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Q&A: Impulse Control, Messy Bedrooms, Sassy Kids & More

2024/8/1
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专注于家庭教育和儿童行为管理的专家,提供实用的策略和脚本来改变家庭和学校中的行为。
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Kirk Martin: 本期节目针对家长提出的多个儿童行为问题,例如害怕黑暗、冲动控制、说谎、青春期叛逆等,给出了具体的应对策略。他强调父母应该关注自身情绪管理,避免将责任强加于孩子,并通过引导和教育帮助孩子学会自我管理。在孩子犯错时,父母应该根据孩子的年龄和情况,选择合适的处理方式,既要给予孩子一定的宽容,也要让孩子承担相应的责任。对于青春期孩子的叛逆,父母应该调整预期,保持冷静,成为孩子情绪波动中的稳定力量。在与孩子沟通时,父母应该避免过度反应,多给予孩子肯定和鼓励,并尝试与孩子建立更紧密的联系。 Kirk Martin: 在处理孩子害怕黑暗的问题时,他建议父母不要过度干涉,而是引导孩子自己承担后果。对于冲动控制问题,他认为冲动本身并非完全负面,关键在于学会控制冲动的程度。他建议父母与孩子进行坦诚的沟通,帮助孩子认识到冲动的利弊,并通过日常生活中的小事,例如延迟满足等,来训练孩子的冲动控制能力。对于孩子说谎的问题,他认为这是信任问题,需要父母和孩子共同努力。他建议父母引导孩子练习说真话,并练习自己不因孩子说真话而过度反应。 Kirk Martin: 在处理孩子打破东西的问题上,他建议父母可以先给予宽容,之后再引导孩子承担责任,例如通过做家务或其他方式来偿还损失。对于计划改变而情绪失控的孩子,他建议父母给予孩子一定的控制权和参与感,并先给予理解和肯定,再引导他们解决问题。对于青春期孩子的叛逆,他建议父母调整预期,不要过度反应,并通过肯定和鼓励来引导孩子。在处理孩子拒绝服药的问题上,他建议父母不必过度焦虑或制造冲突,而是平静地接受现实,并尝试与孩子达成协议。对于强迫孩子整理房间的问题,他建议父母应该反思自己强迫孩子整理房间的动机,不要将自己的喜好强加于孩子。他认为孩子是否整理房间与他们的未来成功无关,父母应该放下焦虑,并尝试与孩子达成共识。

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Q&A: Impulse Control, Messy Bedrooms, Sassy Kids & More

How do you handle kids who lie, freak out when plans change, or won’t take their medication? What’s an appropriate consequence for kids who break something? How do you teach impulse control, get kids to make their bed, and stop the sass? Kirk gives you practical strategies in this rapid fire Q&A session.

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