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Relentless Arguer, Gets Last Word In, Demands Fairness?

2024/6/23
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孩子爱争论、非要得到最后一句话、证明自己的观点或具有很强的正义感和公平感,这些特质可以转化为优势。父母应该理解孩子争论背后的原因,例如寻求关注、满足对秩序和结构的需求、或寻求大脑刺激。与其直接反驳孩子,不如尝试满足孩子内在的需求,例如给予他们一些可以控制的事情,或者在适当的时候顺从他们。对于孩子非要得到最后一句话的行为,父母应该反思自身的行为,避免总是试图证明自己是对的。父母应该用简洁明了的语言与孩子沟通,避免长篇大论,并避免与孩子进行无谓的争论。如果孩子提出过分的要求,父母可以直接拒绝,无需解释。对于孩子持续纠缠的行为,父母应该冷静地指出事情的规律,并引导孩子思考如何以不同的方式达到目的。父母应该肯定孩子的优点,例如坚持和自信,并引导他们将这些优点用于更有益的事情上。父母应该给孩子一些自主权,让他们自己思考解决问题的方法,并和孩子一起解决问题,而不是简单地惩罚他们。

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Relentless Arguer, Gets Last Word In, Demands Fairness?

Do you have a child who is a relentless arguer, has to get the last word in, prove his or her point, and/or has a strong sense of justice and fairness? Do you have that infamous cop, judge and attorney all wrapped into one living under your roof? Kirk shows you how to use these traits to your advantage without it driving you crazy. 

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