Anna believes in 'faking it till you make it' because she thinks that confidence allows you to fake it better, and the more you do it, the more comfortable you get. She sees it as a way to have fun and not take life too seriously, even if you don't know what you're doing.
Anna defines true confidence as coming from the acceptance of oneself, not from the acceptance of others. She believes that confidence is about knowing your worth beyond what others think of you and being your favorite thing to ever exist.
Anna believes that the presence of fear doesn't mean a lack of confidence. She thinks that being nervous or fearful but still knowing your worth deep down keeps you going and feeling like yourself.
Anna's confidence is boosted when she's around people who make her feel warm, welcome, and appreciated. She admires people like Liza Koshy who can make anyone feel seen and comfortable, and she aspires to be that kind of person for others.
Anna doesn't believe in 'overconfidence'; she thinks it's a fear tactic word used to limit people's ability to be confident. She distinguishes between confidence, which is knowing your worth without disrespecting others, and arrogance, which is trying to prove your worth through disrespect.
Anna acknowledges that imposter syndrome comes and goes in waves. She has moments of feeling worthy and in the right place, but also moments of self-doubt. She tries to remind herself that her presence is justified and that her worth is intrinsic, not dependent on others' validation.
Anna learned that surrounding yourself with people who empower and cheerlead you can significantly boost your confidence. She realized that having someone believe in her and support her, like the model who helped her get a spot at LA Swim Week, can make you feel worthy and capable.
Anna acknowledges that her high energy can be annoying or not everyone's cup of tea. She accepts that not everyone will like her energy and that it's okay. She believes that confidence is about being true to herself and not trying to please everyone.
Anna advises that if you can't change something about yourself in five minutes, you should be confident about it anyway. She believes that pretending to be confident can help you become more comfortable with yourself over time.
On this week’s episode of Anna’s Guide, Anna offers advice on how to be your most confident self. Anna reflects on how she channels her confidence from an inner acceptance of herself and empowering other people. Anna reveals whether she believes in ‘faking it till you make it’ and if someone can ever be ‘over confident’. Welcome to Anna’s Guide to Confidence! 💛
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