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Social Skills & Sibling Squabbles #2

2024/7/24
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专注于家庭教育和儿童行为管理的专家,提供实用的策略和脚本来改变家庭和学校中的行为。
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本集节目重点讨论如何帮助孩子提升社交技能以及处理兄弟姐妹间的争吵。主持人Kirk Martin分享了多种实用工具和策略,例如:安排短暂的玩耍时间,以确保每一次互动都能取得成功;家长以身作则,参与到孩子的互动中,并示范积极健康的沟通方式;帮助孩子找到一个朋友,并在开学时安排他们一起上学;观察他人互动,学习社交技巧;为孩子编写对话脚本,帮助他们练习社交互动;利用一些容易引起话题的物品或事件,轻松地开始与他人交谈;让孩子帮助邻居或其他老年人做一些事情,帮助他们建立自信,并减少家庭冲突;鼓励孩子参与志愿者活动,例如在动物收容所或无家可归者收容所做志愿者;尊重孩子的个性,不要强迫他们改变自己以迎合他人;在学校或夏令营中,给孩子分配一些特殊任务或角色,帮助他们建立自信,并更容易与他人建立联系;允许孩子在不同的环境中扮演不同的角色,帮助他们建立自信,并更好地适应不同的社交场合;鼓励孩子发挥自己的优势,例如在电子产品、手工制作或动物护理等方面,找到自己的兴趣点,并以此建立自信和人际关系;家长应该控制自己的焦虑情绪,并积极肯定孩子的进步,帮助他们建立自信。 节目中还特别强调了要理解孩子行为背后的原因,例如,兄弟姐妹间的冲突通常源于孩子缺乏自信或大脑刺激不足,父母对孩子负面行为的过度反应,反而会加剧问题,因为这会无意中满足孩子对大脑刺激的需求。因此,家长应该控制自己的情绪反应,避免对孩子的负面行为过度反应,并引导他们找到积极的方式来满足自身需求。

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Social Skills & Sibling Squabbles #2

Kirk shows you an alternative way to deal with sibling squabbles that builds confidence and gives practical tools to help with social skills and back-to-school anxiety.

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