207. Johnny McIntyre & Amy Cortes: Love is Blind success love story break down the first year of marriage, venturing into the content creator space, and talking all things $$$
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Welcome back to another epsom of trading secrets on your host, chase and target c, and welcome to the premarket trading segment. We'll say a little bit about what you can expect from ta. Is episode something you need to know about the market and a little bit about what's going on in my personal life? This episode is very exciting.

We have the one the only jian amy from season six of love is blind. Season six of love is blind was filmed in th CarOlina and Johnson and amy got married from IT. Now what we're seeing in season seven, especially with this reunion, it's another show show.

We are not seeing some of the connections that we have seen in the past. So that is exciting to have john and amy on who have made IT who and married. We are working through all the chAllenges iginla show and you meet your future, what?

B and now you live together and you have to deal with career changes and finance changes, all the moving parts like the maham that a situation like that can present and need to are here to talk about IT. Now a quick update from the market. First foremost, I hope everyone has voted.

You have to take your us out there and get IT done once this episode releases is very finite time, and by next week we will know who the future present united states is. And with that, there's gonna be changes. So I would tell you this, the next three to six months in the market, real state market, stock market, all the things let's just use one word and say interesting.

And anyone author that says it's perfectly predictable is incorrect. Uh, another thing you should know about just to go in the holiday season shopping, a ready stat today that seventy three percent consumers said they are slow shopping this year. IT is a trend that is moving towards more mindful buying decisions as we're going in to pee holiday season, people are planning in advance.

They are using alternative areas in places to save money. They are buying proactively is opposed to reactivity and pay attention my instagram because I have a hat coming that can show you how to save a bunch of money when you are shopping this holiday season when you get to the rca, stay tuned. We are talking about some big health insurance things that i've impacted my life.

I think it's really important for everyone to hear whether you have an older parent, grandparent or you're like me and your authorities. There's some shit that happened to me and you're going to hear that in the rk that also connects to something everyone should know about. It's the renewal al skin.

It's prea and you vo go the website and you can see where the right day to get a premiums. That was the craziest thing I did IT. Now IT retails, we talk money here, of course, right? So you should know IT retails at twenty five hundred dollars, but you go to a number I machine and from your head to your, so they scan for everything.

They scan your nervous system, your respiratory system, your circulatory system, your eno cine system, your urinary system, your reproductive system, your digestive system and your muscular skeletal system. And then each of them, it'll tell you the findings that found. For example, i'm on the APP and i'm in the nervous system, and I can look at my brain.

There were no adverse findings in my brain, and there are about thirty different things in my brain that they can from when I click on those, I can actually see the now if I go into my spine, I can see three minor findings. And in the minor findings, it'll show me exactly where in my spine is a minor finding, what I should think about what the level of IT is, all the things. In this scan, I found out some interesting things.

I found out that in my respiratory system, I have a long nodule at point five centimeters. Have to keep an eye on that, make sure IT doesn't grow. IT should be benign. But if IT does grow, we have some issues. If IT doesn't, IT was just from a ung infection.

I found out from the sand that I, by both of my kidneys, I have sites, and I know exactly the size of those sites, and they are both beni, which is good. I know that my knee has some inflation. I know that in my urinary system, that when IT comes to everything regarding my blade and my liver and in prostate, everything looks good.

I tell you all this because I am blown away from the information from my brain to literally my angles. The premium val scan has at all. And you would expect something like this to be an exported amount that that is unaffordable or unattainable.

And why, understand, twenty five hundred dollars is a lot to think about. The fact that you can prevent the spread of something that could be much bigger is unbelievable. So I know this is a gift that will be giving bold to my parents for holiday season.

You guys should check that out, and I will make sure to put the premium val link in our shown nuts. A little update for my personal life. I was back in rochester last week with David.

I went to a wellness retreat this week. I was unbelievable miracle. And it's in upstate, in new york.

And that one years, zona, and it's it's very focused on classes. So we did my breath work and therapy and a lot of internal work. IT was such an unbelievable reset.

IT was everything I needed in more. So the biggest takeaway from the breathing is you should always be breathing to your nose. And I always thought, the raf work, I kind of, I go breath, work the breath.

Ric k, we did there, change my life. There is one type of breath work pretty intensely, did IT for ten minutes to music. And also my, I have, and I just started cry.

IT was crazy from breath work. So anyway, check IT out. I would highly recommend that you could see all the classes.

You could take their, his life changing, like change. And then I got an invite to hide column halloween. Typically with these things, I be, honestly, i've thinking about calcio Anderson trading secret.

We head around where he was like those things by yourself. I always like to go to someone, but they only gave an invite for one. And I went by myself, and I had the best time.

I had so much fun there, great state a few hours, and went back home. And I stayed with and over and stanford. But he was just the costumes.

Oh my god, I I don't know. I I us camin the words. The the costumes I saw there were the best costumes that will ever, ever see in my life.

I can tell you stories for the whole pod. Guess i'm looking at the time. You know what? I'll say those stories for not time. If you want to give us five starts in the reviews, give us five stars.

If you want more hidy colum stories from her alloweth party, just let us know, may be, will you all up? So a lot of action there. And then this week, i'm really excited.

I got asked for a very large company that is publicly traded to speak to the executive group at tiktok headquarters in new york this week. So that is on my radar. It's span again, personally, again, the whole absorb, but just really trying to dig in and and do a lot of work on myself and just it's a lot, it's just a lot.

It's just a lot, but we're get there day by day or get there and yeah, I have to figure out what's next. I don't know what next is it's a big question mark for me. There's nothing any more of time me at a national tennessee.

So I really got ta figure out what i'm going to do and what the future looks like. I don't know. So I don't know if I put IT together, I will let you guys know.

Let's bring in the bell ji. Welcome back to another episode of trading secrets. Today, we are joined by love is blinds newest successful love story and fan favorite jaye marketeer and amy cortez. Jane amy walked away from season six of netflix hit reality dating show as the only couple happily married.

Now, after just passing the one year wedding anniversary on the show, Johnny and amy are continuing to grow into their lives together as a man couple during their time on the show, janean, amy did not hold back on the tough conversations around physical intimacy and financial stability to vary important topics for any new couple, especially with trading secrets. So how have things progressed over the first year together? What if they done to Better themselves as a couple? What struggles have they run into? What are their goals, both personally and professionally, moving forward? We are gonna ch on at all. Jenny, dame me, thank you so .

much to be on trying secrets. thanks. Have yeah .

happy one year. How is the last year? How is ban?

It's been a wild. It's been kind of a world, one of different things coming because there has been so much different change going on. And but it's all like very positive. But it's like where we really planning for something like this yeah then how do we really make sure that we're capitalizing on and and making sure that we're going na be basically the best versions of .

ourselves while doing IT too yeah let's go chronologically back. So once find a time, love is blind, finds you both extremely educated, you're doing well in your careers. And then love is blank, comes your way. How did they find?

So for me, IT was kind of odd. The family via lincoln, like, yes, linked in very random. I feeling it's impossible.

