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Handling A Demanding Child Without Losing Your Mind (Give Their Brain A Win)

2024/7/7
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专注于家庭教育和儿童行为管理的专家,提供实用的策略和脚本来改变家庭和学校中的行为。
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Kirk Martin 认为强势儿童通常具有活跃的大脑和强烈的自主性,他们常常单方面行动而非寻求帮助,这会导致与父母的权力斗争。他建议父母应该理解强势儿童的这种特质,并利用他们的优势,引导他们学习耐心、无私和责任感,而不是试图改变他们的本性。他提出,父母应该学会在界限内对孩子的要求说“是”,并通过肯定、挑战、赋予自主权等方式,鼓励孩子承担更多责任,将权力斗争转化为亲子间的积极互动。他强调,父母的目标不应该是让孩子服从,而是培养孩子对父母的信任,并鼓励他们出于善意而非义务去做事。他建议父母应该改变对孩子的看法,从关注孩子的缺点转向关注孩子的能力和潜力,并预料到孩子在承担责任的过程中可能会犯错,并以积极的态度去应对。他认为,持续的权力斗争会严重损害亲子关系,父母应该认真对待这个问题,并积极寻找方法,在界限内对孩子的请求说“是”,鼓励孩子发挥才能,承担更多责任。他鼓励父母改变育儿观念,从追求孩子的服从转向培养孩子的责任感,并以积极乐观的态度面对挑战。

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Handling A Demanding Child Without Losing Your Mind (Give Their Brain A Win)

Do you have a child who comes downstairs in the morning (afternoon and evening) DEMANDING things or with a single-minded focus on doing something? You rightfully and reasonably say no to their request and it sets off a huge power struggle, meltdowns, constant arguing, throwing things and words around. How can you handle these situations without losing your mind or your relationship? Kirk shows you how.

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