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Tough Talks with Kids: Stealing, Sneaking Things at Night, Vaping, Porn

2024/8/28
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专注于家庭教育和儿童行为管理的专家，提供实用的策略和脚本来改变家庭和学校中的行为。
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Kirk Martin：面对孩子深夜偷吃零食或电子产品、偷钱、吸电子烟或观看色情内容等问题，家长不应过度反应，而是应该采取积极的行动计划和具体的应对策略。首先，家长需要理解孩子行为背后的原因，并设身处地地与孩子沟通，而不是进行审问或指责。其次，家长应该帮助孩子找到积极健康的方式来满足他们的需求，例如：运动、冥想、参加社团活动等。最后，家长需要与孩子建立良好的亲子关系，让孩子信任家长，并学习以健康的方式应对生活中的挑战。家长应该成为孩子可以信赖的资源，帮助他们安全地探索世界，而不是仅仅惩罚他们的错误行为。 Kirk Martin：现代社会中，孩子更容易接触到色情内容、电子烟等，家长需要学习新的沟通技巧，与孩子坦诚地讨论这些问题。家长应该避免使用严厉的语气或惩罚性的措施，而是应该以理解和支持的态度与孩子沟通，帮助他们认识到这些行为的风险和后果。同时，家长也需要反思自己的行为，避免给孩子造成压力或焦虑。

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This chapter discusses the common issue of children sneaking food, electronics, or even money, and emphasizes the importance of addressing the root cause rather than simply punishing the behavior. It highlights the parent's role as a trusted resource and offers an action plan.
  • Children's sneaking and stealing behaviors are often driven by deeper emotional needs.
  • Overreacting with lectures and punishments can be counterproductive.
  • Building a trusting relationship with your child is crucial for addressing these issues effectively.

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Tough Talks with Kids: Stealing, Sneaking Things at Night, Vaping, Porn

What do you do if your child sneaks food or electronics late at night, steals cash or credit cards, vapes or watches porn? This will likely freak you out! But don’t. Because Kirk gives you an action plan and actual scripts to get to the root of the issue and prevent it from happening again.

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