Know if you can are in a relationship when you're on linked in but they message me I thought I was like a recruit so I message back and I was like, you know why why not i'm free the next twenty minutes and political call and like, oh, I thought this was a kind of the score like maybe not real, but like IT was very real. And I didn't really know kind of what's expect for that in my previous staying life before this. Like I was working out good. I was having trouble just kind of getting a little bit deeper. So that's why thought love is well was going going to help me show was just .

getting deeper with like those relationships because professional your IT tex sales, right? So you work in full time, you tell your employer you're gonna go on a dating show. Was there any risk of losing your job then? Did you lose your job that? Did you come back to what I look like?

Initially, I was very positive because I had limited P, T, L. They said, you can take off roughly the three weeks, and they're going to be completely, you know, no phone, no connection outside world, and you come back and have your job right back afterwards. Then as we shifted more towards filming, they basically said, hey, you know, you should probably quit like the company.

And then reapply for a job after it's all done. interesting. So IT was basically kind of like a little game eternally of I really want to take this opportunity.

Do I want to move for with this? And if I do, what's come the next step for me professionally because it's long going to be aired for the year. So how I going to basic in my bills, and I was very just lake, I don't like an internal battle face with myself.

So I went back to my H. R. department. We were able to get a unpayable of absence. Why was gonna be on the show, which worked out perfectly.

get into the first day later, right now you film, and then after the show, you go back to work exactly. Because the other thing too, is you guys don't actually know if your season will be picked up right or or how long right. Once you finish filming IT might be three years IT might be picked up.

They might not even show case you even get married. So there's obviously a lot of risk. And as your plan, your car, so you take a leave of absence, you go back to your career. Before I go to you, amy, we talk financial transparently here just for educational purposes. Anybody that's looking at I T, take sales, how is the structure work .

of compensation for I T basically like asset sales is going to be you going to base salary and then Normally your on target earnings is going to a be roughly double that.

interesting. And let me take a shot of basic basis, going to be somewhere in the seventy five and ninety range. Probably there was depending .

on like your market, if you're going to be the small midd size ID ID size market, world enterprise sales.

And that depends into what company size you're selling into. And you can do up to two times a base on compensation and commission.

Yes, but I know how people who are earning a lot more than that because they just exceed their commission plans OK. Some people my company were making probably three, four times the amount too.

So you know some people your company I T cells are making like seven figures, exactly. wow.

So and that's Normally in other companies to that more focus towards like cyber security or the cloud base solutions.

Good to know. That's very educational. I T, tex cells are interested to make a transition sounds. You can make a couple box there. And we're going to master degree university, a south CarOlina to focus in international business.

He got that batches agreed at university in north CarOlina a at sharlet in your e commerce retail specials for the past three years. You tell them you're going on out. Love is blind. What happens with the job?

So that's actually a funny story because I had applied to be a part of the show six months before filming. So before filming, I had applied in september of twenty two. So my friends told me about the opportunity, and I applied myself as of being scouted.

I actually applied for IT. However, IT took so long, and you don't know like what life is gonna like, so why I had planned trips and stuff. And so I was supposed to be gone for the duration of filming, so I wasn't going to do the show.

A trip cut cancelled. And that was kind of what gateway me even part taking on the show. And what I did immediately was called my manager. And I was like, hey, solving. Like I expect me at work next week because i'm not going to friends anymore and like, this is all happening.

And then i'm also being taught at the same time that I got chosen for the show, but I had told them, no, because I was going to go on the trip. But I was gonna to like, I was just like a rambling and I was like, okay, okay, amy, like, let's take a set back. yeah.

And this was literally holy, like a week going to have to two weeks right before filming. My company did have a limited P. T.

O. And that was my fear aspect of the job. But, you know, especially with three weeks, you have to make sure that you have coverage.

SHE was like, OK, let's take a step back, see what we can do so that you can take on this opportunity. I'm going to talk to h. ina.

I was like, super nervous. What am I putting myself into? Like, we're so crazy. But no, like, H R was able to make that happen or me and they were so supportive, my job was absolutely supportive.

So you're working your company supportive and similar to journey, you finish your married and you go right back to work. Yeah just waiting to see what happens and when he gets air. So you go to this crazy experience, you're married.

You're gone back to work. How long after you get married from film? Do you find out that the show will air this spring?

I think first things, first two is that so basically three weeks we had during filming was really gonna like no phone, no ads, a connection. Of course, as soon as we are the story weeks that we were still filming by amy right away had to go back to her job. So her schedule was basically A A M to five P M of working the corporate job, then five P M to late, close to lic eleven or twelve clock in midnight filming for the show. And that was basically three days out, like the week, and then all weekends too.

And the thing is, as I actually like wilfer's ing, I have gotten promoted and I didn't know. So I come back, I want say, living in a new place with a new role and more respons ibi t ie. S at which was a huge honor.

But IT was something that I wasn't expecting. So IT was a lot to kind of eliminate to that. I think we found out maybe like a couple months before, maybe like november, december, so maybe like two to three months before that the show was coming out in february.

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And when the adults they can use those funds for their first home new car are even to start a business check IT out today. Talk to me about this. Are you film for three weeks, but eight days you get married? Youtube very open about a personal, professional and financial aspects of your relationship.

The biggest question I have is, after eight days, do you have enough time even talk about your finances? Are you considering a press up? Are you even given the chance to have those discussions? Or do you just have to possibly, if you want to do a post up that all happened so fast? No one can no one probably in the world other than the show can relate to that speed, but they can relate to trying to have tough conversations that are sometimes pressed in the cans, being kicked. Some curious, what was your .

experience there? IT is scary because he is very fast. Luckily in the pods though, it's kind of stage like they want you are actually dating all the women for I think was about maybe like fifteen years each.

Then that's fifteen a then the next day only seeing eight of them and IT goes to maybe a half hour long dates to the next day it's only may be like six, seven and it's an our long day each. So each day you going more and more time with them. So towards like the last couple days, will we actually decide that we were going to be no, just exclusive on day five.

And this is we probably maybe the three hour long data this point. yeah. So for day five, day sixty seven, we were having those like really deep conversations about, okay, well, let's talk about finances.

Let's talk about, you know, really kind of crazy hypotheticals. What happens if you know, something happens with your dad and we had to basically be the caretakers for her family, how we going to baLance that? And just like different .

things too entirely? Yeah, I feel like we were getting super deep. And obviously, if there's just not enough time, but I feel like judging the character and asking the right questions to judge the character will help you assess like how everything else is gonna kind of play out.

Yeah, obviously, we talked about finances and we talked about kids and like hypotheticals and stuff like that. But I feel like coming into this experiment if like we're both ready as we're ready for that next space in my life, but to like really test that is all about asking like the right questions and getting to know that person in depth. For example, I had asked him, what have you done to Better yourself as a man? Like, do you read self help books? I felt like I was doing my work where I am and becoming the woman that I am.

And I wanted my partner to match me. So I wanted to see how he answered that, and he surprised me very much. And like how he went about those answers, he would talk about how he meditated, how he journals, how he did read self help books.

He listed, you know, some oh, and I was just like, I could relate to him so much at that level. And I feel like that top me that, okay, he's open minded. He wants to work on himself. Yeah, he's dedicated, like IT told me like certain qualities that would kind of play out into harder conversations. So when you know finances come to play, I feel like we might not meet in the same place in the beginning, but we could potentially meet in the middle because is .

that open minus? It's such a hard place to step into.

You see each other two and your talk is debt conversation. So it's like we're really to figure out like what the foundations going to be like for the rest of our lives in the relationship. And that, I think was really the biggest thing in those, like eight days in the pods.

What is, is he gonna enough this foundation of talking, communicating, being open to really know, hearing what she's saying, and trying to find a good middle ound to meet for compromise in certain situations. Can we do that these eight days? And if so, okay. When we actually see each other person, and we have started living together and start working together, how is IT all going to really just transpire?

correct. Exactly what I talk to. All other couples have come off to show, I still have never heard one back out of rented. You have the conversation you can come up regarding.

I think IT came up later on because we didn't really know is only what to do around like that situation. And my sister and brother law, both corporate lawyers, and they are the saying that, hey, you actually fly think about this. It's not just basically me versus aie or amy versus jy. It's basically how are we going to religious get bigger things out when IT comes to the state versus us?

Yeah that's that's exactly I am improper now because one of force, she's set the conversation and to you exactly right right the state laws get up and state life but I I just have to imagine how how could you have that conversation in that time period? Yeah it's like it's like almost impossible yeah to go to that. But but that I mean the whole thing best thing the show, yes, obviously crushed at this season.

There is nine hundred and seven million minutes of viewing time in the U. S. Seventy percent came from the demo that every shows trying to capture, which is eighteen to forty nine. And obviously, that had a big impact.

And both of your lives, you know, one of the things that one as guys about is now today, when you think about professional lights, like we talked about where you guys were, the show blows up. You get social media following. You get you're married, you're happily married. Where do you go from here in this crazy world? What has the professional world and navigation looks like from the day the season finished airing to now?

So it's really weird because and I guess you want to go first, what kind of like the way you decide to do like corporate life afterwards?

yeah. So essentially bright when everything was about to come out. I was fighting for my life, literally.

I was going through all these physical chAllenges. I like the worst test pain, and then I was like going through other things. I was off and I think IT was really the stress that .

I was dealing with the show. And I was just, you're not I don't know, you felt you just not used to tension of and actually to Better others who there are so many physical things in your body that change for that I do yes.

things too but that was before so and like I I love my job yeah but I was in I I I want to put IT on my job fully IT was just that. There were so many new things happening in my life, changing all at once. I went from super single to .

very much marry .

and then a promotion at the same time. And it's just like storming changes in my life. And I, you know, I would say that I have of of anxiety.

I feel like i've got one Better from. I feel like that's one thing of you know learned since the show came out as how to kind of Better myself in that area. But anyways, I feel like I struggles.

I was strugling a lot at the end of last year being getting this here. And then with the show coming out, I was like, oh my god, what am I gna do? Like how I feel. I'm going to just consist strate. Now I need to take a breather.

And by the same time, i'm such a work at, but john was like, you should really take a step bag like I got a while, the show comes out and then maybe like, you can go back in short space. And i'm just like, honestly, why not? I thought long and hard about IT because I was very back and for, and I was very about what I did.

But I like at the same time, I knew that I could have affected me while balancing everything out. yeah. So I made the decision to leave.

I would have ve done to leave of absence, but unfortunately they didn't offer that at that moment. But they were very open to me reapplying, if that, you know, ever came to be. So I left my corporate role and so have kind of been stabbing into the influencing life.

Yeah, so it's fun. Yeah, but before we go into that, Jenny, talk to me about what what does that look like now? Is IT where you expected IT to be? Do you see the future and continuing to to put all your energy towards IT if we fast forward to that decision, which was one like marches and february were now in june, talk me a little bit about like where .

to stand stand with the vision is yeah so transparently I didn't expect the show tell him as I did. I didn't think that there would be the opportunities that have come from IT. I was just kind of like i'll leave and then i'll go back.

But if there are opportunities that come, then i'll tap into IT and see what there is in that space. I'd like to see him a very creative person. I did study marketing and know that.

So I do love the side of influencing and really tapping into that. At the same time, this is still kind of a new space. Like, I don't want to be like I have you doing this forever.

Like that would be cool. But I also want to be realistic, especially when there are you know, in the future when there are new responsibility, E S. That come in. It's just like, I don't know how that would look like. I'm just kind of more focused in the president. At the same time, I know that I have a great education, my body, I have a great work experience, so that if I end up doing corporate life again, I can definitely tap into that or maybe even try both. So it's just kind of like a question mark right now.

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Are you talking me about this? Are you on like the trajectory? Or have you earned more in this space than you put in your previous space?

yes. So I definitely have earned more in this space than I have in the previous space hand. At the same time, there's more flexibility.

I think I love to travel. Yeah, that's one of the main reasons why I studied what I did. And so now getting to do IT with the person that I love and having the flexibility to tend to my family. I mean, I have, other than my parents, my gram on her two sisters are, you know, elderly, live with my parents and you know, being able to support my family and being therefore them is so huge to me. So there's a lot of flexibility and like more income .

that comes from IT. So exactly, join, I want to ask you is I don't want to make this assumption, but just looking at your resume and your masters and just your whole track, very traditional, just like mine was right as a result of that. I find that sometimes when you take a shot like you're taking, there's probably a lot of outside noise from bari far and possibly in your inner circle.

I'm only saying that because i'd dealt with IT. Have you doubt with that at all in your inner circle outside noising? What that have you doing? You get your masters, two great schools. yeah.

Why you doing this? Like have you doubt that? If so, how you come?

I feel like I feel like more so from my gram of, for example, she's very involved. Yeah, but she's more traditional. I feel like my dad now that he sees where I am, how happy I am, the fact that john y and I have such a great relationship, which is like the most important thing of all, and that, you know, we're doing well right now.

He's so support IT. He was all about, you know, getting the education and following that traditional path. But I think he sees my happiness and he waves that more. And I feel like my grandma doesn't understand what influencing is or what looks like.

So she's just like, I don't but I think she's also falling that same path as my dad where it's like he sees that i'm happy yeah and that's all that matters. But other than that, like everybody around me, like my close friends and the rest, my family have been super supportive in terms of, you know, following what I feel like is best for me intuitively. But I feel like anybody holds me back to myself because I have told john IT time and time again, like, what if I can do both, like there's a tie? Because I feel like I did study so much to to kind of go back to that corporate lifestyle like it's kind of like, you know, I don't want to say it's a toxic relationship because my job was in bad, but it's just kind of like you see like what Better things you could do and you still kind of have that type pulling you back. So I think like that I have .

a struggle with, but I don't know. I just of course, you I think individually, each of those paths will suffer a little bit, right? So as supposed to being able to get one hundred percent to one and accelerating, you'll be giving you will have, I mean, just you'll have to give seventy five percent, seventy five percent of what you can do.

