Key Insights
Why did Ryan initially trust Jacques despite his questionable behavior?
Ryan's core value is to assume the best in others, leading him to believe Jacques' explanations and overlook red flags.
How did Ryan's drug use affect his relationships?
Ryan's drug use led to immediate conflicts with partners who noticed his addiction and demanded he stop, which he often hid or lied about.
What career change did Ryan make after getting sober?
Ryan left his corporate marketing job to become a fitness instructor, finding fulfillment in a career that aligned with his passion for health and wellness.
Why did Ryan decide to move to Miami to be with Jacques?
Ryan felt a deep connection with Jacques and saw potential for a long-term relationship, despite the challenges of long-distance dating.
What major deception did Ryan uncover about Jacques?
Ryan discovered that Jacques was still married and had been using his credit card for a divorce lawyer, among other lies and infidelities.
How did Ryan's parents react to the news about Jacques?
Ryan's parents were deeply concerned and urged him to leave Jacques, leading to a rift in their relationship when Ryan initially defended Jacques.
What financial impact did the relationship with Jacques have on Ryan?
Ryan lost an estimated $50,000, including a significant financial loss when he had to sell a car they had purchased together.
Why did Ryan decide to share his story on the podcast?
Ryan wanted to release his story publicly to help others who might be experiencing similar betrayals and to find closure for himself.
Chapters
- Ryan grew up in a supportive, ambitious family.
- He got involved in theater and later moved to New York City for college.
- Ryan's drug addiction started in his early relationships and continued even after significant others tried to help him.
- He reached a turning point when his drug use stopped working, leading him to seek help and eventually get sober.
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