Aubrey O’Day: Overcoming Toxic Men (ft. Diddy, Trump & Pauly D) (FBF)
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Why did Diddy fire Aubrey O'Day from Danity Kane?
Aubrey wasn't willing to comply with expectations not related to talent, such as certain personal behaviors.
How did Aubrey O'Day feel about her relationship with Donald Trump Jr.?
She felt happy and in love initially, seeing him as her soulmate, but later felt accountability and shame after witnessing the physical toll of childbirth on her best friend.
What was the dynamic between Aubrey O'Day and Diddy during their time together?
Diddy was a powerful and intense figure who instilled a strong work ethic in Aubrey but also engaged in manipulative mind games and betrayal, leading to a toxic environment.
How did Aubrey O'Day's relationship with DJ Pauly D compare to her relationship with Donald Trump Jr.?
Her relationship with Pauly D was incredibly toxic, involving mental abuse and control, unlike her more emotionally fulfilling relationship with Trump Jr.
What impact did constant body shaming have on Aubrey O'Day?
Body shaming deeply affected her self-worth and led to a period of self-doubt and unhappiness, influencing her perception of beauty and her place in the industry.
How did Aubrey O'Day cope with the trauma of her toxic relationships?
She turned to touring and making music without processing her trauma, leading to substance abuse. She later sought healing through natural remedies and self-love practices.
What was Aubrey O'Day's first impression of Donald Trump?
She initially saw him as a powerful figure who could be easily manipulated by focusing on his appreciation for smart and impressive individuals.
How did Aubrey O'Day's childhood experiences influence her adult relationships?
Her childhood involved abuse and a survival mentality, which affected her ability to recognize and escape toxic relationships as an adult.
What advice does Aubrey O'Day have for recognizing and escaping toxic relationships?
She advises training men early in the relationship to understand boundaries and not compromising on one's self-worth, as small compromises can lead to larger, more damaging expectations.
How did Aubrey O'Day respond to public scrutiny and body shaming in 2020?
She felt degraded and misunderstood, but chose not to engage in defending her appearance, focusing instead on the narrative that people were projecting onto her image.
- Aubrey and her bandmates were constantly on the move, working non-stop without realizing their impact.
- They were removed from the public's perception and the gravity of their success.
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