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How to Stop Entitlement, Build Resilience & Stop Being Referee With Siblings?

2024/7/14
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专注于家庭教育和儿童行为管理的专家,提供实用的策略和脚本来改变家庭和学校中的行为。
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Kirk Martin: 本期播客的核心观点是帮助父母学会如何培养孩子的责任感、韧性和解决问题的能力,而不是过度干预孩子的生活。他强调父母应该控制自身的情绪和行为,给孩子空间去学习和成长,允许孩子犯错并从中学习。他提出了十个具体的行动步骤,帮助父母改变与孩子互动的方式,例如:尊重孩子,允许他们失败;给孩子空间,让他们自己处理问题;不为孩子的情绪波动而反应过度;信守承诺;相信孩子有能力;允许孩子感到不舒服;不为孩子创造一个过于舒适的环境;等等。他还强调了父母自身情绪管理的重要性,建议父母学习情绪管理技巧,例如《30天平静计划》和《与强势孩子停止权力斗争》等课程。 Kirk Martin还分享了Natasha的经历,Natasha是一位母亲,她意识到自己过度控制了家人的情绪,这让她感到筋疲力尽。通过改变自己,她获得了更好的家庭关系,她的孩子也更加独立和自信。 Natasha: Natasha 通过邮件分享了自己的经验,她意识到自己过去一直试图控制家人的情绪,并试图让每个人都快乐,这让她感到非常疲惫。通过参加Kirk Martin的课程,她学习了如何控制自己的情绪,并给孩子更多的空间,最终改善了家庭关系,孩子也变得更加独立和自信。

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How to Stop Entitlement, Build Resilience & Stop Being Referee With Siblings?

How can you help your kids be responsible for their own behavior, choices, failures, and sibling fights without being the fixer or referee? How can you stop feelings of entitlement and teach resilience in kids of all ages? Want to learn a great phrase to communicate that you expect more from your kids? Kirk shows you how with 10 specific action steps.

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