And so maybe that's an answer. Now maybe that works best for you to you figure that out. Last question I ask for them come to jie is in the small a start up space called burn rate, right? Like how much cash you have until your company goes out of business? Like how many months can you support the Operations? When you think about your path in this space, do you have an idea just about going back like is is like, okay, i'm going to go back to corporate and two months, three months, six months.

five months was, yeah we actually have had that conversation. I feel like as of right now, we will probably be good for the rest of the year. I feel like at something that will consistently like reevaluate, just make sure that we're seeing on top and like having that communication.

But think now we are just going to continue enjoying our marriage. We got married in such a fast pace process, and so we just kind of want to do anything and everything and really enjoy IT. And so I feel like that does give us that flexibility in doing so, but I feel like it's something that we might you reconsider next year and see like we're standing if we need to consider that as an option and we can keep doing what we're doing now.

Okay, path flies like at least the end this year are john y you're an I T. sales. You talk about the money of IT.

You get marry, go on the show today. We fast for the show is air. You ve had some success, some great success and social media.

What is that look like today? What is the professional career outlook look like today? You're still in IT sales.

So no, so actually amy left when the show is about to air. I decided I wanted to try to really kind of make IT work and see if I can do that, you know, still work my Normal job and still trying to be an influencing really create contents. Honestly, that's just like what you said.

Giving seven, five, seventy five IT was very much that my attention was on. Wonderful thing. I was always thinking about work when I don't create content, and then my focus was always on creating concept.

I was at work and I just wasn't really working out too well. So I had to a conversation like my bosses with my managers, like everybody else and we can decision that. Do you know what publish to a step back from this? Yeah so i'm closing up the rest like my like larger deals I had for like that quarter and they accept away pretty recently. So it's about probably three .

weeks in total. Oh gosh, yeah, this is like this is recent new year exactly. yeah.

I so like in my situation kind of very similar like when the corporate world and the social media world to come together, and especially like when you're sell in until your level IT could create a lot of touch points. Let's and so this is for you. I can two thousand nineteen. So even before there is more understanding at the space and they pretty much they are just like ultimate, you're done with that. You're here or you here and you're done with that was IT somewhat similar to that scenario that was pretty .

similar pretty point where so my role was basically more than a higher role in the office for two days, working for home three days, and I feel I could have kind of managed everything. But then travel came into like what was mentioned before. We started filling this.

H, we get a lot of troops planned from going to, would we go to go to mother graduation to go to a lata film? Certain things. And I got to the point when they said, hey, you can do this.

Yeah, but you can't do this even that was you. I was in my number. I was doing well, my job. They want me to be more so kind of in the office opposed to doing my job outside of you.

Let me ask you this, do you think IT was control because they were focused on performance? Or do you think there is a little bit of control because of env of what you are doing? I really can't say for sure. Yeah, I know I can say it's certainty IT was a hundred percent ending IT was like the more the opportunities game they were, didn't they didn't put any expectations on the other people the way they are putting about me and I know I was I had to do with a little bit of like we're going to try and control this situation. I don't know that that was my thing, but yeah, alright.

Yeah, impossible. The sapper show other people think in their mind.

I don't actually say, course, you know, give me, but doing that your whole life a lot of change. You're now three weeks and do IT give me one professional high and professional low since making that decision.

So one festival high has just been the workplace baLance. I would say, okay, it's very easy. Do things cut up on your own schedule when you're just going to be content creating?

So you're allowed to take trips to allow to visit family, you're allowed to work on size and sunday opposed to monday at nine am, you logged in for a you know. So it's a lot more flexibility with that. And that's something that I really like.

And ultimately, I don't even gna be in this my question for later on two. But ultimately, I i'd love to be able to go back to some sort of selling capacity by the same point. This life.

Sam stealing right now is something I would love to have as like a parent when a older, so I can actually be there for my kids. If I kids have a soccer game or baseball game or restless match, I can actually go there. I can be a coach while still being able to provide my family financially because I am still working in some capacity.

Yes, exactly. So that's I think is playing the biggest high for me from something away. And actually being able to due content creation below is more so kind of going on that mindset of I need to be busy twenty four seven, I feel i'm still kind of in the mindset. I feel like when he comes, like the corporate world, you have to be doing, you know what you're doing, twenty four, seven, if you plugged in, grinding right away and you can have a more of a baLance of maybe taking things for yourself and maybe taking a second to really kind of gather your thoughts before going into the next thing.

interesting. So you think when you're in that corporate, me, there was a lot of like check boxing and now they're in this new space, it's like you don't only even sometimes you don't feel as accomplish because you're not check boxing, but in reality, you're actually giving yourself more space to like think with test, like checking those .

corporate boxes exactly. yeah. I think there's a lot of like you get the anxiety that you know you could be doing more, especially in sales.

It's like you could make a couple extra calls, could be doing something else. I goes about beyond to yourself apart from somebody else. yes. But if you're not doing that, is IT really going to be that negative in this space? Okay, because the sales IT might be, but in this space, IT might not necessarily or much is not be necessary.

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So right now, it's going to be given to the end of year, right? So december is going to be when we really have that hard decision of what do you want to move forward? Do you want to continue this?

Do you want to maybe change and should focuses joy might want us, which should another career path to whether be going back into software sales, going to I T sales, going into maybe some more fixable like even real state too? Yeah, because I do like selling. I do like the meeting people and working with them.

By the same point, I do like the flexible have right now. So maybe a different capacity, but at least until in the year, we do want to give this a shot and really just bend ourselves and see how how we can take this OK and then from there, really just kind of figure out over that. You nice.

cool. This is a question for I know my listening audience. I'll say, okay, so amazing.

I love what they're doing. I'm excited about. I'm inspired by what about benefits?

You guys had all these benefits with big corporate. How do you guys have benefits? Say, what does that look like? What you do so .

I think IT was when the show first came out. We actually working with, uh, our talent company required. I did have a call with away, yes, and I was really focused around benefits is, hey, how do we actually get help insurance? How do we get a vision dental?

I I swear, obviously, we have talked you were read a lot of conversations. I forgot about that until I just brought that up. Now i'm now i'm take all come back to me because that was like the thousand, a long time that because you reach a Megan about that and that if I swear like everything.

yeah, yeah. So what do you want to to do? So we are going basically two different pass. So I I don't know.

I went with the kind of ginning I the united health care to the about a week ago. nice. So haven't using a which is really cool. You're good, but that's really start doing with that and then actually could be a healthcare focus as far as retirement.

We've met with a bunch of like financial players around that to really help out with what should we continue to contribute while we're still paying our bills, while we're still trying to really figure out what. Commission or just what going we making in the spaces in like as a whole? yeah. So you mean with them to discuss like the retirement benefits and the retirement planning and then also just different people like I like A C P A, like just like everything is is like a business expense goes, okay, cool.

I love IT. So you want to go the world guys, with the recap, i'll break down all the different insurance options if you decide to become self employed. Curious though you said different.

what is you in the yes, so ended up going with blue cross to show that because I have health conditions, I, I, I say struggling, but unfortunately he is more of a healthy boy. I need a barely goes yeah to the doctor. I need a little bit like I need something more that could offer a little bit more. So that kind of the .

row I went on k to ask, give me that how much you pay per month for insurances?

