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Alicia Keys: 5 Ways to Overcome Self Doubt & Build Confidence Within

2024/11/11
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Alicia Keys:从童年起,我就经历了自我怀疑和恐惧,害怕受伤、缺乏安全感以及被拒绝。这些经历塑造了我,也让我在追求梦想的道路上不断寻求自我保护。但最终我意识到,不能依赖外界的认可,而要找到内心的稳定和直觉,并通过积极肯定来对抗消极想法。我开始练习正念,并通过冥想、写日记和使用水晶等方式来保持身心平静。在与丈夫Swizz Beatz的婚姻中,我们互相尊重彼此的个性,他教会我顺其自然,而我则教会了他如何有计划地设计生活。我们通过良好的沟通来解决分歧,并共同养育孩子,教导他们感恩和自我接纳。在Keys Soul Care品牌中,我将古代仪式和现代护肤理念相结合,旨在帮助人们在生活中保持身心平衡。 Jay Shetty:与Alicia Keys的对话中,我了解到她如何从焦虑、自我怀疑的人转变为如今自信满满的成功人士。她分享了她的心路历程,以及她如何通过肯定、正念和各种仪式来克服负面情绪,建立自信。她还谈到了在与伴侣的关系中如何保持平衡,以及如何教导孩子感恩和自我接纳。

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Alicia Keys reflects on her childhood dreams and the self-doubt that accompanied them, emphasizing the importance of self-preservation and protection from potential hurt.
  • Alicia had dreams and visions as a child but didn't know what would come for her.
  • She felt the need to protect herself from being hurt by people she loved.
  • Self-doubt and fear controlled a part of her life, leading to a sense of lack and worry about rejection.

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How do you handle negative self-talk?

What helps you overcome self-doubt?

Today, Jay sits down with Grammy Award-winning artist Alicia Keys as she shares her journey of self-discovery, resilience, and holistic living. Alicia founded Keys SoulCare), a skincare line emphasizing holistic well-being, and is a co-founder of the initiative She Is the Music, advocating for gender equality in the music industry. The conversation sheds light into Alicia's evolution from a young girl with dreams to an icon balancing a multifaceted career. Jay and Alicia discuss the highs and lows of fame, navigating self-doubt, and the pressures of public life, providing listeners with valuable insights on managing stress and fostering a positive self-image.

Alicia reflects on her childhood fears and the challenges of finding self-worth, candidly revealing how these experiences shaped her. She emphasizes the importance of staying grounded through practices like affirmations, journaling, and mindful rituals—habits that help her stay true to herself amid a whirlwind career. 

Jay and Alicia then talk about the beauty of affirmations and the importance of letting go of perfectionism, a journey that led Alicia to adopt a more holistic approach to life. In her partnership with husband Swizz Beatz, she finds a harmonious balance of "flow" and "design," where they support each other's growth and freedom. This dynamic extends to their parenting style, where they teach their children gratitude and self-acceptance while instilling a sense of humility and grace.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Embrace Your True Self

How to Overcome Self-Doubt and Fear

How to Find Confidence Within Yourself

How to Turn Negative Thoughts into Positivity

How to Discover Your Inner Strength

How to Set Boundaries for Self-Care

How to Be Kind to Yourself

How to Trust Your Own Choices

The journey through self-doubt, fears, and external pressures highlights the importance of staying grounded, trusting intuition, and letting go of the need to seek others' approval. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro 03:54 What Would You Say to Your Younger Self? 05:34 When You Have the Need to Protect Yourself 09:02 From Being Doubtful to Becoming Curious 13:43 What Is Your Affirmation Today? 15:30 Stop Being Mean to Yourself 19:06 Finding the Will to Love Your Own Skin 26:49 Spend More Time with Yourself 32:14 The Gifts and the Gaps 36:19 What Have You Learned From Your Partner? 38:06 Having Healthy Conflict in Your Relationship 45:53 Finding Balance Between Control and Flow 47:51 The Love for Crystals 51:32 Losing the Ability to Trust Yourself 57:15 What Are Your Go-To Rituals to Feel Better? 01:00:08 Teach Your Children to Practice Gratitude 01:03:45 Allow Other People to Speak and Just Listen 01:05:22 Creating Safe Space for Children 01:09:35 Hell’s Kitchen on Broadway 01:15:19 Be Clear with Your Vision 01:22:12 How Have You Protected Yourself from Fame and Success? 01:26:32 Alicia in Final Five

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