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Why is Brian concerned about his ex-wife's suicide?
Brian is worried about how his ex-wife's suicide will impact his children, particularly his two younger daughters who had recent, intense arguments with her before her death. He is also reflecting on his role in the estrangement between his children and their mothers.
What advice was given to Brian regarding his children's grief?
Brian was advised to have open, blunt conversations with his daughters about their mother's suicide and his reasons for raising them alone due to her addiction. He should focus on listening rather than fixing their emotions and address any potential resentment they might have toward him.
What is Brian's concern about his other ex-wife?
Brian fears that his other ex-wife, who also struggled with addiction, might follow a similar path to suicide. He feels confused and unsure if there is anything he can do to prevent this outcome.
What does the speaker suggest about addiction and maturity?
The speaker explains that while someone may become clean and sober, their emotional and psychological maturity may still be stunted. Growth and maturity require time and effort after stopping substance use.
How does the speaker recommend Brian handle his daughters' grief?
The speaker advises Brian to have multiple conversations with his daughters about their mother's suicide, listen to their feelings, and avoid assuming they will fall apart. He should ask questions and create a safe space for them to express their emotions.
- Ex-wife committed suicide
- Two younger daughters are distraught
- Older children are estranged from their mother
- Brian seeks advice on supporting his daughters and reflecting on his past actions
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