Dating 101: Green and Red Flags, Your First Fight, Dealing With Rejection
Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson
Shownotes Transcript
Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson expand their conversation focused on finding a long-term partner to include what traits to look for, and how to navigate early sticking points. They discuss life growth curves, how to manage early conflict, healthy approaches for dealing with rejection, and how to support those still navigating a difficult search.
Watch the Episode: Prefer watching video? You can watch this episode on YouTube).
**From Dr. Hanson: **The Foundations of Well-Being) brings together the lessons of a lifetime of practice into one year-long online program. Our holiday sale is going on now), and podcast listeners can use the code BEINGWELL25 for another 25% off! Please don't hesitate to apply for a scholarship if you're in need.
Key Topics:
0:00: Introduction
2:45: Green and red flags to look for in a partner
8:50: Pursuer-distancer dynamic
9:45: Shared growth curves--relationship as a process, not a person
12:50: Riding the river of practical daily life
19:25: Someone who brings out the best parts of you
25:25: Different kinds of romantic relationships
28:55: Rejection and feeling wanted
30:45: Asymmetry and power dynamics
34:40: Agency within the pain of rejection
40:05: Recognizing self-worth
45:00: Managing early conflict
51:50: The struggle to find a prospective partner
59:40: Recap
Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.)
Sponsors:
Check out Woven Earth's) line of sleep-supporting CBD products! Use code BEINGWELL20 for 20% off the purchase price of any of their products.
Join over a million people using BetterHelp), the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell) for 10% off your first month!
Want to sleep better? Try the legendary Calm app!) Visit calm.com/beingwell) for 40% off a premium subscription.
Connect with the show:
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices)