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16. Alex Banayan: How To Achieve Your Dreams, Overcome Rejection, & Network With Anyone

2020/12/15
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Alex Banayan: 本书的核心是关于如何实现梦想,克服拒绝以及建立人脉关系的。作者分享了他如何通过赢得《价格是对的》节目并出售奖品来资助他的职业生涯探索之旅,以及他如何克服父母的反对,坚持自己的梦想。他强调了勇气在追求梦想中的重要性,并分享了他在采访过程中遇到的各种挑战和挫折,以及他是如何克服这些困难的。他还分享了“第三扇门”的比喻,说明总会有实现目标的途径,即使看起来不可能。他详细阐述了如何应对拒绝,并提出了一个三步走的“汽车检查清单”,包括身体重置、重新校准导航系统和拆解你的叙事,帮助读者克服拒绝带来的负面情绪。此外,他还分享了他与蒂姆·费里斯等成功人士的会面经历,以及他如何通过坚持不懈地联系最终获得采访机会的故事。最后,他还推荐了两本书:《When Things Fall Apart》和《Einstein and the Rabbis》,分享了这两本书对他人生的影响。

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Alex Banayan discusses how Tony Hsieh's book 'Delivering Happiness' profoundly influenced his life, inspiring him to pursue his dream of writing 'The Third Door' despite facing significant parental opposition and personal doubts.

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My guest today is Alex Banayan, the author of the #1 international bestseller The Third Door: The Wild Quest to Uncover How the World's Most Successful People Launched Their Careers).

At 18-years old, Alex won The Price Is Right and sold the grand-prize to fund his journey of tracking down the world’s most successful people to uncover how they launched their careers. He interviewed Bill Gates, Tim Ferriss, Steve Wozniak, Warren Buffett, Larry King, Maya Angelou, and many more incredible individuals. 

In our conversation, Alex shares advice on how to pursue your dreams, overcome setbacks and rejection, the books that changed his life, how he met Tim Ferriss and learned his secret cold email technique, an exclusive look into Alex’s new book, and so much more.

This is a podcast you do not want to miss.

TIMESTAMPS:

  • [00:39] - How the book Delivering Happiness)* *by Tony Hsieh changed Alex’s life
  • [07:40] - Why Alex Banayan and I love reading
  • [09:30] - How to find the courage to pursue your dreams 
  • [12:24] - The Third Door analogy explained 
  • [16:17] - Alex & Books’ Third Door journey
  • [19:00] - How to deal with setbacks and rejection
  • [27:06] - How Alex used The Third Door method to interview Tim Ferriss
  • [36:00] - Lessons from being over persistent 
  • [41:35] - Two books that changed Alex’s life
  • [45:42] - EXCLUSIVE: Alex’s talks about his upcoming book

Learn more about the author:

  • Twitter: @AlexBanayan)
  • Website: thirddoorbook.com)

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