So right now, the campaign, two hundred yet for everything that's going to be for medical, for vision.

I think I was with the golden rose pain, like one, seventy five or so. Yes, i'll tell you what i'm currently playing pain after amy, amy.

what you really pain. So mine is that I believe three.

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three, forty four, yeah, yeah, thirty.

So i'll tell you guys my story in a rica. But I was on the golden role. I then had to.

I got kicked out of the golden role. I did. I did a telephone story in the week.

But essentially I did a proactive health exam for preventative that just one of my friends father's had our hearts care. And I said, what? And his seventy four years worked in healthcare.

That was one thing you would have done differently, because he had a quite grup bypass, like he shouldn't, that he was a four aries of black, yeah. And is like, this is, this is the thing I won't done. I would have got this scan.

I go to get that scan. I know a little bit of bit kick up in a, and then golden role kicked me out. So I had to go to affordable care act because I got a kick down a golden rule, and now I pay three, seventy five, two.

But i'll tell you all the specifics in the recaps are more to come on that. But I know fast with that now that we know everywhere you're at professions fight and where you're at this, where we got to talk about, it's a big thing that people listen. And you guys have talked about IT on your social media and you ve talked about on T, V.

What's next in a relationship based on what you guys have talked about passively creating a family with family and children? There becomes a lot of things that wants to hiap personally and financially. Big discussion topics for each of you.

And let us go back to love is blind. There was, you know, on T. V.

There was you guys talking about, like a the whole idea of even being into mate because you want to make sure you are personally, professionally, financially aligned. Let's first start there. Talk to me about that thought process when you are holding off. I'm intimacy because you want to make sure the foundation was there before even taking a chance of that. I think that also connected to be preparing professional financially as well as you think about kids.

Yeah, I feel like that that process kind of like the whole conversation initiated because we were like opposite ends of the spectrum in terms of our life experiences and like where we kind stood at that moment. So when we talked about IT and we were just like, what if something happens? We were just trying to, like, cover all the bases. I feel like we are very much .

over thinkers and planner, which is so opposite from the show.

Total up is actually, I think the big tim that really got to like me though is the fact that .

I was just very fast pace.

Yeah we export .

the dying process, explain the you being an uvc 了 space and then we got married right away。 Yeah, the last year I want to do was just exit the next process that is just very, very fast, just stop comfortable.

And I mean, I and I feel like we both a line on we have kids how like we aligned on that yeah, but we talked about like but what if and like mean not being on birth control yeah did raise that rise. So IT was just an important conversation to have and be cautious .

around yeah I think more so like that conversation really Spark bat, how we're going to start to having these actual difficile conversations in the future yeah and kind of going back to before like leaving that foundation, you know when we're just going to talk, how are you you going to be having this conversation is are going to be very much no, i'm right. You're wrong.

Like that's IT or is going to be hey, let's actually figure out why you're thinking this way or why i'm thinking this way. Yeah and can dive deeper in to okay. Well, you know, growing up, this was the expectation or is this was the expectation? 是 this let us are taking this way。 So as a couple we can know, again, meet in the middle in a certain kind of middle ground. Yeah, the very.

very, very mature approach. I mean, when I wrote my book talk mind to me, one of the big stats was three course relationships deal with money tension issues and their material tension issues. And half of those over half them have decreased intimacy because of money issues. So it's interesting that you guys kind of reverse engineered IT in the fact like, hey, let's proceed with caution to make sure everything is aligned first. That is extremely mature.

It's very intelligent in its obviously watery to so let me ask you this then what when you have these financial conversations because you guys are doing them at such a fast be compared to all americans statistically, where has the biggest disconnect come when you're cause is hard to step in these because when you step in to them you're going to disagree. That's why it's where has been like the biggest disconnect with the financial discussions. Connect and earning is IT like idea. What is that specifically? The initially I was just more so.

I mean, he studied finance that was like his major like that this thing which I absolutely loved because I feel like that was my strong. So you know, I had graduated grade school and then was starting up my career and my life. So IT was just a lot of new territory for me. Know I had my savings account, but I know I know I really dove into that.

So I feel like my thing was like I like to live more in the present and like I didn't really think much of about the future, but I know that there is an importance in the future, but I feel like I gave more important to the present or as he was more so focused in the future and not so focused in the present. So I feel like that's what we kind of very much opposite, but we didn't meet in the middle to create that baLance. And I feel like you know that something that we did have consistent conversations about.

And I feel like to this day, IT has helped us in, in both ways. I feel like i've learned so much from him and like from the resources that we've seek. But he's also like anyway, to live more in the president. I have fun and all that.

So I think i'm hearing tell me from think i'm hearing you maybe more of a spender and more of a so then just getting that on the same playing here. I always say like associate spenders immediately with negative connotation or savers with great connotation. And there's pluses of ministers to both.

You know one of them saves sometimes have a tough time like enjoying the resources that they've earned because they are worried about IT, right? That's typically where I am. But spenders also have a ton of great qualities. They can see opportunities and capture um they probably high risk towards, which means that be able probably earn more on risk of things that they do with their my select there's there's IT doesn't mean one's write or wrong. I think it's finding the compromise in going in figuring that out a lot.

I think it's also like growing up we were definitely both would would like difference financial kind of lives yeah as far as like with me, he was very much everyone, you may say at least little bit IT yes, versus other aspects might be, hey, like I have the snow I want .

to spend on the right now yeah yes, that's thing. Like I mean, even with my family, my dad was also very much of a huge saver. But also like you know, being that provider and in the family.

And I feel like we both came from lower economic and backgrounds. And I feel like with that, I can either go either way. Yes, I I like exactly what happened. So with him, he kind of adapted that believes the sim.

And I also, I I didn't I just was like, I want to live my life because I was social turn and I want to spend all this and do others. You know, I felt like, as you know, being together really helps us learn so much in so many different aspects. And I meet in middle.

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Talk me about tactics. Have you have there any specific tactics that you ve implemented? Have you created a joint account? Do you review financials once somebody do you like tactically do anything that has been very helpful or that work well?

So the big thing is that we did start doing a more like a joint that kind of business account we have for you know just the month for like you know up to this point, right? Yeah from there, we have kind of like our business expenses and also like our persons expenses. So you take a certain amount each month towards like our personal expenses and that's hey, honestly, get whatever you want to get. I could care less about exactly what you're picking out of what you're choosing. You get whatever you wanted get treat yourself to that one and how do the exact thing on my .

and to that's bit. So you guys have the business pool, the income goes in. And then from the income, you'll decide .

how much you could do with a personal and you just do no.

I think it's you know, what I love to is it's it's not you're eliminating this whole shame and guilt of where you're spending your money. It's more let's make IT together and then what we have and you want to if if your priority is spending this is at A B, N, C, go do that. Like because that doesn't mean it's my priority, but makes you happy. So I think it's great.

I fully growing up to I did see other families that were very much like the husband's kind of a hawk on the life. And like, oh, why do you buy this? Why do you buy that? Or vice s so it's like, let's not even do that if you really want.

