cover of episode 51 | CELEBRATING MOTHERHOOD!

51 | CELEBRATING MOTHERHOOD!

2024/5/20
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Roy的妈妈Catrice
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Waikiki'a
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Waikiki'a的妈妈Gail
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Wykeklyaa
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Wykeklyaa:母性的精神存在于各种母职角色中,母亲应悉心培养这种精神,这是一种超越血缘关系的连结,是所有母亲的共同责任。 Waikiki'a的妈妈Gail:成为母亲并非易事,需要面对各种挑战,但她认为自己生来就是一位母亲和照顾者。她尽力教导孩子生存技能和文化传承,通过各种活动(例如采集、打篮球)来教育孩子文化传承和对长辈的尊重,努力让孩子们学习部落文化,远离毒品和酒精,并珍惜与孩子相处的时光,建议新妈妈母乳喂养。 Roy的妈妈Catrice:母职是至关重要的工作,优先于其他任何事情,这是一种神圣的责任。母性的精神存在于每个女性心中,需要培养和准备,超越了生物学意义,存在于各种母职角色中。忙碌和富有成效之间存在区别,她希望自己能成为一个富有成效的母亲,为孩子们提供了各种资源,并对他们寄予厚望。她分享了自己经历性侵犯的经历,并鼓励其他土著女性勇敢面对创伤,强调了自我尊重、自我爱和善良的重要性,以及打破创伤循环的必要性。母亲对孩子的担忧是持续存在的,她鼓励母女之间互相尊重,告诫年轻的母亲们不要把孩子当成最好的朋友,强调了母亲和孩子之间关系的独特性,并鼓励年轻的母亲们利用自己的青春和精力,成为好母亲,同时追求自己的目标,珍惜每一天,以感恩之心生活。 Waikiki'a:她最喜欢的童年回忆是在加拿大与祖父母一起的时光,分享了对母亲的感激和爱。 Roy:对母亲的感激和爱,以及对母亲教诲的认同。

Deep Dive

Key Insights

What is the essence of motherhood according to the podcast?

Motherhood is about nurturing the spirit, whether you're a biological mother, auntie, godmother, or adopted mother. It's a sacred responsibility that comes before any other role or job.

What is the mission of the Young and Indigenous Podcast?

The podcast aims to share Indigenous knowledge, storytelling, and history by featuring the journeys of young Indigenous people and elders.

Where does Waikiki'a's mom, Gail McCord, come from?

Gail McCord is from Tohola and belongs to the Quinault tribe.

What was a significant moment in Waikiki'a's childhood?

Waikiki'a recalls moving to Alaska with her family, wearing a yellow and white dress, and feeling nervous during the court process.

How did Waikiki'a's family bond with her?

Waikiki'a initially spent weekends with her family, which turned into weeks and eventually led to her not going back home, forming a strong bond with her foster family.

What challenges did Waikiki'a's mom face as a young mother?

She faced financial struggles, lack of education, and the challenge of providing childcare for her children, as daycare was not free for her at the time.

What cultural teachings did Waikiki'a's mom emphasize?

She taught her children about their cultural roots, survival skills, and the importance of respecting the land, elders, and traditions through activities like gathering firewood and Indian tea.

What advice does Roy's mom, Catrice Rodriguez, give to new mothers?

She advises new mothers to breastfeed their babies, live in the moment, and prioritize love and involvement over material possessions. She also emphasizes the importance of preparing for motherhood by nurturing the spirit before it's time to take on the role.

What does Catrice Rodriguez consider the most sacred work?

She considers motherhood the most sacred work, as it is a chosen responsibility that must be taken care of with the same reverence as other sacred traditions and ceremonies.

What does Catrice Rodriguez say about the spirit of motherhood?

She explains that the spirit of motherhood is present in everyone, whether they are a biological mother, auntie, godmother, or adopted mother. It is up to individuals to nurture and prepare for this spirit when the time is right.

What does Catrice Rodriguez advise Indigenous youth?

She advises Indigenous youth to be ambitious, compassionate, and to focus on healing and breaking cycles of trauma. She also emphasizes the importance of self-respect, self-love, and kindness.

What is Catrice Rodriguez's favorite age for her children?

She mentions that her favorite age for her children is around four or five, when they start developing their own character and creativity, and are still dependent on their mom.

What does Catrice Rodriguez emphasize about time?

She emphasizes that time is the most valuable resource, especially for busy moms. She advises making time for family and using each day as a gift, starting with gratitude and ending with being unoffendable.

What advice does Catrice Rodriguez give to young moms?

She advises young moms not to be discouraged by judgments and to use their youth and energy to be good mothers while pursuing their own goals. She also cautions against making children their best friends, as kids need a mother more than a best friend.

Chapters
This chapter explores the multifaceted nature of motherhood, encompassing the joys and challenges faced by mothers, particularly those who embraced motherhood at a young age. It highlights the experiences of two mothers, one who had her first child at 16 and another who became a mother at 19, sharing their personal journeys, fears, and triumphs.
  • Early motherhood experiences.
  • Challenges faced by young mothers.
  • Importance of cultural heritage in parenting.
  • Overcoming obstacles and achieving success.

Shownotes Transcript

Happy Mother’s Day! Join Wykeklyaa and Roy as they sit down with their mothers to talk about the true essence of motherhood. From cherished memories to the joy and challenges, its a heartwarming episode you won’t want to miss!