours.

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