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#181 Dr. Gio Valiante (Part 2): Failure and Success

2023/11/14
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Dr. Gio Valiante: 本期节目探讨了失败与成功的关系，以及如何从失败中学习和成长。他指出，成功与失败并非对立面，失败是成功的一部分。他提出了掌握导向和自我导向两种成就目标，并分析了这两种导向对个人成功的影响。掌握导向的人更注重学习和解决问题，而自我导向的人更注重超越他人和自我形象管理。自我导向的人在失败时容易感到尴尬，而这种负面情绪会阻碍其发展。他建议人们应该从“为什么”出发，重新审视自己的动机，并纠正对失败的反应。积极的应对方式如幽默和接纳，能够帮助人们从失败中学习和成长。他还强调了自信的重要性，以及如何选择性地倾听值得信赖的人的意见，并利用这些反馈来改进自己。最后，他还分享了自己对成功的理解，他认为成功在于对自身体验质量的关注，以及与有趣的人相处，并从他们身上学习。 Shane Parrish: Shane Parrish 在节目中与 Dr. Gio Valiante 讨论了对失败和成功的看法，以及如何克服恐惧，从自我导向转向掌握导向，以及如何识别何时应该坚持，何时应该放弃。他提出了关于成功和失败的常见误解，以及如何从成功中学习，以及如何判断何时应该止损并转向新的挑战。

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Fear often prevents us from trying new things due to the fear of failure. The key is not to avoid failure but to learn how to fail in ways that lead to skill development and long-term success.

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In the second of a special two-part episode, performance psychologist Dr. Gio Valiante calls on his vast experience working with some of the world’s top athletes and entrepreneurs. Shane and Dr. Valiante discuss thoughts on failure and the fear that holds you back from making the most of your talent, shifting from an ego orientation to a mastery orientation, common misperceptions about success and failure, and how we learn when it’s time to cut our losses and move on to a different challenge.   Valiante is regarded as one of the most successful performance coaches in the world. He’s worked extensively with golfers on the PGA and LPGA Tours, Olympic athletes, and leading figures in NCAA football and the NFL, where he served as the Head Performance Coach of the Buffalo Bills. He has also logged over 5,000 hours coaching some of the most sophisticated investors in the world, including hedge fund manager Steve Cohen.   Listen to the first part of this special episode on the Farnam Street blog) or wherever you listen to The Knowledge Project. --

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