Women are often the primary water carriers in many parts of the world. When fresh water is scarce, women must walk longer distances to fetch water, increasing their exposure to gender-based violence. The water crisis is interconnected with issues like gender violence and racial inequality, making it a multifaceted challenge that disproportionately affects women and girls.
Elif Shafak's grandmother played a pivotal role by insisting that her daughter, Elif's mother, return to university to complete her education after a divorce. This decision not only empowered Elif's mother to pursue a career in the foreign ministry but also shaped Elif's upbringing, instilling in her a love for both written and oral culture. This act of solidarity between women had a generational impact, influencing Elif's values and her approach to storytelling.
Elif Shafak, being left-handed, faced significant challenges in her early education in Turkey, where left-handedness was stigmatized and associated with negativity. Her teacher forced her to use her right hand, which made writing difficult for her. She struggled to hold a pencil properly and was one of the last students to earn a red ribbon for reading and writing. This experience left a lasting impact, and to this day, she prefers writing with a keyboard rather than a pen.
Elif Shafak began writing in English as a way to gain cognitive distance and a sense of freedom, especially given the challenges of being a novelist in Turkey, where freedom of expression is often restricted. She describes her connection to Turkish as emotional, ideal for expressing melancholy and longing, while her relationship with English is more intellectual, better suited for humor, irony, and satire. She values both languages and sees them as complementary in her work.
The silent 'G' in the Turkish alphabet, a letter with a squiggle on top, played a crucial role in Elif Shafak's early learning. She connected with this letter, which she saw as an introvert, and it helped her bridge the gap with the rest of the alphabet. This connection eventually enabled her to learn to write with her right hand, despite her natural left-handedness, and earn the red ribbon for reading and writing in school.
Elif Shafak emphasizes that women are not only water carriers but also memory keepers in many cultures. In the context of the Yazidi genocide, she highlights how the elderly, who are often women, are the custodians of oral traditions and collective memory. The deliberate targeting of the elderly by ISIS was an attempt to erase the Yazidi cultural identity, as their history is transmitted orally rather than through written records. This underscores the critical role women play in preserving cultural heritage.
The central theme of 'There Are Rivers in the Sky' is water, symbolized by a single raindrop that travels across centuries, cultures, and continents. The novel weaves together stories of three characters connected by water, exploring themes of memory, colonialism, and environmental degradation. Shafak uses the narrative to highlight the global water crisis, emphasizing how water scarcity disproportionately affects women and exacerbates issues like gender violence and inequality.
Elif Shafak argues that patriarchy is most dangerous when it is normalized and absorbed to the point where it becomes an unconscious part of how women view themselves and each other. This internalized patriarchy leads women to judge themselves through a patriarchal lens, perpetuating division and inequality. She stresses the importance of empowering women and fostering solidarity to challenge and dismantle these ingrained norms.
Elif Shafak's experience with postpartum depression deeply influenced her book 'Black Milk,' where she explores the competing identities and internal conflicts women face, especially in motherhood. She uses humor and self-reflection to address the emotional struggles of motherhood, challenging the romanticized view of parenting. The book emerged from her realization that it's okay to ask for help and that depression, while overwhelming, is a temporary season in life.
Elif Shafak uses the term 'inner democracy' to describe the internal balance between the multiple, often conflicting voices and identities within a person. She believes it's essential to acknowledge and embrace these diverse aspects of oneself, rather than suppressing them. This concept is particularly relevant for women, who often face societal pressures to conform to specific roles. Inner democracy allows for self-acceptance and the freedom to choose different paths without judgment.
Elif Shafak is a best selling author, a political scientist and an advocate for women’s rights, LGBTQ+ rights and freedom of expression.
In this episode Julia and Elif journey on a candid and deep conversation about Elif’s childhood in Turkey, what drew her to writing, and the lengths she’s had to go to keep telling the stories of those who are often silenced.
They also delve into Elif’s spectacular new novel *There are Rivers in the Sky, *and discuss why tackling the world’s water crisis is critical for the safety of women and girls.
Show notes:
Elif’s new novel There are Rivers in the Sky is published by Penguin and is available at all good book stores.
To learn more about Elif and her work go to https://www.elifsafak.com.tr/home Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy) for more information.