I I can't stand when a body of minds mazing packages a so I just saw you about two thousand dollars on a game. Okay, and you lost that. So the point is IT doesn't mean that one's is right or if that's what makes you happy and that's your number of story, let her do that.

And if gambling your form of entertainment, your number one, whatever you might be, you and then you know the other areas were low and for list summer could afford at all cut there. But like I think that judging weapon zing shaming, it's it's it's just create resentment. And then we know with the money in love game, the resentment decreases, decrease connection .

with the word. And I feel like that something that we talk about all the time is like how can we eliminate resentment both up in the future? Yeah and it's like having open honest convery, not letting things get soft to the rug just like that. Like in terms of finances, like allowing us to be us as individuals because, you know, my personality is, I like, you know, the good things.

Yeah, we are. We are very simple, a lot of ways, also a very different and a lot of ways too. And I don't want to say, oh, no, like your way is right or wrong.

Yeah, I want you to be your own person. We are together because we are good together. But working good together because I am john y and SHE is aid. Yeah, if we were just one together, we probably ouldn't be very good together. Yeah.

you're going to read a love of money book and you join the coast to get a spending plan. You talk about IT. You know what you understand shows differences.

IT is it's quite impressive. I want to go to this transition. Let's I got going about netflix.

We d love netflix. We love their shows. We love their talent. I'm curiously with the bachelor, if you can I don't know if you can share this or not.

Don't think it's anything that you couldn't share about the that sometimes people come on and will pay for your rain or they'll help with the wedding or things like that. Is there been anything like that? Like does that lets help out with the rings, the wedding planning or anything like that? What IT comes to finances and your personal lives, not your married because of the show.

what they look like. So production was very good with basically kind of giving us all the resources that we needed to essentially get married. So the course of the ring that was covered, the the ring to us to which is really, really the wedding, also covered two wedding planning. They were able to just specially kind of get what our thoughts were on this, like we to start we wanted and they're able to basically do that for us.

Yeah, they kind of just made a into reality because I feel like we were so busy with balancing everything out that we didn't really give us much time as I would have wanted and think god had came out like as I did but like I feel like we didn't give IT too much thought as to like what a wedding like I I hadn't even thought about like yeah wedding before that so IT was just like so much new suffer us all at once. But um I feel like we just kind of talk about what we like, the static that we liked and we they brought IT into fruition and they .

I you know there's body. I mean, listen, you're given an opportunity to show and then IT creates so much opportunity that you might people believe your jobs to create a different direction. And then so many individuals leave the shows and then try and point the finger the shows and beat them, bob, and it's so great to hear like that.

They help you with all that financial an, in wise, the time commitment. A that is that also go netflix. Go of wine.

Do you see a future in T, V, that flicks reality? T, V? What is a look like? Give me, we are numbers. You give me the percentage that we might see on another reality shows some capacity.

I'd say I probably solid twenty percent, twenty percent. Okay, what kind of show what would be if you want, if IT was to be some sort of chAllenge, check that box on successfully. So but how do you something like that? But the way they see is that he was very fun.

He was very cool. But I feel you leave a lot up to chance. And I don't know. I can like to be control a certain thing. yeah. So that's why it's very kind of little low on the spectrum right now as far if put our content like I want to be able .

to see the concept before IT comes out. Ah yeah, yeah, you've roll the day enough.

Yes, again, I guess that you work for us. Yes, we wanna come out as winter is like going back in and then see what happens afternoon .

know you guys i've talked a lot about buying a house in real state, definite staying .

and sure .

IT for the yeah for the next like three years I feel like yeah i'll see once amy's .

families to locate here. My families spread out across like main new hampshire, now texas as well. So it's basically we have family here when I sick by IT because if not, it's okay. We go to either someone we're going be completely isolated or by half of my family we could be amiss. Whole family.

You guys are making a tough to find holes and like where the holes. And I want you're honesty here. I want to say a couple of numbers and I want you to just tell me if you know the numbers about each other. I just be on, do you know what to around little .

is funny because I just check.

I found a home. I found a home.

What is that give me around about? Usually i'll have like the the pad and paper and go right down. Black just came .

from the flights. Take, this is the honesty policy I wanted.

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some forty, okay, a little, not a big deal. guy. Take a shot of Jenny.

God, I haven't see. This is something like me.

I know I found a whole baby. I did my job after an hour 的。

I'm going to guess me like seven fifty eight.

Wow.

exact number two. You know, take a hit. So i'm sitting about seven thirty right now.

Okay, you know, it's really good. It's last time we did this on the show. Credit came in and desponds working on sponsorships. Yeah, they they got a deal from that. So what we're on IT, if you don't mind sharing what just because someone to learn from that, what happened that created a hit on their credit.

So basically, IT was we've did a lot of travel and that something was covered, but others of IT was IT. So because all on the credit card that went up a lot and now when the probably paying IT down.

get IT. okay. So very good. Let me ask you, do you know what and others is around annual spend?

Oh, I don't know if you .

have to guess or monthly spend. If you have to get monthly spend, my bit easier. Yeah.

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think I would say, maybe like close X K.

what do you say? I would say it's pretty accurate. Okay, let's go, amy. I was going to say for amy IT was probably going to be .

around maybe five to six.

no less more. I really like.

yeah, said you were the spender. This is simulate here.

Yeah, what comes days? Oh, here you go. here. Use my car. But now I can .

add a little. It's called business dinner after work as now I love that what we did find a at least one two host find actually because IT seems like everything is perfect is is the one what do you think there's one thing that gene spends on? And unless john y goes broke in to continue to overspend at that, what do you think the answer is? And Johnson, let's go to what the answer is.

So sometimes he does .

get enforce the house, but .

nothing crazy.

What is the only spend up our .

three dinners like that? Because it's me. The problem is, what do you overspend .

down unless you broke, you going to keep spending at IT? What's the answer?

I just generally, I am like, I love to dinner. I love just like having a full fridge and just like, what are the options I can have tonight? Okay.

we yeah, I likely know .

monster posted a Snapchat. T i'd took party about two years ago. Yeah, I was try to go rice OK.

And I turned to just like a way, so picked the way to pay. No, no, no. He was like a three pound.

Like we to just write some some and like you can like drop on the counter. IT didn't move. I didn't spread a power. IT didn't break IT was just what did you put there? I guess not nothing too.

Are you good cook?

I'd like to think again, baby.

Okay, her gram on her mom and her hand told her very well.

so funny, because the whole like that was just a White rise. And remember, in the begin of our relationship, I made just White. I mean, I like it's the most basic thing like wall, this races.

what would like .

it's what's the I am so at last one will do, got to go. Amy, what's one thing you think you ever spending and .

less plea to keep .

in actually skin .

care million, what are you .

going to say traveling, traveling. I like we'll .

do a couple things, but I I love going out with the girls too. So right go somewhere I am here's my car and put you .

got to a have that irl time ah .

traveling skin are like I think skin care .

everyday come back. There's always like either automatic or four bag and like it's always there. It's like, oh, what's this is a different size bag than yesterday. It's like this ones like this big, this ones like .

