fake it til you make it? advice session
2024/11/3
anything goes with emma chamberlain
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Emma Chamberlain
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信任直觉对于焦虑的人来说尤其具有挑战性，因为焦虑和直觉的感受很相似。然而，研究表明，直觉通常比焦虑更平静、更本能、更清晰。直觉是一种更深层次的内在认知，通常难以言喻，但却清晰明了。焦虑则表现为生理上的不适，如胸闷、心跳加速或坐立不安，并且往往让人感到紧急和难以承受。区分二者的关键在于感受的差异：焦虑混乱而直觉更具引导性。要增强直觉，需要个人生活井然有序，远离负面影响，例如不良的朋友关系、不健康的恋爱关系、沉迷网络等。只有当个人生活状态良好时，直觉才能清晰地显现。
Deep Dive
Why is it challenging to trust intuition for someone with anxiety?
Anxiety feels like a gut feeling, making it hard to distinguish from intuition.
How can one distinguish between anxiety and intuition?
Intuition is less panicked and often feels like the next best thing to do.
Why is it important to accept rather than try to let go of negative experiences?
Acceptance makes it easier to let go naturally and understand the lessons they provide.
When is 'fake it till you make it' good advice?
It's beneficial when trying new things to build confidence, but not for manipulation.
How can one cope with being single when friends are in relationships?
Shift mindset to see it as a future possibility, plan friend-only activities, and make new friends.
What should one do if they feel chronically lonely without friends?
Prioritize finding community and use alone time to better oneself and hold out hope.
How can one become satisfied with their own company?
Become comfortable with your own thoughts and use alone time for enriching activities.
How can one overcome the belief that they'll never be loved?
Analyze and challenge the origins of this belief and work on self-esteem.
Emma discusses the challenges of trusting intuition, especially for those with anxiety, and how to distinguish between anxiety and intuition.
- Anxiety feels like a gut feeling, but intuition is less panicked and more instinctual.
- Intuition arises from a deeper inner knowing, often unexplainable but clear.
- Anxiety is chaotic, whereas intuition is more guided.
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