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Fights Over Chores, Sibling Fairness, Tough Discipline

2024/7/1
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专注于家庭教育和儿童行为管理的专家,提供实用的策略和脚本来改变家庭和学校中的行为。
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Kirk Martin: 本期播客探讨了孩子不做家务、选择性听话或拖延等问题,并提出了五种不同的方法来解决这些问题。这五种方法包括:强硬方法、合作方法、解决问题的方法以及两种一开始你可能不喜欢但最终会喜欢的现实方法。强硬方法强调明确规定家务和服务之间的关系,不感情用事,不进行长篇大论,坚持承诺比执行惩罚更重要。合作方法则建议让孩子参与到制定家务计划中,赋予他们所有权,并引导他们进行公平的协商和沟通。解决问题的方法着重于找出问题的根源,例如孩子不喜欢家务的原因。现实方法一建议对于幼儿,与其强迫他们收拾玩具,不如一起参与收拾,即使这可能会导致孩子养成依赖性。现实方法二建议对于一些家务,父母可以自己承担,避免不必要的冲突。现实方法三建议根据孩子的个性和特长安排家务,例如让孩子帮助邻居、做饭或做兼职,培养他们的责任感和服务意识。 Kirk Martin: 在节目中,Kirk Martin 分享了他处理孩子家务问题的经验,并强调了根据孩子的个性和特长来安排家务的重要性。他认为,强硬的方法虽然有效,但需要谨慎使用,避免造成孩子的心理压力。合作的方法可以培养孩子的责任感和自主性,而现实的方法则更注重灵活性和实用性,根据实际情况调整策略。他鼓励父母们根据自身情况选择合适的方法,并强调了家庭成员之间的沟通和理解的重要性。他分享了自身家庭中如何通过让孩子承担一些力所能及的责任,例如帮助邻居、做饭或做兼职,来培养孩子的责任感和社会技能。他认为,比起强迫孩子做家务,更重要的是培养他们的责任感和服务意识,让他们明白家务是家庭成员共同的责任。

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Fights Over Chores, Sibling Fairness, Tough Discipline

Do you have kids who fight you over chores, have selective hearing (i.e. can't hear parents!), and don't listen well? Kirk uses chores to show you five different tools to use in different situations: tough discipline, collaboration, problem solving, and realistic approaches you will hate at first, but end up loving!

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