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big like and I .

there's fits and rap with your trading secret caller from profess caller from a tiktok er youtube tutorial. Only from your life experience could be a financial tip, professional tip or personal tip. Who wants to give their training secret first ably of verse, right? John y, give us a train.

You, I think, like the bigger thing is like when you're feeling comfortable. That's why the best time I can do something different because it's very easy to say the same place year year and just stay in that same mindset. So it's best to take a chance in yourself and do something that might be at the box because you really never know how what's going to work out.

I love that. I love that. And also with tough, I think a lot of what you've done to is stepped in the tough conversations, and I think it's tough to do that. But when you do set into those IT could be so preventive of tough situations in on the road, which is something you have clearly secret what can leave?

It's so class, but I would say follow your intuition in your guy and just trust where all guide. I feel like i'm very happy where I am right now. Gd, I took that risk. But but it's one of those things that I could change in the future and my intuition might leave me somewhere. So I just kind of all comes down like serendipity and like what comes across your path and what to take on.

So yeah and I think anyone can relate to question your intuition because of other people's perspective, or judge specially on social media bit in all areas. And so trusting that is huge. And is everything all right? Well, if people want to find more of amy and Jenny, where can I find everything get going?

Yeah, girl can follow .

me at Johnson underscore underscore mac entire because apparently there is a john y underscore.

Yeah, don't screw that two. I don't go. I follow. okay. And are you tiktok .

OK tok as well? I'm not very present on tiktok, but i'm trying to start making a lot more. K and we know if you wanna to hold the government just like.

We had one person around the show who, at eighteen and five weeks, men, over million dollars, eighteen years old. What can people find?

So instagram is amy ani with a one. why? And then tiktok is.

you keep in people guessing with these at handles. I love IT will give amy and joining a follow. We're going to have to do to follow up in a year from now to see if you're back in the corporate crime still doing.

Your entrepreneurs are excited to, but thank you for trading. All secrets are coming out. Thank you so much.

We are closing the curious canadian. We are talking all things. Love is blind. We know that love s is blind. Season is out right now and uh, generally, IT makes reviews out there.

A lot of critics are saying that this could be the potential decline of the show because of the shows authenticity. We know right, like at the bad, it's Better around twenty four years. And of course, the biggest thing has always been said for the right reasons.

I think we're starting to question right now, love is blind. Are those people in IT for the right reasons, especially when we saw the massive, massive success of last year and show, I mean, you are a serious stars there making serious box. But David, we got anian genia, beautiful, lovely couple, very well spoke and very articular. Almost every perfect dance for two perfect people. What do you think?

And David, i'm taking a lot of things. Let me touch on the first thing that you talked about. A love is season and seven. The first season of love is blind. I have never watched.

I know that you ready said to me before we hoped on jay said, what you summer to you, if the curious canadian is fAllen off his reality. T. V, but you know what I whether whether wasn't hipe enough, whether I didn't see on my social enough, I haven't been gravitated to watch the season. So i'm curious from your point of view, how the ratings are.

I just wonder, Megan over the hill, M I getting out of the game? Or is this a consensus among a lot of people here about season and seven, the first of the locations in washington in dc, you can find a more boring location to me than washington in dc to get excited about seeing people. But I die.

Grass, I can see your brain work, and I think you do in your ratings thing. So let me talk about amy journey. I watched their season.

I love them. I thought they were great. I actually think that john y reminds us a, reminds me a lot of our body hog got the right things to say.

He talks about his work the same way the hok talks about his work. He's very on point with the words he's very professional and there are great couple there I say there there I say too perfect of a couple. I mean, these guys very thing and Young and they're yen and Young and they're finishing each other sentences.

You know the only thing that they didn't know is there there a credit scores is opposed from each other and are about ten off. So that that was by take. I mean, they they seem to have the same downpour.

They seem to be in IT for the right reasons. They were authentic on the show. They came off the are in the room.

I wasn't. Did you get that same feel? They sweet, very good.

Almost agree with you. Almost like I I almost want to come up. Give me something like this is literally just perfect out here.

He doesn't brush his teeth before he goes to bed at night or maybe he only like, no, he he only makes bed. But that well, like any some yes.

we're who's picking up the the close off the floor at worst case area here. So yeah.

who doesn't do the dishes?

But they're cute. They're doable. And I was, I was fun IT was fun to talk to because a very smart people, interesting, i'm bring somebody down. Variety is that love is blind has once again returned to the neilson ratings streaming top ten.

The series re debuted in third place, was one point one billion minutes watch from september thirty to october six, during which was the first six episode of the season seven that were available for the first five days. So the first five days love is blind was crushing IT. But then when I go and look up, David, about the reunion and what just happened, right, I see some of the screen rant right now, which extreme rant whaever going to take the source for days.

But i'm convinced that love is blind. Season seven reunion was the worst yet. The show is falling after unsuccessful seasons.

So when they, when they're talking about fAiling, I think the referred to the actual relationships. But IT looks like there's a lot of critics out. They are saying that as this season went on, IT just got worse and worse. But you know, David, let's take you back from love is blind to amie je, anything specific in this epsom that I asked to bring up or you wanna talk to?

Yeah, you got this insurance story that you are really eager, you're really eager to tell. The people seem like you we're gonna dig into little bit detail on the let me wait, sounds like a recap thing so I have died. Don't know anything about the story. You're gonna IT. I'm in a react.

When can go from there? I'm glad you brought this one of David. I tell you what, this is a crazy history probably in in my life. true.

Wow, so my good friends father, a quite durable bypass or sitting IT together after he makes IT out and said, tell me the story he said, I won seventy four and he wakes up in the night and he's feeling a little lot of breath and his wife said, dome as a phillie elephants on your chest and he said to his wife, no, but he feels like maybe a baby offit three thirty in the morning now what everyone right now to think about three thirty in the morning, you feel like a baby elephants and just seven four what you going to do when I go back to bed, right, like up, I get up his wife says, no, we're going to hospital they go to hospital while he's sitting there in E, R, not knowing what's going on. They're literally telling him his body is having a heart attack. He has to immediately be rushed in the surgery locker.

Es everywhere, quite drubbed ass. The doctor said to him, if you went to bed that night, you won't woke up. Load away.

So I said, do said, okay, it's lot of learning, less to do, so much to learn or we talk to a while but that was one thing if your my age, I talk to my parents in the sixties, like what is one thing they could do to maybe prevent this given the fact that you see this coming. So there's a bunch but will give you one. Go get your calcium score.

Now, your calum for my doctors after there, apologize if this is awful a little bit is a very none doctor description. But think about your blood vessels, right? Like your fit ear, your blood vessels, were they where the blood is flowing? Think about IT.

Like traffic, a highway, everyone's movement right well around the barriers. If you think about your blood vessel as a cylinder, calcium can build up. And is calcium build up? It's a slower vessel for the blood to move through.

And when calcium builds up too much, you could be blockaded. We could connect to a heart attack, he said, just go to get your calcium um score. So I call my parents mom, dad, i'll get your calcium um score.

My mom gets a done perfect. Couldn't be that my dad gets IT dad, my dad works out six days a week. Guys got to six.

