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【人间杂谈】爆笑!男性遭遇的棘手提问!

2024/9/23
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老三:在暧昧关系中,女生可能会问一些难以回答的问题,例如谈过几次恋爱、最长一段恋情持续多久等。回答这类问题时,要诚实,但也要注意方式方法,避免过于直接或敷衍。要根据具体情况和对方性格调整回答方式,不能过于直白或含糊其辞。 例如,当被问到谈过几次恋爱时,可以如实回答,但要避免过于详细的解释,以免引起不必要的误会。当被问到最长一段恋情持续多久时,可以简短回答,并避免提及分手原因等敏感话题。 在回答过程中,要时刻注意对方的反应,并根据对方的反应调整自己的回答策略。如果对方对你的回答表示不满,要及时进行解释和弥补。 总而言之,在暧昧关系中,回答问题要谨慎,要考虑对方的感受,并根据具体情况调整回答策略。 小葱:在暧昧关系中,女生可能会问一些关于自拍、健身、异性朋友等方面的问题。回答这类问题时,要避免过于直接或敷衍,要根据具体情况和对方性格调整回答方式。 例如,当被问到三张自拍哪张好看时,不能说都好看,要选择一张并给出具体的理由,避免过于油腻或低情商的回答。当被问到要不要去健身时,要反问对方,了解其想法,并给予肯定和鼓励,避免直接否定或干涉对方的生活。当被问到是否有异性朋友时,要根据实际情况回答,并解释原因,避免过于虚假或不真实。 在回答过程中,要时刻注意对方的反应,并根据对方的反应调整自己的回答策略。如果对方对你的回答表示不满,要及时进行解释和弥补。 总而言之,在暧昧关系中,回答问题要谨慎,要考虑对方的感受,并根据具体情况调整回答策略。 夏晓:作为女性,在暧昧关系中,我会问一些比较尖锐的问题,例如谈过几次恋爱、最长一段恋情持续多久、是否主动追求过别人、有没有被别人追过、是否相信男女之间有纯友谊、和异性做过最暧昧的事情是什么、分手后还能不能当朋友、个人开销花在哪里最多、更喜欢一个人相处还是跟其他人一起相处、以及对理想伴侣的看法等。 在评价男生的回答时,我会根据回答的诚实程度、技巧性、以及是否考虑我的感受等方面进行综合考量。我会更倾向于那些能够理解我的想法,并给出合适回应的男生。 总而言之,在暧昧关系中,沟通和理解非常重要。男生需要学会察言观色,根据具体情况调整自己的回答策略,才能更好地与女生相处,并建立良好的关系。

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Why did the hosts decide to discuss difficult questions men face from women?

The hosts decided to address this topic because they had previously promised to create an episode about the challenging questions women ask men during the ambiguous stages of a relationship. They wanted to fulfill this promise and explore these questions in a humorous and entertaining manner.

What was the first question posed to the male hosts, and how did they respond?

The first question was about the number of past relationships. One host answered 'four,' while the other struggled to respond, eventually saying he had been married once but hadn't dated much. Their answers were judged based on how they handled the question in a hypothetical romantic scenario.

How did the hosts handle the question about choosing the best selfie among three options?

One host avoided saying 'all are good' and instead focused on complimenting one photo while subtly praising the others. The other host also avoided saying 'all are good' but struggled to provide a convincing answer, leading to a discussion about the importance of not appearing too generic or insincere.

What was the hosts' reaction to the question about whether men and women can have purely platonic friendships?

One host firmly stated that there is no such thing as a purely platonic friendship between men and women, arguing that if two people get along well, there is always some underlying attraction. The other host agreed but added that work relationships are different from friendships, emphasizing the complexity of the topic.

How did the hosts approach the question about whether men should be the primary breadwinners in a relationship?

One host expressed a traditional view, stating that men should work while women focus on maintaining the household, but he also acknowledged that women should have the freedom to choose. The other host agreed, emphasizing that it depends on the couple's preferences and that both partners should support each other's choices.

What was the hosts' response to the question about whether they prefer solitude or socializing?

One host said he prefers solitude, especially in quieter settings like a bookstore, but also enjoys the company of a few people. The other host used his experience of running a bookstore and a bar to explain that he enjoys the calm of the bookstore more than the social atmosphere of the bar, suggesting a preference for quieter environments.

Chapters
本期节目讨论了在暧昧关系中,女性可能会问男性一些难以回答的问题。两位男嘉宾分别扮演暧昧对象的角色,针对几个典型问题给出自己的回答,并由女嘉宾进行点评,最终评判谁的回答更胜一筹。
  • 在暧昧关系中,女性提出的问题往往具有多重含义,需要谨慎作答。
  • 真诚和坦率很重要,但也要注意方式方法,避免过于直白或冒犯对方。
  • 高情商的回答能够巧妙地化解尴尬,并提升自身形象。

Shownotes Transcript

本期节目补一个听众群里的坑,

很久之前的节目里我们似乎立过flag说要录制一期

《男性很难回答的女孩提出的问题》,然后就给忘了.....

这期就由夏晓充当我和小葱的暧昧对象&裁判的位置

让我们回答一下这些让人无语的问题

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