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Child Won’t Accept Responsibility, Lashes Out When Corrected, Picks on Siblings?

2024/8/4
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Kirk Martin: 本期节目讨论了孩子不承担责任、反驳纠正以及欺负兄弟姐妹等常见问题。Kirk Martin 指出，孩子出现这些行为通常是因为缺乏自信，对自身评价低，或对生活缺乏规划。他建议父母应该帮助孩子了解自身大脑的工作方式，为他们提供成功的工具，并积极肯定他们的优点，而不是仅仅惩罚他们的错误。同时，父母应该避免过度控制孩子，给予孩子更多自主权，让他们在完成任务的过程中获得成就感。此外，他还建议父母应该关注孩子的优势，而不是一味地纠正他们的缺点，帮助孩子发挥自身优势，在生活中获得成功。针对孩子在被纠正时发脾气的情况，Kirk Martin 建议父母应该用平静和积极的方式来引导孩子，而不是用责备和惩罚。他强调，应该给孩子布置一些他们能够成功完成的任务，并给予积极的鼓励，帮助他们建立自信。在课堂上，老师应该理解孩子的能量过剩，并给予他们合适的任务来释放能量，而不是一味地惩罚。总而言之，Kirk Martin 认为，帮助孩子获得成功，比纠正他们的错误更重要。父母应该积极地肯定孩子的优点和好的行为，用积极的方式来回应孩子的行为，而不是用负面的方式。

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This chapter discusses the challenges of dealing with a child who struggles to accept responsibility for their actions and often blames others. It highlights the common tendency to measure children's worth by grades and behavior, which can be particularly difficult for strong-willed or neurodivergent kids.

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Child Won’t Accept Responsibility, Lashes Out When Corrected, Picks on Siblings?

How do you handle kids who won’t accept responsibility for their behavior? Who blame others? How do you discipline kids who lash out when corrected? Kirk provides five very concrete strategies and scripts to use that will also help stop kids from picking on siblings

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