Back is an animal. His calcium score is off the chart to bed like literally the cardiologist can believe his eyes. How much calls him here built up.

Now he's done through A K. G. Now he's going through stress testing.

He's done die placement through his arteries to make sure that blood is flowing properly. He's doing all the right things. He's on stat.

He's me with the cardiologist. But then, god, he did this at sixty four and now is ahead of IT. So I said to myself that dad is that that i'm going to go, kay, so I go.

I get my coal seam score done. I work out four, five times a week. He pretty healthy.

Body fat is probably lesson five percent, like i'm a healthy guy. Always happened, mike. Healthier scores off the charts like what the hell.

So now I am on in I me with a cardiologist, I have to give my healthy and score checked out, all because of my friends father giving the piece advice. Now here's the kicker with insurance. I was on a small business policy or it's a more like an entrepreneur policy where he has a five year term.

So my term was coming up when they found out I had calcium build up at any level on my score. They kicked me off. Wow, kicked me off.

And I thought, IT, my cardiologist, thought that my cardiologist, like this is super early, is nothing to be worried about. This is just early detection insurance that we don't care. IT kicks me off.

And if he wasn't for affordable charge, I would in a hat. My my know, because of i'm not it's not it's not very it's not that affordable. I am not any discounts or anything because of a income and stuff like that.

But without affordable to care act, I wouldn't have qualify for any insurance and therefore I would have had zero health insurance because of a test that I did to preventatives ly identify something in my body. When I went to my doctor name and I told him I want a calcium score, he looked at me like I A heads to go to to thirty five and healthy or blood works perfect. You're not getting a calcium score said, or me a calcium score like fine.

And then he saw my result. You must fell off the chair. Crazy, crazy.

How medicine like it's not preventive in places we needed to be in certain areas. This is one of them. IT was learning experience .

a couple of things sticker for me. One five percent body fat. I mean, that's right. That's do you know why?

No, what you're stressed in function the best you lose weight. okay? Oh, I last twelve part thirty. I have thirty pound alright.

So that's just that's amazing. In second, that's crazy.

Yeah way they revise. Be your covert. So we are at the highly halloween party. David and I, like five days before, were crushed 披萨 away。

Sounds like how is IT possible? You pulled that office on what we eight, five days ago. So that's probably have a eaten .

since then is ridiculous. And I want to mind like that. No, I can't believe that in twenty twenty before seemed to be twenty twenty five or not at a place where medical practices you like. You know when you go to the airport. And you put your hands over your head and to do the thing how we not at that, or you do some similar, and you get a body can that shows all your organs and your and your .

and your kidneys and things in your blood.

And you just kind of go through that and highlights the bad things that on.

Thank you. Because in the insure I talk about this, I actually the pro uo I you don't listen the intro until the episode de comes out.

I got.

yeah I did the premium v san day. Now this is probably the most life changing thing i've ever done, twenty five hundred box retail. They put tuna scan for fifty minutes, head to toe.

They give you all the information you could possibly imagine about your irrigators system, your respiratory ory system. They scanned every area of my brain. They gave me at my liver, my kidney, my limped notes, my lungs, everything.

And then they give you no activity, found by no activity or moderate. I found out to this scan that there are a couple things, either from some lung infection. I have a long natural point, five centimeters.

I know that i've sist some both kidneys now, but their benie. I know that i'm my limpin te. I also have assist. I know that I have three areas in my spine that are minor, but I gotto watch out for they do a full scan, every single organ, your Price day, every your knees, they, they saw information in my knees. They give me the X A crazier thing i've ever done in my life day, with removal, life change, that for my holiday, for my parents, at the very least, that i'm starting. They're both getting their .

see that also bull ship because i've just feel like how many things are there about our health that were just not told about or that were not like educated on or that we don't know are available. And it's our health. Our health is the most important thing available and twenty five hundred dollars I would like you know, that's not that much money considering all the things that we spend on.

And its related to the number one thing that we should all have the education on or at least the piece of mind on, it's kind of bullshit in. You think if that was a little more readily available, maybe that's something that, as we talked in this episode, employers might offer as a benefit or something like that to be able to get that done for their employees once you I don't know. I'm just saying .

when I talk to when I talk to my like friends about this and I like sure I say like my parents or their parents friends and I tell them that is twenty five hundred box, they can't believe IT now date, let me show you, like, this is respiratory ory. So they have like all these things that my sinus, my lungs, all the stuff look at. Let me to show you the skin of my lungs, I give and all the information.

So here's the skin of my leg. So David, looking at this right now, you can see, look at this kind of my lungs. IT shows the exact nally.

See that red circle, yeah. And IT shows how big IT is. And I know if that thing grows at all, at any capacity.

I have to keep an iron that and would have to immediately come out IT then tells me the recommendations IT tells me the description that tells me what can causes long natural. And then after you do this thing, I met with a doctor for an hour and they went over everything. That is not.

it's not out there. Look at, look, look at all of this info were packing in this episode from john ning just, you know, an all american reality T V. That's like, you know that that's what it's all about these days.

They're just doing that. They are doing IT, right? And there's they're fabulous.

So I love the epsom. I love hearing about your stories, love educating myself on some health. Things was great, David.

to bring back to money for just a second. Yeah, rax, that's the pockets about, right? How much should they say their health insurance was? Just want to compare IT.

john, I was at two hundred and months and he was three h was three hundred and forty four a month.

Okay, so the plan I have that three, four years about, well, don't get your calcium score track. everybody. Yes, check out the prenez al.

Can I think twenty five, five hundred box, if I could save your life, is worth getting one again to make sure there's nothing abNormal and love is blind he and seven. David, you're the reality T. V guy. You're the, you're the guy that supposed to be scroll and you got to get back in the game.

Yeah, I might. I might hate watch IT. You know, if I hate watch something, I usually crush IT pretty good. So I I might give a little hate watching and go from there.

I IT.

I might actually like IT, who knows?

I like IT. David, there's still one thing we got to do. You're going to look at the reviews and you're going to pick three people who gave us reviews and apple and just list off their user names.

And we have three gifts for that. So if you guys are listening to this, we're going to do IT to get, we have two more gifts. We did three this week. We do two next week. Just give us five stars on the snow. Your bigger take, wait or guess you want to have on, but data list of the three user names, and if your user name is called, just shoot email trading secret at Jason tc that com and we will send you your breath.

Are here we go, a great lesson from trading secret S E C R E A T is the user name kinder, sneaky in there. Love the post positive outlook on life. Just a good all around.

good. listen. Love the variety of guests. There you go.

There is one there. Yes, let's go. Informative and entertaining from brit p three o one.

I love this podcast because the same form of I find finance is so intimate, but i'm learning so much more from just listening. I always get my pop culture fix with some of the guests. hello.

Well, one guest I would love to see on is Perez Hilton. Last one we got is ali sive. What a cruel examination, mark.

This group is what dreams are made of. Justin was absolutely right when he said, you all have something special besides being on T, V. Follow all of you independently and love to watch how you all continue to grow. Amazing job illegal.

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