5 Secrets to Prevent School Battles & Motivate Your Kids
2024/8/11
Calm Parenting Podcast
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Kirk Martin
专注于家庭教育和儿童行为管理的专家，提供实用的策略和脚本来改变家庭和学校中的行为。
Kirk Martin：本期播客探讨了如何帮助家长应对强意志或神经发育异常的孩子在学校生活中遇到的挑战，例如作业冲突、焦虑和学校拒绝等问题。播客提出了五个关键步骤：首先，家长应该掌控孩子在学校的体验，并根据孩子的需求而非外界的期望来制定计划。其次，家长应该接受孩子的本性，而不是试图改变他们。第三，家长应该向孩子道歉，承认自己过去的行为可能对孩子造成了伤害。第四，家长应该激发孩子的内在动力，通过识别孩子的才能、提供机会和寻找导师来实现。最后，家长应该控制自己的焦虑情绪，避免将焦虑传递给孩子。播客还强调了家庭作业的重要性，建议家长根据孩子的年龄和情况来决定是否布置家庭作业，并与老师进行沟通。此外，播客还分享了几个案例，说明了如何通过激发孩子的内在动力来帮助他们克服学习上的困难。总而言之，播客旨在帮助家长创造一个积极的家庭环境，支持孩子在学校取得成功，并培养孩子的自信和独立性。
Deep Dive
Parents of strong-willed or neurodivergent children often face unique challenges during the school year. It's crucial to define what a successful school year looks like for your family, prioritizing your child's individual needs and focusing on qualities that contribute to long-term success rather than solely on academic achievements. This might involve setting realistic expectations for homework, extracurricular activities, and family time, and communicating your priorities with teachers.
- Prioritize qualities for life success over just school success.
- Define family values and goals for the school year.
- Limit extracurricular activities to avoid over-scheduling.
- Prioritize family time and connection.
- Consider homework optional, especially for younger children.
- Focus on raising a curious child who loves to learn.
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